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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue
I'm no feminist so don't lump me in there. All I'm saying is you do nothing but bitch and bitch about women. Doesn't exactly make you a catch!
When a discussion about male subs for exampke comes up, do women ever have anything positive to say about them? All they bloody seem to do is whinge about them only wanting a fetish delivery system.
All most women do on this site is reject 99.9999 percent of men who approach them and bitch about us when the discussion is about men on this site. Therefore, the women on this site deserve nothing but negativity from men in return.
Women in here don't respect men and they don't treat men as human beings unless they are super duper above average.
If you're just an average next door guy, you have no chance as the women in here are shallow as fuck. It's utterly disgusting.
I shouldn't really do this because nothing that is said to you seems to make a difference, but I'll have a go at offering a radically different view as a man on this site.
Contrary to your experiences rm, some men like me get on just fine with a good proportion of the women on this site just by being three dimensional human beings who give a crap about other people.
There is no magic formula, it's not complicated, just common sense and taking account of what people say. So having respect for people (without creeping), no propositioning or pressuring anyone, no getting upset if a message isn't returned, trying to get to know people, finding common ground and generally letting people get on with their own lives when they are not directly affecting yours works as well here as it does in everyday life.
There are of course embittered women, sick of constant abuse or mistreatment by men, and embittered men, sick of outnumbering women and coming across so many scammers. As a man you can do your best to avoid scammers, whereas avoiding constant abuse as a woman is more difficult. Even if some people are negative, many are not, especially if you genuinely give a crap.
As for constant moaning about subs, there is constant moaning about most groups on here. Some statements made about subs indicate a poor attitude generally but it has to be said that many "subs" are indeed bottoms in search of satisfying specific fetish urges as opposed to submissives wishing to exploring power exchange. In that regard, there are Dommes whose attitude I don't care for either. From my point of view, being a sub in relation to a specific person with whom I have a specific relationship does not automatically make me submissive to anyone else, male or female. Given that you can't agree with everyone, surely you just make connections where you can and get on with things.
Finally going right back to the OP and Pro-Dommes though, you just don't have to engage with these people if you don't want to. It's not endearing, productive or necessary to bitch endlessly about them. They are human beings who provide a service which has nothing to do with self-entitlement and everything to do with meeting a market demand. For my part I hope that everyone enjoys their work, and has good relationships with satisfied customers. Pro-Dommes are no different.
Live and let live.
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