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phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 10:13:41 AM   
mistressR


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i am a bit of a newbie, have so far done a few cam to cam domination/humilliations sessions as yet, not confident to go for real life just yet...
i have been asked to do a session on the phone, and am very worried, as i have no idea where to start! i cannot see how it will work without being able to see what he is doing....so any help whatsoever would be greatly appreciated.
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RE: phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 10:36:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		My first question is-- will it make you happy or fulfilled? If not, is he compensating you for doing it?

I guess I'm kinda odd, but from my POV, all this is about bringing pleasure to the dominant partner. I'm not sure, from reading your post, that phone humiliation will do that for you.'




(yes, I know this is only my opinion from my perspective and my way of thinking about BDSM. 's the only perspective I've got :) )

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 3:07:14 PM   
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I don't understand this whole non-r/t thing ... and some will argue that phone humiliation is real time. I see it as otherwise. While settle for a ham sandwhich when you can have filet mignon?

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 3:21:01 PM   
BeachMystress


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And what are you going to get from this session? Most of the guys who want phone sessions are players who won't bother to take care of your real needs. They don't care if they give you companionship, real time energy exchange or anything. They want to "get their wank on." I'll bet you a quarter that once he cums, he doesn't want to talk anymore... Online where you can watch is not that great. When you get to where you can't even SEE what they are doing, it is pure usership of you. Remember, this is about YOU and what you want. If you let them take advantage of you, they will.

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 5:01:02 PM   
alwayzron


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Beach .. wow!! What emotion! But I believe you've hit the nail on the head. Typically, once men orgasm, the parade is over. I think what this guy is looking for is phone-sex ....

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 8:44:46 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		I agree with Perverseangelic, in that it does not seem like it will be doing much for you, and if not, why do it?
Also Beachmystress makes beaucoup sense, I'd belive her advice, as he may be using You for some phone sex.
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RE: phone humiliation - 12/10/2004 9:04:46 PM   
alwayzron


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Status: offline 		And another thing ......

Only 3% of our communication is verbal. The rest is non-verbal, as in eye contact, body language, facial gestures. I would miss that too much. I'm a complete foot freak, and I remember one time worshipping my Domme's feet and looking up to see the look of amusement on her face. It was something no words could ever match.

Again .. I think phone humiliation (which is what I get when I try to order a pizza) is too cheap and non-commital.

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/15/2004 8:53:37 AM   
MistressFire70


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistressR
i have been asked to do a session on the phone


Since when is it about what he wants? Do YOU want a phone session? As long as you aren't ignoring a NEED in him, don't do it if it doesn't do anything for you. Besides, you can get voice chat software from several places so that you can have voice with the camera, if you feel you want to indulge him.

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/17/2004 8:48:31 PM   
addcted2it


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Status: offline 		I agree with most of what was already said about this phone humiliation request. You could try it, but I would reserve the right to terminate the conversation if i wasn't getting any of my own needs met, or if I felt uncomfortable during the encounter.

I confess to having tried cyber sex, phone sex and Webcam in the past, and they were all very intense at the time, but that was then. I know that if I engaged in any of those today, I would come away being very disappointed, with a feeling of lonliness worse than if I had not done it.

I think that, for some, anything less than a face-to-face meeting is an evolutionary experience or process, which you may or may not enjoy.

But again, the bottom line still comes down to what you yourself will be getting from the experience.

Good luck!

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/23/2004 12:23:15 AM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		Phone domination and humiliation? $3.99 a minute. Call it whatever you want, but it is still phone sex.
I can get a kick out of it, but truly, the conversation will end as soon as he gets off. I just won't give it away for free! Still fun for Me and puts some money in the bank! And I can (and will) take it slow, build it up, and make sure I get a minimum amount of time in, for My own pleasure also.
Oh, now I will get flamed for sure!

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RE: phone humiliation - 12/23/2004 5:38:01 AM   
GoddessJules


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Status: offline 		I don't see anything wrong with that. IN FACT, there is such a demand for this that companies like keen and niteflirt thrive off of it. So contrary to "everyone" (I'm using the term lossley) saying that they would neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeever do such a thing. . . .there are *PLENTY* of people who do.

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