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knees2you -> What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/9/2004 10:59:33 PM)

What does anal penetration do for You~
How does it make You feel[&:]
Do you do it out of respect for Your Domm, or Domme,
because they want You to? Or does it stimulate you sexually~[:)]
I know being tied down, You don't have a choice and cannot Cum even if you wanted to~

Sincerely, eyesofAslave[;)]

quote:

"I'm not blinded by Her, I'm blinded for Her!"


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Lordandmaster -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/9/2004 11:50:08 PM)

I don't quite understand that. Why can't you come just because you're tied down? Being tied down makes it EASIER for some people to come.

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

I know being tied down, You don't have a choice and cannot Cum even if you wanted to~





perverseangelic -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 12:07:03 AM)

Quite frankly, I hate it.

No, it doesn't hurt, and it's not the pain I dislike, its the sensation in general. I think it feels icky and generally not pleasurable.

I -can- orgams during it with clitoral stimulation, but that's mostly if I tune out the other stuff.

My partner likes it. I voiced my dislike innitially, and he's aware of it, but as it pleases him to do it, it pleases me to make him enjoy it. That sometimes invovles acting as though I enjoy it myself.

Ah well. It can't all be whippings and blindfolds :)




softysub -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 3:07:55 AM)

The only time i did anal, i was beyond nervous, stressed out so it hurt alot even though i was fully prepared. I had buttplug during sessions, but that was ok, i knew it made Sir happy and that is my goal.

I am not saying no to try it again one day [;)]

softysub




Alana -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 6:15:18 AM)

The first time someone asked me to try anal i was grossed out about it and voiced my concerns we did not try anal. A couple of years later i had another relationship with a very understanding caring man when he brought up the subject of anal sex the only thing i thought about was yes i would like to try it. Today i enjoy anal sex and glad i was able to set aside my fears so i could enjoy it[:)]

Alana




Boe2000 -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:28:11 AM)

Personaly I feel anal sex is great. When I masturbate I often stimulate my prostrate while fantasising being penetrated and have on occasion used dildos and the like on myself. A little preparation and the proper stimulation is all it takes. But heh, I'm a man so what do I know?
I especially enjoy the sensation afforded by the added pressure on my cock when I penetrate my partners.
On another perspective, I find that anal sex provides an erotic form of subjugation. There is something lustfull and very pornographic about having your partner on all fours with butt in the air, her ass cheeks spread wide and having her plead for you to ram your cock in her ass.
Well, that's my position and my opinion.
Thanks for reading me.

Hugs,

Boe




cynnacent1 -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:36:30 AM)

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What does anal penetration do for You~ How does it make You feel

1. It pleases me to know i can please my Master by submitting to Him in this way.
2. It gives me pleasure physically.
quote:

Do you do it out of respect for Your Domm, or Domme,
because they want You to? Or does it stimulate you sexually~

both
quote:

I know being tied down, You don't have a choice and cannot Cum even if you wanted to~

Anal enjoyment is a mixed thing for me. Point A: i don't want Him to. Point B: i don't want Him to stop. my resolve in wishing to please Him brings me from point A to point B.
Being tied down has no effect on my ability to reach orgasm. For me, being tied down makes it hard NOT to cum. i always have a choice, and i choose to obey by asking Master first before cumming for Him, which is what He demands at all times. Sometimes though, asking first is impossible for me, and i am greatful that He understands and accepts that.


¸,ø¤º°cynnacent°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)








theroebabe -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 4:15:49 PM)


I love it! and even though i do not orgasm from it i love the feeling and sensation. And with a person not an object its even better!

Being tied down and anal whoo hoo double bonus! i can come when being tied, not from the non consentual seatbelt bondage but from other kinds. Plus i like the feeling of total control he has over me then so i feel free in a way since i really have no choice lol.





proudsub -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 4:34:39 PM)

I've never had anal sex, but i know when i orgasm with a butt plug in it is much more intense than without one. I love the sensation.[;)]




alwayzron -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 4:39:46 PM)

I'm surprised no male subs have chimed in on this .... it's the ultimate (or so they say) symbol of a male giving one's self over to another ......

I think the Psychology behind it is that men are typically the doers ... not the doees. For some, there's also the homo-erotic aspect. Having experienced a few phallus shaped objects in my time ... and being the naturally curious sort ... I've often wondered what a real one would feel like. [:)] Not sure if that will ever shape up ..... but I've learned never to say never, and the only lost memory is the memory never made.

Anywayyyyy ....... there's also the male-rape fantasy. More than anything else, I read tons of post from guys who want to be doinked by a strap-on. And although I find this pretty damn hot myself, after the first minute or two of thrusting, things become pretty damn sore (and somewhat boring).





tampasub -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 5:04:54 PM)

Only recently having discovered what I believe to be submissive feelings I have not yet found a Domme, but I have tried selfbondage and found an inflatable anal plug being inflated slowly ( a few squeezes every minute or so) extremely stimulating. At least to me.

I believe I would enjoy anal penetration by a Domme using a dildo or strap on, but being a straight male the idea of another male doing the sae to me is not very appealing. Again, never having it done to me it is hard to say...





Suleiman -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:29:51 PM)

Speaking purely for myself, I adore just about everything about it, from the potential humiliation value (which is odd, for me, since humiliation isn't really one of my kinks, but I guess that adds a bit of spice) to the potential for pain or discomfort, on through to the overall stimulation of the prostate (which, for me, is so much more powerful than the sensation of ejaculation that the comparison is almost impossible for me to make). Whether play rape or as a part of love-play, or even just for the sake of really good masturbation, penetration is definately a major pleasure for me.




alwayzron -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:35:00 PM)

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even just for the sake of really good masturbation


I have to agree with you there. I've masturbated (both forced and not) with a vibe in me and hammering away. The orgasm is almost painful it's so intense.




Suleiman -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:38:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: alwayzron

I'm surprised no male subs have chimed in on this .... it's the ultimate (or so they say) symbol of a male giving one's self over to another ......




There is a general school of thought, going back as far as de sade himself, which implies that the act of recieving anal penetration, for a man or woman, is a major form of submission. In part this has to do with that core of anal-retentiveness we all pick up as children, which tells us that things just shouldn't go in there; Also, the way the muscles are designed to tense up forces the person to relax and submit, or else experience a great deal of discomfort, thus the only way to enjoy the act of being penetrated is to submit, rather than merely endure.

Buggery, especially public buggery, has been a means of men dominating other men since the bronze age. Triumphant roman soldiers would some times publicly bugger captured prisoners of war, especially ranking officers, kings, or generals, as part of the parade and ceremony they would recieve upon returning home.

Add to this masoch's imagery of forced bisexuality as part of the cuckolding he recieves in Venus in Furs, where a person who is adamant about their heterosexuality is forced to pleasure another man at his mistress' behest, and you have established a fine old tradition, both historically and literarily, for buggery as an act of aggression or dominance, and reception as a major form of humiliation and/or submission.




alwayzron -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:47:59 PM)

Sul .... I must say I'm impressed with your understanding of this topic !!!!!

"core of anal-retentiveness .. things just shouldn't go in there" ... actually, the term 'anal retentive' was used to describe how we view things in life based upon how our parents responded to our toilet training. If they showed disgust and displeasure at our learning this natural function, then we tend to be more 'anal' in keeping things tidy, neat, and organized. But that was Freud, and Freud was a kook.

"thus the only way to enjoy the act of being penetrated is to submit, rather than merely endure." .... I had never thought of it that way. But it certainly makes a lot of sense.

"especially ranking ... kings" ... I did not butt fuck that President, Bill Clinton (while pointing the knuckle of my index finger at you)

"forced bisexuality" .... Going back to Freud, he felt that we're possess homosexual tendancies. Come on now .... how many guys haven't tried to give themselves blow jobs? And forced bi is a recurring topic in many submissive profiles throughout CM.




Suleiman -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/10/2004 7:58:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: alwayzron

Sul .... I must say I'm impressed with your understanding of this topic !!!!!


I am a lonely little man with far too much time on his hands, and a penchant towards introspection and inner soul-searching. I took the time to ask myself what I liked about this particular kink a long time ago, so I've had plenty of time to come up with some answers.




smilezz -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/11/2004 2:18:50 PM)


What does anal penetration do for You~ It makes me feel totally useless...used....taken (which is the point for me)

How does it make You feel? i have never been able to answer this question verbally...i know how i feel, just not in words.

Do you do it out of respect for Your Domm, or Domme because they want you to? It has nothing to do with respect , it has everything to do with what He is going to take.

does it stimulate you sexually~ good gawwd yes it does...

I know being tied down, You don't have a choice and cannot Cum even if you wanted to~ If He allows me to cum, i sure can and ohhh definately will.




knees2you -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/12/2004 10:04:10 PM)

Almost forgot,
Me being male, Yes penetration in the Anal
Is very stimulating and If I'm allowed to,
I'll Cummm like Nobody's Business~~

quote:

"I'm not blinded by Her, I'm blinded for Her!"




lyrics2004wi -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/13/2004 3:00:11 AM)

i love the feel and the pain of it. i dont see how anyone can be homophobic really now days alot of guys like there females bi, so whats wrong with a bi guy :D opens up the relationship alot




conflicted -> RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? (12/17/2004 5:31:31 AM)

i really enjoy it! His voice whispering in my ear, telling me what He is going to do (not in a very polite manner either!!) lol, oooh that gets me hot!

He enjoys it, and i have cum from it, which He said was very intense as when all the muscles were "twitching" it gave Him some great sensations also.

Never been tied down for it, but i think that would be a huge turn on.


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