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There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 6:11:59 AM

spideycool69

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I'm not sure where I'm suppose to complain. There was no option for me to report the user either. So, I'm doing it here. I apologize if I wasn't suppose to post it here. If that's the case please advice me on what steps I need to take.

So, the username is [username removed]. At this point I'm not sure the user is a woman or a man pretending to be a woman. We agreed to a particular session/arrangement. The user agreed. I sent the user the tribute that we both agreed on. As soon as the user received the tribute, he or she or whatever the user really is blocked me.

This never happened to me before on this site. I've had good experiences with other mistresses on this site. I know what i did was risky. I'm not asking for a refund. I just want to warn others about this user. This user's profile seemed genuine to me and it may seem genuine to others as well. So, i'm just giving a warning.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 6:14:41 AM

Hillwilliam

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What part of "never send money to any other user on this site" is not sinking through your skull?

You were warned in writing by the site and chose to ignore the warning and now you are whining about being 'taken'. Consider it a (hopefully) expensive lesson.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 6:34:06 AM

WickedsDesire

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I believe you as much as i did that fake profile you named.

Ask the regulars on this forum http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_6/tt.htm for advice. I presume you were looking for a cam-cam session

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 6:42:55 AM

spideycool69

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

What part of "never send money to any other user on this site" is not sinking through your skull?

You were warned in writing by the site and chose to ignore the warning and now you are whining about being 'taken'. Consider it a (hopefully) expensive lesson.

What part of "I know what i did was risky" is not sinking through YOUR skull. I acknowledge what I did was risky and this is the first time this has happened to me. Ive sent tributes several times here and never experienced anything like this. So, in a way I started a having more faith on this site which i shouldn't have. I'm not asking for refund or revenge. I'm simply giving out a warning. There are others who sent tributes as well. This warning would be helpful for them.

I love how this trend is still going where whenever OP starts a thread, there has to be someone criticizing OP. It seems like it has become an obligation to criticize the OP whenever theres an open window for it. In all threads there is always someone attacking OP.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:00:11 AM

Lucylastic

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You did a stupid thing, but this is the boards fault.
yep, its all our fault people make bad decisions and then blame it on another person, without proof, without evidence, without anything but your word.
There is a LONG history of people blacklisting others just to be spiteful, vindictive, malicious.
Send a mail to support, then delete, block and move on. Oh, and learn your lesson and then make up a plan so that you dont get fooled again.
Keep your wallet close.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:22:57 AM

WickedsDesire

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Do not push your luck - you have good advice, not that I personally believe one word of your thread.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:30:12 AM

needlesandpins

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

What part of "never send money to any other user on this site" is not sinking through your skull?

You were warned in writing by the site and chose to ignore the warning and now you are whining about being 'taken'. Consider it a (hopefully) expensive lesson.

What part of "I know what i did was risky" is not sinking through YOUR skull. I acknowledge what I did was risky and this is the first time this has happened to me. Ive sent tributes several times here and never experienced anything like this. So, in a way I started a having more faith on this site which i shouldn't have. I'm not asking for refund or revenge. I'm simply giving out a warning. There are others who sent tributes as well. This warning would be helpful for them.

I love how this trend is still going where whenever OP starts a thread, there has to be someone criticizing OP. It seems like it has become an obligation to criticize the OP whenever theres an open window for it. In all threads there is always someone attacking OP.

You were the one that was stupid, you admit that. We don't need a warning, because unlike you we're not stupid. The other stupid people like you don't visit these forums, they're all on the other side, cock in hand, credit card out, and ignoring those big red WARNING WORDS that already exist for the stupid, like you, that the rest of us don't need.

So you see, your warning is pointless, and as you seem to have been here long enough to know how these threads go, why the fuck did you bother? because you've shown yourself to be double dose of stupid haven't you? I mean, we do also always point out that A, naming and shaming is against the TOS that you agreed to, B, you ignored the site's warning signs, so more fool you, and C, your target audience isn't even here.

Go whinge to someone that cares.

Needles

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:42:52 AM

Greta75

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69
What part of "I know what i did was risky" is not sinking through YOUR skull. I acknowledge what I did was risky and this is the first time this has happened to me. Ive sent tributes several times here and never experienced anything like this. So, in a way I started a having more faith on this site which i shouldn't have. I'm not asking for refund or revenge. I'm simply giving out a warning. There are others who sent tributes as well. This warning would be helpful for them.

I love how this trend is still going where whenever OP starts a thread, there has to be someone criticizing OP. It seems like it has become an obligation to criticize the OP whenever theres an open window for it. In all threads there is always someone attacking OP.

I agree with you that there is some crazy over-reaction over here going on.

But end of the day, I don't think this site cares if there are women scheming men online on it. They simply provide a platform for people to offer whatever to each other. Whatever happens, they are hands off.

And technically, it's against T&C to mention personal unhappiness with any users on this site, even if they genuinely did cheat you.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:48:17 AM

spideycool69

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

You did a stupid thing, but this is the boards fault.
yep, its all our fault people make bad decisions and then blame it on another person, without proof, without evidence, without anything but your word.
There is a LONG history of people blacklisting others just to be spiteful, vindictive, malicious.
Send a mail to support, then delete, block and move on. Oh, and learn your lesson and then make up a plan so that you dont get fooled again.
Keep your wallet close.

I already made a plan. And, yeah i learned my lesson. The hardy way. :/

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:57:19 AM

Lucylastic

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The best lessons often are learned the hard way. sadly
But protect yourself, Im not against guys who tribute, or not, or the dommes/ cam girls/slaves, or whatever, but I dont like scammers. male or female.
You gotta do your homework to sift thru the chaff.
I wish you luck, seriously.
But the board gets so many posts from people who have been "scammed", we cant do anything about it as a forum poster.
Blacklisting is vindictive.
You can only report. block and move on.
unless you take it to the authorities.

good luck

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 7:58:59 AM

spideycool69

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Collar chat never changes. Same old stuff. Always attacking OP. This is the last time I'm posting here. People love starting arguments wherever they can. This is why collarspace is the shittiest site. Can't even complain without getting attacked. I would suggest all the real Dommes and subs to join findoms.com where subs have to cam verify and Domes have to cam verify. This gets rid of the time wasters and the scammers. I tried giving this site a chance. I can't even report a user. On top of that i can't even talk about it without getting attacked. Only one person gave me a good suggestion here (although i didn't ask for it but it was nice of him). Rest just want to call names and start a fight. You people keep on fighting among yourselves and keep carrying on this stupid trend. I'm outta here. One last time. Collarspace sucks.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 8:02:00 AM

Spiritedsub2

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Read the terms of service of this website. Blacklisting a specific user is prohibited. You chose to ignore that, and you chose to ignore the big red letter warning against sending anyone here money, and you got burned. This post and your whining say far more about you than about the user you blacklisted.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 8:10:40 AM

Lucylastic

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Collar chat never changes. Same old stuff. Always attacking OP. This is the last time I'm posting here. People love starting arguments wherever they can. This is why collarspace is the shittiest site. Can't even complain without getting attacked. I would suggest all the real Dommes and subs to join findoms.com where subs have to cam verify and Domes have to cam verify. This gets rid of the time wasters and the scammers. I tried giving this site a chance. I can't even report a user. On top of that i can't even talk about it without getting attacked. Only one person gave me a good suggestion here (although i didn't ask for it but it was nice of him). Rest just want to call names and start a fight. You people keep on fighting among yourselves and keep carrying on this stupid trend. I'm outta here. One last time. Collarspace sucks.

ah well

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 8:18:21 AM

Greta75

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Collar chat never changes. Same old stuff. Always attacking OP. This is the last time I'm posting here. People love starting arguments wherever they can. This is why collarspace is the shittiest site. Can't even complain without getting attacked. I would suggest all the real Dommes and subs to join findoms.com where subs have to cam verify and Domes have to cam verify. This gets rid of the time wasters and the scammers. I tried giving this site a chance. I can't even report a user. On top of that i can't even talk about it without getting attacked. Only one person gave me a good suggestion here (although i didn't ask for it but it was nice of him). Rest just want to call names and start a fight. You people keep on fighting among yourselves and keep carrying on this stupid trend. I'm outta here. One last time. Collarspace sucks.

Seriously, the one thing I don't understand is IF that other site you mentioned is the holy heavenly grail for dommes and male subs. Then why did you even bother giving collarspace a chance?

I stay happily here because this site works best for me. And I enjoy all the functions. And feel no need to give any other site a chance, because I feel this is the best.

So Obviously there is something dis-satisfactory in that site you mentioned for you to resort to giving this site a chance.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 8:23:13 AM

needlesandpins

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Collar chat never changes. Same old stuff. Always attacking OP. This is the last time I'm posting here. People love starting arguments wherever they can. This is why collarspace is the shittiest site. Can't even complain without getting attacked. I would suggest all the real Dommes and subs to join findoms.com where subs have to cam verify and Domes have to cam verify. This gets rid of the time wasters and the scammers. I tried giving this site a chance. I can't even report a user. On top of that i can't even talk about it without getting attacked. Only one person gave me a good suggestion here (although i didn't ask for it but it was nice of him). Rest just want to call names and start a fight. You people keep on fighting among yourselves and keep carrying on this stupid trend. I'm outta here. One last time. Collarspace sucks.

It's not the site that sucks, and the rest of us prove that by being able to use it perfectly fine. You did something you were warned BY THE SITE not to do. You got scammed through your own fault, because you ignored what THE SITE YOU ARE SLATING WARNED YOU NOT TO DO. Then you come in here and BREAK THE SITE RULES. Then you bitch further because some of us point this out to you in a very adult way instead of talking to you like a child. Man up. Accept the consequences of your own actions. We're not here to pat you on the back when you screw up. Nor are we here to blindly accept your word that this particular person screwed you over.

Your profile says you've been here since 2012, and that is long enough to know that the site is not being cared for correctly. If you get scammed, tough luck, suck it up buttercup. If others like you choose to do the same, tough luck for them too. You're adults, act like it instead of petulant kids.

I'm sick of all the damn whinging covered as warnings. It's not warnings. It's breaking the rules, and whinging. Get smarter about how you spend your money, ya know, like an adult should. If you're really not coming back, good riddance, one less cry baby, because again, if you know how these threads usually go, the question begs ... WTF did you bother writing it in exactly the same format as all the other whingers that come in here? Surely you'd have learned a lesson from them and not broken the rules, not moaned about getting scammed, and shown yourself up for being so daft in the first place. It's really not an attack, it's pointing at the blatantly obvious.

Needles

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 8:24:41 AM

Hillwilliam

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Flounce bingo anyone?

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 12:51:49 PM

NoirMetal

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@OP

consider it an exercise in "infantile disappointment age play" and move on dude.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 1:28:32 PM

LadyPact

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OP, I'm kind of confused about some of this. There's not anything in your post, except using a specific name, that is warning people. The site warned you in several different ways that you chose to ignore, which just goes to prove that "warning" people doesn't really do any good. You admit that you did something stupid, and when people agreed with you that you did something stupid, it's being viewed as a personal attack. You know you lulled yourself into a false sense of security contrary to probably everything you've ever read about scamming on the internet for money.

I do have to admit that I am amused that you're the same dude who started the thread about your Mistress didn't want you chatting with other Dommes, because you just did a bang up job at proving her right in your case. I was seriously going to laugh my tail off if you were going to say that other sites don't have threads that go just like this one, because I'll gladly point you to Spectators Only No Participants on the other site.

The site you do mention that cam verifies everybody is ridiculously easy to work around. Even if you're buying into *nobody* could fake their gender that way, that doesn't prevent people that scam for money. That site's not going to protect you from getting scammed because no site can protect you from yourself. You send money to someone you believe is a woman doesn't in turn stop that woman from taking your money without providing you with the service intended.

I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavors. I just don't think it's necessarily going to be the way you think it will.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 1:35:43 PM

NoirMetal

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lol,I am in the same fetlife group.

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RE: There's a user on this site I want to complain about. - 5/15/2017 2:30:56 PM

ResidentSadist

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Dear OP,

Apparently you had some good luck if you sent tributes in the past and actually received service in return. Unfortunately, both you and Lana are in violation of the TOS in that she asked you for money. When hookers post their rates "$35 for an hour" and alternative contact information for her adult sex business in her profile, that is a TOS violation most people get banned for. So, you can report her profile for being in violation of the TOS. If she doesn't modify it, they will ban her and you will have achieved your objective of preventing people from doing further business with her. You're welcome.

In turn, she can report this thread because you mentioned her name in your post. They won't ban you, but they will delete this thread. I have invited Lana to come post replies on this thread to defend herself so you guys can duke it out for our entertainment. And for that, we thank you.

-Kalon Eric

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