longwayhome
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ORIGINAL: respectmen If my hard earned money is going to be spent on a woman, she would have to earn it first. That will never happen on a first date. I don't mean sex by the way. Pay for your own meal and shut the hell up! Actually rm, I have never been expected to pay. I have done, either as a quid pro quo or for practical purposes when I have earned more and suggested/arranged something the other person couldn't particularly afford. I've also had women who wanted to buy me presents and "spoil" me when they have been in a position to do so. It's called generosity - an attractive trait in men and women. I know it happens but no-one has ever just sat there and expected me to pay for everything. You complain far too much. Perhaps you hang around with the wrong women or women expect you to pay as compensation for going out with you. That could be down to your character or lack of generosity. Or perhaps you just never cultivate female friendships and spend all your time trying to get into people's pants. Try meeting some independent, self-confident women or lose all the ulterior motives so that people want to share with you instead of take.
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