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NoirMetal -> submission styles (5/9/2017 12:54:58 PM)

I understand there is more than one.

How do you relate if your itch is to surrender?




tamaka -> RE: submission styles (5/9/2017 8:30:32 PM)

My submission style has always been to become whatever my Master or dom has needed and wanted me to be. Each Man is different so submission is transforming into what He wants in His life.




Greta75 -> RE: submission styles (5/9/2017 10:41:25 PM)

I'm into sexual submission only and not domestic and not out of bedroom.

So for me, it's simply never refusing sex. I have a track record in my life of never refusing sex from my men, vanilla or bdsm, no matter how sick I was. I would make myself available and ready at all time and any time at their choosing. There is no wrong time, or inappropriate time.

I have this desire to always be sexually ready for a man. So I suit a man best who just want sex whenever he wants sex. I don't want him to care about when is appropriate.

Even if I was very tired and I have worked too much and slept too little, I would be ready when he wants it.

That is my perfect dominant. Who would want someone like that, in terms of sexual service.

But everything outside of sex. I'm not a submissive in those areas. Because I really know what I am doing. And I like running the show.




WhoreMods -> RE: submission styles (5/10/2017 7:43:32 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NoirMetal

I understand there is more than one.

How do you relate if your itch is to surrender?

You're the only one who knows that, I'm afraid. If you have no idea what your limits are, you're not going to find out until you run into one.




BitaTruble -> RE: submission styles (5/10/2017 1:25:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NoirMetal

I understand there is more than one.

How do you relate if your itch is to surrender?


Can you clarify? Perhaps you could the share a few of the styles of which you are aware and I can put some thought into an answer.

Are you talking M/s, D/s, O/p sorta stuff?

If that is the gist..I identify closest to M/s with a hefty dose of Leather born from the biker community (yes, I ride..wait..I am lieing. I rode, now I am strictly bitch seat except I don't trust anyone enough to sit there. Rocks and hard places and all that.)








DocStrange -> RE: submission styles (5/10/2017 8:45:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NoirMetal

I understand there is more than one.

How do you relate if your itch is to surrender?

Interesting question. I am not sure I have a style. I have kinks, but not sure about style. I guess I would say my style is I am rather dominant in my work life. So submission is a nice release for me. It is a chance to give up control. Give up decision making. Not to have to worry about making a decision. It is a freedom. It is a chance to be the kid inside of me.




vincentML -> RE: submission styles (5/11/2017 7:43:38 AM)

Whatever reduces the stress, whether the behavior is strictly physical or mental drama. "Whatever" comes with a few hedges of course. And like the true addict, always seeking an alternate game. Most importantly is the need for intimacy, for human connection.




WickedsDesire -> RE: submission styles (5/11/2017 3:52:16 PM)

Who are you?




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