BigBadWolf
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Evolution of a master part2:
When I last left you in this story my new wife and I had made the leap into adding corporal punishment as part of our erotic play.
As I stated she was 6 months pregnant at the time so despite her desire for harder {make me scream} seens I could not, I was too scared I’d hurt the baby.
It bugged her I was holding back but after a talk about what I was unwilling to do while she was with child and what she wanted me to do to her we found common ground.
{Finding a partner you can talk with about your desires is paramount to success in any relationship}
flash forward several months my son was born, she was busy with the boy, the weight she gained wasn’t coming off as fast as she liked and generally she was feeling down Valentines day was coming up and being a good hubby I took her out for dinner bought her a mothers necklace with our son’s birthstone in it plus what I thought was really sexy outfit. I thought she’d love it but that only made her cry. {we hadn’t been able to play for two months after and for us newlyweds that was FOREVER…
Especially having a newly discovered kink;
Undaunted by her tears I simply whispered to her. “That dress is going to look really good on you once I whip it to tatters”. Her reaction was a bit unexpected; she clutched the dress to her protectively and said. “The hell you will! It’s brand new! You can tear up one of my old one’s”. and that’s what we did.
{Side note here: I’ve never meet a women who didn’t enjoy having a blouse ripped open during erotic play, but don’t screw up and rip her best $90.00 one, she’ll just be pissed}`
anyway that led to a new game. She would look for old sundresses at the thrift store then I’d blindfold her tie her up from a ceiling beam {as in hands over her head} and slowly rip the dress from her frame with a little flogging or paddling thrown in. nipple bites work well here too.
A few thoughts before I close. First and foremost, a good seem in 99% in the mind. What goes on in the minds eye is unique to each person. Its best not to alter what that vision but add to it blend it with color, sound and smell. The world of fantasy is to rich and complex you may physically be in your living room but once the mind takes flight…
Next on the hit parade is do not be constrained by what us so called experts say is the right way to play. No two people are the same what is right for me will undoubtedly be icky for another.
Lastly look around your house, you don’t need to spend several paychecks on toys. Some of the best gear can be found in your kitchen drawers, in the laundry room. Look in your junk drawers, we all have them and you will be surprised what you find when you have purpose behind your eyes.
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Live Well. Love Offten and Dream Of Wolves in the Dark....
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