DesideriScuri -> RE: Congress pass new abortion law to ban late term abortion (12/15/2017 11:42:05 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri I have no right to force my beliefs on another person, just as someone who feels abortion isn't wrong doesn't have the right to force their belief on me. Sorry wrong premise. It's not a wrong premise at all, Lucy. Everything you went through is bad. My beliefs that abortion is wrong, has nothing to do with you, with what you went through, or with what's available to you. And, that is especially because I believe government has no right to say one way or the other if abortion is allowed. Some will paint me as "Pro Choice" because I would allow you to choose. Others would paint me as Pro Life, because I oppose abortion. I really don't care if other posters call you a baby killer. That's not on me, no matter what the general political leanings of the other poster. If you want to engage in a discussion regarding my beliefs, I'm a big boy. I can do so. But, don't bring in others' beliefs. You can discuss that with them. Know why? It's right up top. You quoted it. I'm going to believe what I believe. You're going to believe what you believe. I will not force my beliefs on you, and you won't force your beliefs on me. my relating my fertile years was more to explain, where Im coming from than to complain, lots of people have far worse issues with it. Ive seen far worse as well, so it IS a subject i am passionate about, I am far too passionate about it sometimes. I know you're passionate about this, and you've shared before. I didn't take it as complaining. I apologize if my post sent that message. That was not the intention. quote:
But I am NOT forcing my beliefs on you, Im sharing them. How am I forcing any person who doesnt believe in abortion to do anything? Im not sure where government is stopping them? What is being prevented? I understand your beliefs and can agree with even most, and, also because you talked the talk by getting a vasectomy, My response was not as well thought out as I had hoped. I apologise for that I assumed, wrongly that it wasnt personalised, because I mentioned "any mans body, private life and their future." Its was not meant to be aimed at you personally Im not pro abortion, I dont like abortion, but I refuse to sit quietly, while laws are being made that is reducing that option. I will be the first to cheer when abortion isnt a choice, because women can decide when they want to have children with their partner with safe, reliable, birth control, that works and doesnt affect the woman physically or mentally. Or the chosen resulting pregnancy. I want to point out I chopped most of your previous post for a reason. I was only interested in addressing your assertion that what you quoted was a false premise. Your history was immaterial to that discussion. I'm sure writing it didn't bring up fond memories. I didn't want for it to be replicated so you had to see it over and over. Bounty questioned how I could believe abortion to be 'wrong' yet also believe that a woman had a 'right' to get an abortion. If I were to actively work to prevent a woman from having the option of getting an abortion, i would be pushing my beliefs on her. Maybe I should have clarified that I believe that, in most cases, getting an abortion is wrong, but I also believe that each person gets to figure out what they believe is right or wrong. If someone comes to me and asks my opinion, I'll give it, and do so with background and support for why I believe it is wrong. I will also explain to them that they get to decide for themselves. If someone asks me for money to get one, in most cases, I'll decline, because it's my money and I think it's wrong. If they decide it's not wrong and want to spend their money, who am I to get in the way? People who want to help others get abortions can donate to Planned Parenthood, and probably can even do so specifying that they want their money to go solely towards providing abortions. To take taxpayer money to pay for abortions? I oppose that (which is why I support laws the make taxpayer funding going to pay for abortions illegal). And, yes, even though I'm arguing with Bounty, I do believe it's a human rights of the developing human issue. Specific to your history, I don't blame you at all for aborting. In situations, only similar to yours, I wouldn't knock the couple no matter which way they choose (baby's life ends or mother's life ends). I can't imagine, as I've said previously, the magnitude of that choice, or the ramifications of whichever choice was made. I can only hope that no one I know ever has to go through that.
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