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patheticslave11 -> Financial Domination (3/19/2017 8:38:30 AM)

Hello everyone,

I assume this has been discussed here before.. and I posted a few years back and got some great answers so I wanted to post again now..

Long story short I'm 29 year old sub male, and I have a vanilla girlfriend.. I find myself addicted to financial domination and blackmail. My girlfriend knows that I call up Niteflirt and talk to findom's over the phone.. But it's getting to the point where I would rather be humiliated and blackmailed by domme's than have sex with my own girlfriend.. would you guys say its time to end things? Or is this financial domination thing not a good idea?




Lucylastic -> RE: Financial Domination (3/19/2017 8:49:58 AM)

Do your girlfriend a favour and ditch her and leave regular chicks alone until you can get unaddicted, its not fair to them.
Go have fun




LisaSadistic -> RE: Financial Domination (3/19/2017 11:25:42 AM)

And they say you're just a poor, innocent victim being exploited by the ebil wimmins.




ReMakeYou -> RE: Financial Domination (3/19/2017 3:00:45 PM)

If you'd rather engage in kinky acts than have vanilla sex with your vanilla girlfriend, that's something you'll have to talk to her about. Maybe she can try topping you, maybe you two are just incompatible on that front.

If your ideal woman is one of these niteflirt girls, that does become a problem. Not the findom angle, but the part where they're selling you a fantasy that winds up being unhealthy for lots of guys. They're always kinky, always showing you their best side (because they only log on when they have their game face on), and always ready to give you what you want (because that's what they get paid for). Real women, including real kinky women, will have off days. They'll have complicated life issues. And they'll want to do things things other than kink you up. Being seen as nothing more than a kink dispenser is something that many of the ladies here have mentioned repeatedly. If you're into these girls because they're always in domme mode (because that's what you pay them for, and because you never see them when they're not in job mode), you should probably stop just to avoid building bad habits.




LadyPact -> RE: Financial Domination (3/19/2017 3:07:38 PM)

Yes. Do the right thing.

You care more about your addiction/obsession than you do about who is there in your real life. How is that right to her?

Get addiction therapy.






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