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I personally have mixed feelings about how I'd approach a relationship with a transgender person, and it is purely from a sex POV. I have seen photos, and for all I know may have met some FtM men that I have found very attractive. So as males I see no issue with them ... well actually now I think of it, two things ... one being height, because I have a thing about tall men, so if he's tall, all groovy, but then after that it really does depend on how the transitioning works. I admit my ignorance here, and it's not for the lack of trying to research the subject. You see I can not stand toys when it comes to sex. It's boring. I'm sorry to be so crude, but I want to be fucked by a hard cock. That's what does it for me, and no amount of telling me that there are other ways to orgasm ... I mean for crying out loud, I can do that myself ... but what is the point of having a man if I can't have him as I want him? Now, if a transgender man is capable of giving me that, we're set to go.
Needles
I didn't find it crude at all. In fact, I think it's a great way to describe this in a nutshell because you very specifically listed two preferences. Even if we were talking about cis men, nobody that you were choosing not to date would get to start throwing the prejudice card if they weren't what you wanted from your relationship.
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ORIGINAL: vincentML
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I hope this photo comes up clear enough. This is Nicole Maines who was born an identical twin boy but transitioned M->F. I am hardly familiar with Lesbian preferences but I don't see how Nicole would fail to be attractive to many gay ladies.
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Nor to a few lecherous old men.
Nicole Maines is a lovely young woman. I did not intend to minimize the topic of this thread by posting the photo. I hoped that Greta would see that Transgender people can be as attractive in their identified gender after transitioning. I am currently watching a documentary called TRANS on Amazon's On-line Service that is very informative. You can probably buy it if you are not a member of Amazon Prime. The movie is inspired by the work of Dr. Christine McGinn, who is the surgeon pictured below.
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I don't think you minimized it. I think there could have been more explored, if people had the interest.
You picked a very lovely young woman. Not to nail you to the cross for it or anything, but it's the easy go-to. Pick somebody that's especially attractive and of course, people are likely to say yes. This is something that I've heard discussed before on a few different levels because how physically attractive a person is when they are m2f, some view, as the ability to be accepted more. Kind of like the same thinking of how it goes for cis women when we're talking about how looks matter in some areas.
But there's still more to it. Thanks to your post, I got a chance to read more about this young woman. She's had other advantages that I think are interesting, too.
Diagnosed early, medical treatment so that she never developed what people call 'male features,' family financially affluent enough to be able to move so that she could live stealth after the court case started, and because she already had all of her prerequisites for SRS fulfilled by the time she was eighteen, she was able to do that prior to college. Areas that this same young woman wouldn't have had if she had been born twenty years earlier. These areas, to me, would have to at least help in self acceptance, adjustment, and so on. Wouldn't these, too, influence a person?
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