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respectmen -> Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 4:07:37 AM)

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/cheating-women-infidelity-husbands-stingy-blame-generosity-flowers-holidays-meals-a7864221.html

Not surprising at all. If it was men doing the same thing over not having sexual satisfaction, they would be misogynistic chauvinists. Not women when they pull this shit though. Replace misogynist with misandrist.




Greta75 -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 10:27:34 AM)

Generally women do cheat when their husband's neglect them, it usually starts with emotional bond with another man, that the husband been neglecting the emotional side of their marriage.

But men cheat anyway, and usually has nothing to do with the wife not giving him sex.

My experience finding casual sex, obviously get to meet alot of married men and hear their stories. 90% say they are still having sex with their wife like 2 or 3 times a week and just want variety. Nothing to do with no sex at home.

Infact I met this man who is "superb". He has a wife with kids and an affair with another woman, also kids with her.

He said he made sure he had plenty of sex with his wife and made her feel secure and desirable so that his wife will never find out.

I seriously seldom get the "no sex at home" excuse. Always, " I love my wife, sex with her is great! But I just want more fun! Experience different things."

So my conclusion is, ALL men will cheat if they can without getting caught and the right temptation is presented to them. Asian moms always tell you to leave no opportunity for your husband to cheat. That you are responsible for like making sure he has no time to cheat.

Like almost expected all men will cheat, so you got to play a part to keep temptations all away from him. Except, I don't believe in that. I am not threatened if my guy fucks another woman. Pretty comfortable with that. Doesn't bother me.

But I feel that women will only cheat if they feel neglected by their husbands emotionally. A very emotionally well taken care woman will seldom even care about sex.

I mean, I am someone who is completely comfortable to fuck with a stranger after 1 hr of chatting, first time meet or whatever. I've been like this since a teenager, very comfortable with having sex and do it like a hobby.

But I had an emotionally fulfilling marriage, with sex like, just 3 times a year if I am lucky, as my x-husband was not interested in having sex with me at all. But I never had the desire to seek sex elsewhere because emotionally, I was fulfilled. Now I got to admit, if I wasn't emotionally fulfilled. I think I would have left him for the no sex bit.

Of course, we were just not sexually compatible. Whatever he loved in sex, I hated. And whatever I love, he hated. Didn't think back then sexual compatibility was important for marriage. And I rather have no sex than compromise in sex. That's just me.





stef -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 3:45:40 PM)

Study shows that Nicky's whining about women STILL doesn't help get him laid.

The reasons are irrelevant. People who cheat on their partners are garbage, no matter what lame-ass justification they concoct.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 3:48:39 PM)

And men who cheat blame their wives for not understanding them, so what? You find it somehow telling that women who cheat tell themselves different lies than men who cheat tell themselves?

Well that explains a lot about you.




respectmen -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 4:18:21 PM)

The difference is that society is oh so understanding towards women while no such understanding exist for men.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 4:19:51 PM)

You clearly live in a very different society than I do. I guess Australia really is nothing like the rest of the world, despite it's many superficial similarities.




respectmen -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 4:20:25 PM)

The difference is that society is oh so understanding towards women while no such understanding exist for men. When women cheat, it's the fault of the man. When men cheat, he's an asshole and the woman is the victim.




respectmen -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 4:22:41 PM)

As dizzybitch is a patriarchy/men blamer, when the woman cheats, it's never her fault. When the man cheats, its always his fault.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 4:33:03 PM)

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When women cheat, it's the fault of the man. When men cheat, he's an asshole and the woman is the victim.

Not the way society sees it here.
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As dizzybitch is a patriarchy/men blamer, when the woman cheats, it's never her fault. When the man cheats, its always his fault.

Wrong, while I do blame patriarchy for much of what ails our society, I do not blame men, as I see them as equal victims of the patriarchal society. And when a man cheats, of course it is his fault. And guess what? Same thing for when a woman cheats, it is entirely her fault.




PeonForHer -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 5:11:34 PM)

Women who cheat on their husbands aren't given an easy ride, RM. They're trashed as strumpets, harlots, tarts ... and it's been that way for centuries. There's a small lefty voice that defends such women, these days, but it's as nothing compared to the weight of the voice of general public opinion, still.

You continually get things completely out of proportion. You should really try to balance out those alt-right websites you keep sucking up wholesale and totally uncritically. Or, at least, make it *look* as though you have, so that you don't ripped to pieces instantly and every damned time you start a thread here. Christ, doesn't it demoralise you?




stef -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/10/2017 6:16:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Women who cheat on their husbands aren't given an easy ride, RM. They're trashed as strumpets, harlots, tarts ... and it's been that way for centuries.

Nicky doesn't handle reality well. It's not very nice of you to smack him in the face with it so soundly.




Greta75 -> RE: Study shows women cheating on men blame it on their husbands not spending more money on them. No, re (8/11/2017 6:21:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: respectmen
The difference is that society is oh so understanding towards women while no such understanding exist for men.

I don't think society is understanding to any woman who cheats. Have you seen this forum? Women eat women alive looking to cheat on their husband on here.

I think it's worst when women cheat, because they are expected to be better.

But in terms of the reasoning of why men cheat and why women cheat are two different reasons.

No woman is gonna get away with, "Oh he neglected me emotionally." She will still be stoned.




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