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The Bondage Dynamic - 7/29/2006 6:27:24 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		To submissives and slaves; Your Dom/Domme can take you sexually anyway he or she wants, tied or untied.
What do you feel when he/she has you strictly tied as opposed to untied?
Is it more intense? Is it better? Can you cum easier?
In short how does being strictly tied  while being fucked make you "feel?"
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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/29/2006 6:31:21 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Well, there's always an extra thrill of excitement knowing you're totally at someone's mercy and unable to escape.  Even if you know deep down inside you're not in any real danger, still, the loss of control, knowing that you will be unable to stop whatever may be done to you does make it exciting for me. 

I've not personally noticed a difference in ability to orgasm, however.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/29/2006 9:15:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's the only time I really let myself really relax and enjoy what is happening to my own body w/e feeling like I should be doing something pleasurable to or for him. Mebbe that is why I do orgasm more.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/29/2006 9:24:50 PM   
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quote:

What do you feel when he/she has you strictly tied as opposed to untied?


Being tied makes me feeling like I'm being hugged. It's all good for this girl.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/29/2006 9:31:08 PM   
cheshireboy


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Status: offline 		Well...being tied up is way yummy...but then i am a bondage freak and savor it the most...but there is also something that i actually enjoy more...and that is being told to be in the Gorean Tower and used that way, with no hiding behind closed eyes....and have to stay perfectly still and not climax...no rope, no tieing up, just pure mental dominance....way more fun.
 
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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 1:09:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

To submissives and slaves; Your Dom/Domme can take you sexually anyway he or she wants, tied or untied.
What do you feel when he/she has you strictly tied as opposed to untied?
Is it more intense? Is it better? Can you cum easier?
In short how does being strictly tied  while being fucked make you "feel?"

Generally if I want to enjoy BONDAGE, I prefer not doing other things as it distracts.

However, bondage can make sex have a keen edge of authority within it.  While it has nothing to do with orgasm for me (in fact it can make it more difficult as it doesn't let my body push and rub in the way that allows me to orgasm), bondage and sex can be great things to combine.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 1:13:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love bondage, being tied up..makes me feel safe....and horny...lol.....

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 1:24:10 PM   
Homestead


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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 2:36:23 PM   
ArdRi


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Status: offline 		Tying up a slave is deeply satisfying for me but it simply wouldn't do anything for me if she was not enjoying it. 

Ard Ri.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 2:54:23 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Some interesting answers!
Homestead, I like that; "Bondage is Permission."
Thankyou to all who've replied so far.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 3:19:07 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I like bondage a lot.  Not only being bond, the after effects.  The indentations left on the skin.  Once I was bound so tight that it left some blisters on me, that was the coolest thing!




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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 3:34:49 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Katy, LOL at "Blisters." Thankyou.
The one important thing for me anyway is that the bondage be in-escapable. That there is absolutely no way that the sub can get out of it by herself.
My former sub was extremely orgasmic when she was firmly tied "because" she was firmly tied.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 5:08:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would be way more turned on that is for sure and the feeling of helpleness and in turn dominated. As to what happens when the Domme becomes sexual intimate I am not sure as havem't had the opportunity yet to find out.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 6:14:53 PM   
SweetSerendipity


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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

My former sub was extremely orgasmic when she was firmly tied "because" she was firmly tied.


Raises hand...Yes, that would be an accurate description for me also <grin>.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 6:46:09 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Mellian, I was going to say that I might be able to help you with that but then I read your profile!

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 6:49:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bondge is very important to me. Even in my past "vanilla" experiences, I would always need my hands restrained at least when I came. It is somehow "tied" together, the ability to let go in my head and my body.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 6:58:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		To me bondage adds an incredible edge to anything else that is going on. No matter what He is doing, I am responding to an undercurrent of  "I cannot escape this" and it makes it all so much more intense for me. Not to mention the act of the bondage itself will already start me down the path of subspace before He even touches me with other play.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 7:21:56 PM   
Littlepita


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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

To submissives and slaves; Your Dom/Domme can take you sexually anyway he or she wants, tied or untied.
What do you feel when he/she has you strictly tied as opposed to untied?
Is it more intense? Is it better? Can you cum easier?
In short how does being strictly tied  while being fucked make you "feel?"


I like bondage because I have the freedom to struggle and let myself go and enjoy all the sensations. When I'm not bound I have to use mental restraints on myself. For instance if he hits too hard I want to reach back and grab my ass while yelling, ouch. When restrained I just get to yell ouch.

Sex is great most of the time while bound. I don't like it so much if my legs are where I can't control them during orgasm. I can cum, it's just a different dynamic then what I am used to. I do love having my hands tied or his hand around my throat while I orgasm.

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/30/2006 8:56:30 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Jesse, that's a very interesting viewpoint, I concur with that. Thanks.

Pita, that's interesting about the leg thing! If they're tied does it make it more "difficult?"
Thanks again for your answers, very interesting stuff from a psychological perspective!

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RE: The Bondage Dynamic - 7/31/2006 3:20:15 AM   
mellian


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Mellian, I was going to say that I might be able to help you with that but then I read your profile!


Yes, darn that pesky profile.

-mellian


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