Greta75 -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 10:27:34 AM)
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Generally women do cheat when their husband's neglect them, it usually starts with emotional bond with another man, that the husband been neglecting the emotional side of their marriage. But men cheat anyway, and usually has nothing to do with the wife not giving him sex. My experience finding casual sex, obviously get to meet alot of married men and hear their stories. 90% say they are still having sex with their wife like 2 or 3 times a week and just want variety. Nothing to do with no sex at home. Infact I met this man who is "superb". He has a wife with kids and an affair with another woman, also kids with her. He said he made sure he had plenty of sex with his wife and made her feel secure and desirable so that his wife will never find out. I seriously seldom get the "no sex at home" excuse. Always, " I love my wife, sex with her is great! But I just want more fun! Experience different things." So my conclusion is, ALL men will cheat if they can without getting caught and the right temptation is presented to them. Asian moms always tell you to leave no opportunity for your husband to cheat. That you are responsible for like making sure he has no time to cheat. Like almost expected all men will cheat, so you got to play a part to keep temptations all away from him. Except, I don't believe in that. I am not threatened if my guy fucks another woman. Pretty comfortable with that. Doesn't bother me. But I feel that women will only cheat if they feel neglected by their husbands emotionally. A very emotionally well taken care woman will seldom even care about sex. I mean, I am someone who is completely comfortable to fuck with a stranger after 1 hr of chatting, first time meet or whatever. I've been like this since a teenager, very comfortable with having sex and do it like a hobby. But I had an emotionally fulfilling marriage, with sex like, just 3 times a year if I am lucky, as my x-husband was not interested in having sex with me at all. But I never had the desire to seek sex elsewhere because emotionally, I was fulfilled. Now I got to admit, if I wasn't emotionally fulfilled. I think I would have left him for the no sex bit. Of course, we were just not sexually compatible. Whatever he loved in sex, I hated. And whatever I love, he hated. Didn't think back then sexual compatibility was important for marriage. And I rather have no sex than compromise in sex. That's just me.
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