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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/9/2017 6:58:39 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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That was bizarre. Not the most bizarre thing I've read or seen but still, decently bizarre.

I will say this, if I was behind the scenes and moderating- I would be asking for proof you are of legal age to be on this site.

Your responses seem to be those of a young person not yet mature enough to be swimming with the sharks.

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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/9/2017 1:02:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

That was bizarre. Not the most bizarre thing I've read or seen but still, decently bizarre.

I will say this, if I was behind the scenes and moderating- I would be asking for proof you are of legal age to be on this site.

Your responses seem to be those of a young person not yet mature enough to be swimming with the sharks.



I am old enough to not give a flying fuck.

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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/9/2017 1:51:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

That was bizarre. Not the most bizarre thing I've read or seen but still, decently bizarre.

I will say this, if I was behind the scenes and moderating- I would be asking for proof you are of legal age to be on this site.

Your responses seem to be those of a young person not yet mature enough to be swimming with the sharks.



I am old enough to not give a flying fuck.


Flying fucks are for young bucks,
Us old chicks fuck for kicks

Like I said, you sound immature.


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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/9/2017 9:06:31 PM   
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When a lady makes me feel like I am not missing out, I believe her. It's not like I started it. Isn't it clear as day that I am only interested in those who understand?

If I am left in darkness, I might remember where everything is.

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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/9/2017 9:15:47 PM   
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Awesome, don't stub your toe.

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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/9/2017 10:07:30 PM   
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I know he is local but is this man Satanic?
http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2369140p06.jpg?07082017143242

After threatening me, I told him to kill himself.
http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2369140p07.jpg?07082017143323

He's probably younger and probably has no idea how little his life might mean to me. If anything.


I usually simply ignore and block a person online for being abusive. Because there are alot of mentally unstable loonies out there. You won't believe how many self-proclaim doms are like that when they lose control, and start going into a meltdown, because they can't get you to co-operate with them.

So best solution is just block them. You aren't a mental health professional, not getting paid to deal with these people who are not well in the head. Just ignore them.

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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/10/2017 2:09:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mythicalsex

I know he is local but is this man Satanic?
http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2369140p06.jpg?07082017143242

After threatening me, I told him to kill himself.
http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2369140p07.jpg?07082017143323

He's probably younger and probably has no idea how little his life might mean to me. If anything.


I usually simply ignore and block a person online for being abusive. Because there are alot of mentally unstable loonies out there. You won't believe how many self-proclaim doms are like that when they lose control, and start going into a meltdown, because they can't get you to co-operate with them.

So best solution is just block them. You aren't a mental health professional, not getting paid to deal with these people who are not well in the head. Just ignore them.



Greta75, thank you. I usually agree with that action. In fact, that is the exact thing I tell people who get creeped out by on line threats. I never thought I would get one. Now that I did, I didn't think a whole lot. I went with my gut and two hours later when no reply was left, it felt like the right thing to do.

There's probably a few things I should mention.
It happened in the LA area and it happened on a vanilla site that usually censors people. Plenty of normal bikini photos have been taken down for looking like underwear. It's not too over monitored but it is monitored. Also, fear is not an emotion that I need to deal with. I can fight.

I am not promoting it or interested in attracting losers so I won't mention it. I am way more vanilla there. Less kinky but I love the attention from the ladies.

This is my first one, ever, on line. There may have been a few from gangsters out of state who needed to be reminded how different it is out of state. That was at the turn of the century. Being he's from the area and that I lived through the 90's street wars without the need for jail or court, I am pretty good at spotting jealous losers who wish they had the guts to go for what they want the way I do.

The slang is not Hip Hop in all parts of the city, regardless of DNA. This is most evident on line. I have had odd jobs. I am familiar with some of the slangs out here. It has been more than a few days since it was posted and a day after I replied. He is not responding and likely forgot the password to his one image almost blank profile. He may not log back in to read it. It may also be some one that sings on once and never again.

I get that out there are people who think they can project on me their wishes. If doesn't happen, I can laugh back. I really don't recommend threats or actual violence. He can find what he is looking for anytime and anywhere. I don't recommend it but I know how to enjoy life.

The violent always get their way, right into jail or the ground.












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RE: How to Handle Ugly Words in Your Safe Space - 7/10/2017 7:17:55 PM   
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And this walking disaster calls himself a Dom. Man they let anybody in the club these days

DOM???? Not in my book. Just read his profile and have not seen anything so unDom like for a long time.

Bless

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