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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

What do I tell them where do I recommend and why?

Hey, I've actually got an answer for this one. Not because I figured it out for myself. It's actually something one of my Elders and I discussed years ago. It comes in two parts.

If you can recommend a kink venue, club, or event with a clear conscious, do that. Personally, for me, this means how does <insert term of whatever it is here> deals with the big issues. If **I** think, or in those instances where I have a reason to KNOW that organizers, producers, club managers are dealing with certain issues in the way I believe to be appropriate, because I've seen them in action? Yeah, I'll probably recommend it.

On the other hand, it wouldn't even take me thirty seconds of thought to name at least a dozen events in this country, even some of them I've been to before, who might not have the best practices when shady sh^t happens, and when people ask why I won't be at this event or that event, I'll tell them. It might not always be on what is considered a 'pubic' post. When I'm asked privately concerning the 'why' I won't attend this or that, I will tell people my reasoning for it, to the best of my ability.

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And you ladypact - whose attention do I require?

Anybody's who will give it to you. For some reason, something has made you so desperate that you want any form of connection, whether it comes from the greatest saint or the worst sinner. I don't even know if you care who was willing to give it to you, as long it was going to get you through whatever pain you were experiencing. (By the way, I think you were an absolute dick to Winnie. If what I read was correct, you owe her a HUGE apology.)

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Do you even know why I am here?

I know why you've tried to tell people you're here. Want me to list them off for you?

(I'm not bragging on this one. I don't consider myself terribly smart, but I have an uncanny recollection of the written word.)

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Most of you cannot even be humane to each other,

Dude, now you're just being a dick. When you make what I consider to be ignorant assessments, you're going to lose your credibility with me. I think it would shock you (and probably most people on the forums) just how many and WHO reached their hands out to me during the three+ years of the stalking issue.

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granted that other forum is a lot worse. But you women on this forum arnt helping matters

I don't know if I help matters or not, but my gender shouldn't be a focal point of consideration. I shouldn't be expected to do more or be more just because I have a vagina. I'm like any other human who gives my opinion as I see fit. Don't like my opinion? That's cool. The majority of the stuff that I write on the forums isn't for your pleasure, anyway.

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- and you better hope that idiot repectman doesnt learn how to word his threads correctly.

You really don't understand the concept of using other people's posts to convey a message, do you?

My suspicion happens to be that certain folks can't take replies to subjects head on because they have no response to reason. I could go pull you several links where that particular poster cant form a decent reply to the facts presented. Go look at the 'why don't women initiate contact' thread.

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here is today's example i just watched a member on here tell another member
"I hope your family gets raped."

I already wrote something in response (or more accurately, to another person's response) about that.

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PS waves at noirmetal - thread more ;) You did bitch, did you not, that no-one threads so what are you doing about it? You understand that then you will understand my point(s) or are you part of the problem whilst claiming the higher ground.

Let's not take this out of context.

I have written plenty of original pieces. At the same time, after all of my years in kink, a lot of it, I've just plain talked to death. If I have a question about something that is more advanced study, I'll go to the source. I've never said I'm omnipotent.

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I thread enough on here. Okay maybe i shouldnt hang about the Dungeon of Political and Religious Discussion so often

I do kind of understand the pull.

As a completely different thing, I do think your efforts about reaching out for help could be better done. Most people on a general kink forum are NOT QUALIFIED to help you with your issues related to CFS. I'm inclined to think you are self-medicating with alcohol, which isn't especially a great thing, either.

In my opinion, you have some things to think about.

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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal

You're a nutter.

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ORIGINAL: DocStrange

You need this:
http://www.glasgowdungeon.co.uk/

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

For a start you're breaking the TOS, no-one knows that these are your numbers, most people are in America, or elsewhere, and so it would cost them a small fortune to call you, and they are on a different time zone.

For me personally, I made my last post and logged off as my son came home. You next post was under mine this morning, but not addressed to me, so even if I had been around last night, I still would have ignored it.

You are lucid sometimes, but then act like our resident lunatic throwing abuse at everyone the rest of the time. It's not exactly endearing to most people to make them want to risk calling a random number on a whim.

Needles

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

can i call you or you me?

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OK, sunshine. OK. You want my (and other people's) attention. Well, I'll give you some...

I have been fortunate over the years to make a lot of friends on this site. However, they are ACTUAL friends. They don't kiss my @ss about everything I say, or do. If I choose to take a sh^t in the middle of the floor, they aren't going to shellac the turd, put a ribbon on it, and tell me what a wonderful gift I'm giving them. Where I come from, friends aren't @ss kissers, people pleasers, or people who don't have the cojones to say when I'm screwing up.

Still want to be my friend? "Cause, if ya do, you're going to get what you asked for.

Now, in my opinion, you've always been kind of an attention seeker, but if you ask me, some kind of catalyst seems to have happened. Maybe your CFS progressed to a new stage and/or that physical disability has had an impact on your mental faculties? I don't know and I'm not going to guess.

If you don't have any ACTUAL friends to help you get through whatever you are going through, have become so damn desperate that you are plastering your phone number on the net, begging for attention, it's time to seek a support group and professional help. It has to be your decision, though.

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ORIGINAL: stef

Can you please call a mental health professional?

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ORIGINAL: maleslavemanwife

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

For a start you're breaking the TOS, no-one knows that these are your numbers, most people are in America, or elsewhere, and so it would cost them a small fortune to call you, and they are on a different time zone.

For me personally, I made my last post and logged off as my son came home. You next post was under mine this morning, but not addressed to me, so even if I had been around last night, I still would have ignored it.

You are lucid sometimes, but then act like our resident lunatic throwing abuse at everyone the rest of the time. It's not exactly endearing to most people to make them want to risk calling a random number on a whim.

Needles

Breaking the TOS! Frankly who gives a Toss! You break enough rules here yourself missy!

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ORIGINAL: maleslavemanwife

Give him a break he has probably been on the booze and written what he did whilst under the influence of Alcohol.

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ORIGINAL: maleslavemanwife
Wicked Desire is a good xxxxx fellow and a tolerated board contributor though not part of the Clique. Why attack him now?