Greta75
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FR I am puzzled by the article. As I have never experienced ghosting by any man I dated ever. IF we ever break up or stop seeing each other. We would discuss it rationally and split amicably. How could someone you date ghost you? Wouldn't you know where he stay? Where he works? Sounds very unclose relationships. May not even be dating. I've online dated since a teenager. What I mean is, hang out in real life, but found them online. Of course my country is tiny, so frequent physical contact through searching online is easy. Everyone lives just 20mins away from each other no matter where you are in the country. Like somebody? You'd probably be meeting within hours. Ghosting by a man who I never met yet, is common, but then it wouldn't bother me. I can't form an attachment to someone I never met. As long as I never met this guy in real person. I assume they are all trolling and just amusing themselves. The serious ones want to meet immediately. Now breadcrumbing, another thing I don't understand. If a man doesn't bother much, neither do I. Like why the fuck are they even bothering with men who "breadcrumbs". Seems silly! Chivalry is usually a very good indication of how much a man is into you. To me, if he fails to be any of that. He is just not into you. That's my opinion. Don't waste your time or give him more time. When they are gaga at a woman at first sight, you'd know it, they'd pull her chair, help her wear her coat, send her home, all that stuffs. Because if he really likes you, he would cracking his brains how to make you wanna see him again. IF he was like, "Meh!" He would be like, whatever.
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