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Rituals... - 7/27/2006 8:37:10 AM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		Rituals...I like them.  I’m curious if you use them in your day to day (BDSM) life? 
 
Did you use rituals during a collaring?  Do you have special rituals for greeting each other?  Going to bed?  When apart?  Play? 
 
I’m asking for everyone’s opinions/stories.

Thank you; this should be interesting!
bearlee
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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 8:49:40 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Every morning before he leaves for work he gets down on his knees, while I sit on the edge of the bed, as he kisses my feet. Telling me how much he loves and adores me, the kisses move upwards until we are kissing. I tell him how much I love and adore him, how I want him to be careful during his day so that he can come home safely to me.

This is repeated at night before we both fall asleep. I believe you should always tell someone you love that you love them, show them that affection because you never know when something might happen and you won't ever be able to do that again.

He wears his collar all the time so he knows his place as My most beloved possession.

Fridays I allow him to wear whatever color thong (yes woman's ) he desires. He hates men's undies since he started wearing women's panties/thongs.

For our birthdays we always go out of town for a long weekend and on his bday I allow him to pick where we will go.

That's about it for us, nothing too fancy.

~Lashra

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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 9:25:26 AM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		See...that's what I like about rituals; they encourage us to take the TIME to do, and think about, and re-confirm what it is we're about! 
 
Thank you...

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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 9:42:27 AM   
SCORPIOXXX


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Status: offline 		I think Rituals are indeed important to a BDSM -D/s dynamic -- think of them as Pillars that help support the BDSM Bridge between the people involved. Some are Daily, i.e.: a Formal Greeting, in the morning or any time on command (it involves the recitation of proscribed lines while taking deep throat slurps between lines); another is the Daily 3 Of The Best (or more as deserved) Punishment session. to remind a good girl of what happens when she is a bad girl (the first 3 may not necessarily be harsh, but if more are deserved then they get hard, and not fun!)... And then, there are the Rules, which are more like general guidelines of behavior...

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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 11:28:57 AM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		hmmmmmmmmmmmm...

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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 12:22:41 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I'm very much NOT into rituals because I feel I become tied to the ritual itself, rather than the experience/emotions that it should embody.

Rituals are generally used to create or re-create a specific feeling or to commemorate something. They help create a tie between the past and present. They help us remember who we are and what we believe in.

special rituals please!?

Rituals

Rituals

Protocols, Rituals, Habits...

favorite rituals

Eating Rituals

Routine

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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 1:06:52 PM   
DoctorDubious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

Rituals...I like them.  I’m curious if you use them in your day to day (BDSM) life? 
 
Did you use rituals during a collaring?  Do you have special rituals for greeting each other?  Going to bed?  When apart?  Play?  
 
bearlee



Hey Bearlee .... and all...

I betcha the vast majority of humans
love and take meaning from rituals ....

I have no doubt they carry great meaning
an depth, and reverence ......


But, for me,

I prefer to try for freshness, spontaneity,
free-spirited, natural, simple,
and uncontrived actions right in the present moment......
.... especially in the special moments with a lover.


DD, an improvisational old goat.

PS.... when ad-lib life works, it's trancendent...
when it bombs, at least you get a few giggles...

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RE: Rituals... - 7/27/2006 2:20:51 PM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

Rituals...I like them.  I’m curious if you use them in your day to day (BDSM) life? 
 
Did you use rituals during a collaring?  Do you have special rituals for greeting each other?  Going to bed?  When apart?  Play? 
 
I’m asking for everyone’s opinions/stories.

Thank you; this should be interesting!
bearlee




I like Rituals to some extent.
I like to have My worms come in...go change come back and kneel before Me.
I have a couple that have bad knees they bow and kiss My hand instead.

When hanna comes her Ritual is to get her collar and head band,kneel before Me.
I am having her learn some basic slave positions,now that shes been with Me over a year. Annie(met her here almost 2yrs ago) comes in and gets naked,puts away the supplies she brings then stand hands behind back waiting for instructions.

I tend to save Rituals for those I know are I hate to say it but "worthy".
There is nothing worse than wasting My time with someone who ends up not staying.The ones that have Rituals are for the most part hand tailored(if you will) to them personally.

Incase anyone is curious...My worms(males) all get girlie names.

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