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peterK50 -> Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 4:44:13 AM)

I'll try to put this delicately...There are some Dom/mes on CM, [based on message board posts & personal contact], that I consider dumber than Congress. Is there anyone here that could submit to someone they did not respect intellectually?  My answer BTW is no.[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif[/image]




subnumber1 -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 5:02:59 AM)

There are intellectually challenged people in all walks of life. I am just glad for the small mercy that most people on here are nice. Whilst I don't always get a response to my emails, any  I get have always been polite, and not one would I have thought was not above average. (Mind you I don't email the wacky ones!)






Sticks and stones will break my bones, but whips and chains excite me!




Level -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 5:07:10 AM)

Nor could I take a submissive that I considered "dumb"; this, to me, falls more into the "close-minded", or unable to think, than lacking in knowledge. I can always fill the intellectual cup, so to speak, but only if there's an opening to do so.




juliaoceania -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 5:44:50 AM)

100 percent no way....




TNstepsout -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 5:44:56 AM)

Nope. Not now, not ever. Couldn't do it. I'm a bright girl and I would feel drug down by someone dull and stupid. (not to mention fantasies of choking the life out of him for being a dumb bastard probably wouldn't lend itself to being a good submissive)




LL1aintbehavin -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 5:53:00 AM)

peterK50.
Very good topic.  To me it runs along the lines of the Dominant is always right lol. 
i find that my creativity and imagination and need to learn draws me more to the intellectually stimulating types.
i enjoy having deep conversations with people, and would be bored silly if i was not challenged to think by my Dom, or in reverse that i could not bring a new idea to His mind to discuss.
So i guess the answer to your question is no i could not be with one that did not have a certain IQ level.
aintbehavin




Ariel -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 6:04:39 AM)

Even though I am not the submittin' kind... LOL... Nope Nope, could not do it, I need to be mentally stimulated. [8|]




littleone35 -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 6:13:04 AM)

I agree i could not submit to someone who is or was dumb.  I need a Master who can stimulate my mind as well as my body.  My Master has 2 Masters degrees but he is also street smart.

Matt's littleone




dsalphabunny -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 6:19:05 AM)

straight up, no way.  for starters what would W/we have to talk about if He can't carry on a reasonable conversation?




RavenMuse -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 6:54:39 AM)

Works both ways. I wouldn't collar a stupid girl, she'd bore me to death.Also pretty hard to teach someone when they simply can't grasp the concepts behind what you are teaching them.




myst2 -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 7:01:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peterK50

I'll try to put this delicately...There are some Dom/mes on CM, [based on message board posts & personal contact], that I consider dumber than Congress. Is there anyone here that could submit to someone they did not respect intellectually?  My answer BTW is no.[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif[/image]


Nope,  but i would not call others stupid either.




cheshireboy -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 7:04:35 AM)

another nopers here, boy loves mental foreplay far too much to be able to give it up, even if she had a nice pair of legs.
 
cheshire




mistoferin -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 7:05:45 AM)

Nope...couldn't do it.




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 7:46:10 AM)

I do not think I could. It would be nearly impossible for me.




slaveofdarkhold -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 7:52:48 AM)

depends what you mean by dumb.

If a person is open minded, and willing to learn/educate themselves, and seeks to better themselves, I would not be put off by lack of knowledge, or by them not being able to pick things up quickly.
I couldn't submit to someone who could never admit when they dont know or understand something, who was closed-minded, who had no desire to learn, or who tried to pass themselves off as an expert in any and every subject raised even when they know nothing (I think we've all met people like that). That's what I consider real stupidity and someone like that I would struggle to maintain a frienship with. A D/s relationship would be right out.




hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 8:12:57 AM)

I can overlook temporary ignorance if someone is Willing to learn.  I can't, however, overlook an Inability to learn or an Unwillingness to do so.
 
I have to have someone who is at least close to the same level of intellectual Capacity as I am - otherwise I get frustrated and bored.  After all - you spend more time talking to someone and spending time with them OUT of the dungeon and bedroom than in it.  If I can't talk to them after I'm finished fucking them bowlegged - it just isn't gonna work.




SCORPIOXXX -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 8:25:49 AM)

To peach and all too...

Have I got a good one for you and the Topic! I write to a sub; she writes back saying that Imay be too smart for her because I use Big Words... Wow!... I reply encouraging her to re-read the letter (it did include my version of a sub/slave's TRAINING MANUAL)with a dictionary, or to point out whatever she didn't get and I'd simplify it... She never wrote back... Oh shucks! LOL!!!

Let's face it, not everyone has access to good schools and education, but if they are not willing to learn and improve themselves, then yes, they are too dumb -- at least for me...




happypervert -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 8:38:17 AM)

I think folks gravitate toward others who are close to them under the intellectual bell curve so they can have mutual respect. So smarties will pair with smarties and dumbies with dumbies . . . so all the "kneel bitch" trolls are just looking for gals as dumb as they are.




sleazybutterfly -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 8:47:34 AM)

I would have to say "no" also.  I want someone that I can carry a conversation with about something besides the new fall line-up on CBS.  I need my body stimulated, but the first step to that, is to stimulate my mind.  If someone cannot do that, then I will become bored and probably move on.
 
~Andrea




Jasmyn -> RE: Intellectual Respect (7/26/2006 8:56:31 AM)

peterk .. "you're naughty muriel"  [:D]   (it's an obscure reference but I'm happy to respect anyone who doesn't get it lol)




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