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Genuine Mistress not money orientated - 3/18/2017 2:29:17 PM

slave416

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Are there any females out there who are not actually seeking to make money from domming ??? Starting to think this website is not for me because all the women on here just want paying. If I want a pro domme I won't go through here. I could be a very good submissive slave to the right Mistress, finding her seems to be the problem...

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RE: Genuine Mistress not money orientated - 3/18/2017 3:37:52 PM

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There are lots of them, however, to meet them you will have to make an effort. You'll need to join Fetlife and find out what munches and groups meet near your area. OR, you can do a google search for the munches and groups that meet near your area. If you want to meet real time Dommes, then you need to go where real time Dommes hang out. If you are unwilling to do that, if you want to only look online, then your chances of finding your perfect match are slim.

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RE: Genuine Mistress not money orientated - 3/18/2017 3:49:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: slave416

Are there any females out there who are not actually seeking to make money from domming ??? Starting to think this website is not for me because all the women on here just want paying. If I want a pro domme I won't go through here. I could be a very good submissive slave to the right Mistress, finding her seems to be the problem...

First, welcome to the forum.

Second, I believe this post would have a better response if you put it in the General Discussion or Ask a Mistress sections. This section is for introductions only.

But to answer your question since it's already put out for viewing.

Yes, there are Dommes out there who are not "money orientated" but in all honestly, this is CS. I don't need to really elaborate on that one. Take it as you will.

However, as a Domme, I was immediately turned off by your last comment on your profile. Whether it's written because of frustration or your own definition of what you believe "genuine" is, it's negative and a little too aggressive.

Also, both of your profiles (I read the FL one as well), as detailed as they are, do make you come off as one dimensional and focuses too much on BDSM. The whole "I live to serve and I will do anything you want" thing is not a good selling point. Even Dommes have vanilla lives. If you are looking for a serious D/s relationship, you need compatibility in all aspects-not just with interests.

Instead of using CS and FL, I would advise you to check out some local munches or gatherings to meet people. Also, contact some clubs in your area to see if your services could be of use to them.

Good luck!

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RE: Genuine Mistress not money orientated - 3/18/2017 4:18:43 PM

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I could be a very good submissive slave to the right Mistress, finding her seems to be the problem...

How you're looking might be the real problem. Your chances of finding somebody on this website are on par with getting struck by lightning while holding a winning Powerball ticket. Follow the advice of those above me have already given you. Good luck.

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RE: Genuine Mistress not money orientated - 3/19/2017 3:19:19 AM

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quote:

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Are there any females out there who are not actually seeking to make money from domming ??? Starting to think this website is not for me because all the women on here just want paying. If I want a pro domme I won't go through here. I could be a very good submissive slave to the right Mistress, finding her seems to be the problem...

Have you checked the profile of every single female dominant on this site and all of them are seeking payment for service? If you say yes, well that is clearly untrue.

As for people seeking payment, in my opinion, if a person want's a service and does not want to bother to build a connection with the person providing it then I feel it is appropriate that they should purchase and pay a fair price for that service just as you would go to the supermarket and pay for groceries and not be allowed to take them without paying. People should not expect a female dominant to give them their time and energy and they don't give a toss about the dominant and consider her as something to use and discard (at the user's convenience of course) cos that is exploitation and sick and unethical. :)

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RE: Genuine Mistress not money orientated - 3/19/2017 4:28:20 AM

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I believe that demanding money from my slaves is a natural thing. I do not need their money, I simply love to own even that vanilla part of their lives which is work. I make them work for me - and this is part of our little game. What good of having a slave and not being able to control everything about him or her?

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