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LadyPact -> RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate contact (6/5/2017 10:22:56 AM)
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Joking aside, rm, I really have told you all of these things before. Sometimes, on dozens of various threads. I would almost have to think that a person has some kind of mental malady, traumatic brain injury, or some other kind of actual health issue that would prevent them from remembering what I have said prior. However, if you really need me to present all of the eggs in one basket so that even a five year old can understand it, I'm willing to waste the keystrokes to attempt to make that happen. Should you chose in the future to continue acting like a petulant child about the subject of why some women do not initiate contact, I will post the same reply as my own quote in any future threads you think it's a good idea to create. When you chose to start processing information as an adult, I will go back to treating you like a grown up.
While I'm hesitant to put these in any particular order, if I were to do so, at the top of the list should be the fact that I already have two relationships in my life. Knowing my own circumstances, I recognize that I do not have time for a third. I happen to be of the opinion that TIME is a finite quality and the only way I would have the TIME to put another person in my life would be to cut back on something else. Not really something I am willing to do.
Evidently, I have not made something apparent, enough. When I am happy with the submissive I have, I have no desire to entertain the prospect of another. If I want to put a second sub in my life, that means the first sub is falling short. This kink thing? To me, it's not about needs. It's just about wants. When I have what I want, my cup is full.
Even if I removed these items, it seems you are not thinking much about additional reasons. Let's say I send an email off to somebody in my local area to approach them for whatever reason. Might turn out great and myself and that other individual might have an awesome time. Do you know what else it does? It gives any Admin with a certain degree of access to the information. In the past, certain Admins have abused this necessary ability. The privacy policy of this site is only ever as good as the ethics of the person(s) enforcing it. I'm not going to walk you through a 'come to Jesus' moment about this kind of thing. If you really don't understand the level of BAD that can be created from certain information being released, I have no hope for you.
Even farther removed, let's get over this end all, be all that I have privileges because I've got tits. Yeah, I know. You think it's all about "pussy privilege". Well, it's not. I view myself in the same exact way as I would as any other poly Dominant. If it is seen as offensive when male poly Dominants try to tap any strange that crosses their path, I should be held to the same standard. I will not approach monogamous men trying to 'convert' them to poly. You want to be poly; Make that decision on your own.
If CM is the only kink outlet to a person's world, that's fine. Yep, you've given me a lot of sh^t over the years about public kink. Still, that public club kink opportunity, to me, is waaaaayyyyy better than pissing around on the net.
At the same time, I accept that to some people, I can be considered a representative of that club. If I so much as wear that staff badge because I take a DM shift, teach a class, work the desk, or whatever, it really can be seen as an imbalance of power. Some people absolutely will misinterpret that kind of thing and I'm not comfortable with even a hint of impropriety. I'd rather leave my toys at home than to give anybody the idea that they are being coerced into play.
Last, but not least, if we're grading on the curve, I really do happen to be a pretty good top. While, yes, topping tricks are easy to learn, well, I haz 'em. [:D]
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