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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/24/2005 4:40:16 PM   
Trachmyr


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I'm a Male Dom, and my result was INTP (67/62/1/11)... Borderline INFP.

I've taken these tests before, and depending on the test I score INTP (Architect) or INFP (Healer).

As for the Introvert issue... I'm quite comfortable in social situations, it's what I do for a living... and I'm damned good.

But in general I just don't like 99% of the mundanes out there, well not enough to have any interest in getting to know them. On the rare occassion that someone cathes my eye (in what ever manner), I'm right at the forefront. But if it comes down to chosing between going out someplace and meeting a bunch of boorish frauds or having a intimate gathering of a few close friends... well, it's not much of a choice. I also don't really care to be the center of attention, I like to watch and listen and offer a few choice words if the situation should call for it. But that's just me, YMMV

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/24/2005 4:48:28 PM   
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This was placed in the wrong forum. However, I think I have all the wonderful right traits for a Domme. Introverted and Judging..what more do you need?

INTJ
Introverted 67%
Intuitive 38 %
Thinking 12%
Judging 67%


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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/24/2005 6:05:10 PM   
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My result was Extroverted Intuitive Feeling Judging, although i changed so many answers back and forth before settling on what "felt right," i think i should add Schizophrenic. And i think of myself as being naturally introverted and cerebral and undisciplined. But my owners have always required me as their slave to be open and forthcoming and disciplined, and being enslaved has stripped away all my emotional barriers, i'm just a live high-tension wire full of emotion, so i think being a slave has actually changed my personality over the years, and overwhelmingly for the better.

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/24/2005 6:59:58 PM   
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This test shows me as an ISFJ- A Protector-Guardian
Introverted- 67% Distinctively Expressed Introvert
Sensing- 12% Slightly Expressed Sensing Personality
Feeling- 25% Moderately Expressed Feeling Personality
Judging- 11% Slightly Expressed Judging Personality
and i'm submissive

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/24/2005 7:27:08 PM   
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I'm a ISFJ, but you can interpret it either for Dom or sub. The truth is the MBTI was never intended to find out if your are kinky and what kink you are into.

TonyBFG.

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 10:52:57 AM   
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While it is not intended to show if you're kinky or not, it seems like we have a trend of a few types, one of them quite rare (INFJ). Considering that INFJ is only two percent of the population, to see it represented so highly in BDSM is significant.
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ORIGINAL: mantis65

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The Counselor Idealists are abstract in thought and speech, cooperative in reaching their goals, and directive and introverted in their interpersonal roles. Counselors focus on human potentials, think in terms of ethical values, and come easily to decisions. The small number of this type (little more than 2 percent) is regrettable,


Other types may also be highly represented in other facets of D/w interaction. (we may be seeing more of the INFJs on here because we introverts feel more comforatble in a forum type setting.) The fact that something comprising about 2% of the population is prevelant in D/s at all brings up interesting questions. Is there a personality type that is most prevelant in BDSM. What about this lifestyle draws so many INFJs? Do not make the mistake of assuming this is just Dom/me or subs. If you read through the results, this type is expressed by both sides of the D/s coin.

Both my sub and I test out at an INFJ on this test; myself consistently and he sporadically. We are different enough that we compliment each other, but alike enough that he feels as comfortable as an old friend. One problem we have is that we both share some of the same weak points, and I have to not only guard myself against them, but him also. (We are constantly having the room cleaning issue.. sigh.. why is it that INFJs are the ones with messy work areas? huh? No fair!) Which just made me consider.. when I get mad at him about those areas in which I am also weak but am more reasonable about other failings, is it because it is a weakness of my own and I'm less able to forgive it in myself, and therefore less able to forgive it in him? Oh bloody hell, my head hurts too much to consider this now!

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 4:03:49 PM   
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I think my results are kind of weak.

Extroverted 1%

Sensing 1%

Thinking 1%

Judging 56%

Which makes me a Supervisor Guardian

quote:

Supervisor Guardians are squarely on the side of rules and procedures, and they can be quite serious about seeing to it that others toe the mark—or else face the consequences. They do not hesitate to give their stamp of approval, nor do they withhold their directions or suggestions for improvement.


But I am a -sub- dammit!

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 4:20:29 PM   
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**Jumps on the bandwagon**

Ok my score:

Your Type is
INFJ
Introverted - 33%
Intuitive - 38%
Feeling - 12%
Judging - 11%

You are:
moderately expressed introvert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

slightly expressed feeling personality

slightly expressed judging personality

Hmmm I see a trend.....

J

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 4:50:06 PM   
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ESFJ

100, 38, 38, 11

Submissive.

I will agree that I am an extrovert but I don't know about the sensitivity and feeling part.

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 5:45:51 PM   
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I don't have time to read this thread right now, so excuse me if I repeat something. The topic has been dealt with a number of times on another site, and I will do a search here when I get back to the computer, but the result is pretty much that the types do not correlate with kink.

Grandpa Lash

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 5:49:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetvixen

ESFJ

100, 38, 38, 11

Submissive.

I will agree that I am an extrovert but I don't know about the sensitivity and feeling part.


If that score on Extraversion is accurate it's no wonder you're unsure of the others LOL - it would indicate that you rarely look inside at yourself.

And incidentally, it is not 'sensitivity', it is sensation. Sensitivity tends to come under the Feeling category - which does not necessarily mean 'emotional'. Jung's terms were created 50 odd years ago, and are clumsy in today's semantic field.

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 5:54:11 PM   
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Oh hell, I can't escape. I am INFP, always have been, and it is almost as rare as INFJ. I have also seen a disproportionate number of this type in BDSM (see the other site), and I would suggest from my knowledge of Type that it is the combination of IN-- that does it - introverted intuition, where we look for all the possibilities, and are involved primarily with out own inward idiosyncratic values.

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 6:08:40 PM   
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ok...here are my scores

Introverted 56%
Sensing 12%
Thinking 25%
Judging 1%


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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 8:22:30 PM   
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Cool - that was fun.

I - 44%
N - 50%
T - 12%
J - 22%

I am a submissive and the description was very mostly me. So do we have a consensus of submissive and dominant personalities?

newflowers

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 9:05:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyakitten

Okay, that's ten Intuitives, one Sensor. Any other Sensors out there? Please speak up and scuttle my theories!




this is scary... but ya i took the ride.
i want to go back to both sites and take more tests
but for now:
Introverted 33
Sensing 50
Feeling 50
Perceiving 11

interesting.... thank God i did not having the Judging aspect, cause i try darn hard not to, if i point my finger, i have 3 back at me!

shy
(mmmmm must be some reason for this name )

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/25/2005 10:40:05 PM   
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Your Type is INFJ

Introverted....33%
Intuitive.........50%
Feeling...........38%
Judging..........33%

This identifies Me as a Counselor Idealist and what it says is right on spot.

moderately expressed introvert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

moderately expressed feeling personality

moderately expressed judging personality


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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/26/2005 10:11:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavedesires

interesting.... thank God i did not having the Judging aspect, cause i try darn hard not to, if i point my finger, i have 3 back at me!



As I said in an earlier post, Jung's terms are easily misunderstood today. Judging does not mean judgemental. The Judging process, and we ALL have one, as we ALL have a Perceiving function, either Sensation or Intuition, simply describes how we make our judments, decisions, etc - either through Thinking = rational analysis, pragmatic reasoning, instrumental logic, or Feeling = analysis based on personal values, idealistic reasoning, ethical logic.

For instance:

A Thinking type might look at woodchipping, analyse the practical economic and social benefits and drawbacks, balance them against needs of the environment and human livelihoods, and attempt to come up with a logical reason for either supporting or opposing the practice. A Feeling type will look primarily at the unmeasurable social costs and benefits, the aesthetics, the less concrete philosophical issues like animal rights, balance them against the practicalities, and try to come up with a 'right' reason for supporting or opposing woodchipping.

The former does not inherently have any judgmentalism about it, but some Thinkers are judgmental people; the latter does not inherently mean emotional, although many Feelers are emotional. But both types also have the opposite function to some extent. The point of Jungian typology is that we should each attempt to develop all four functions (Thinking, Feeling, Sensation, and Intuition) to an adequate degree rather than sticking to the primary (strongest) and secondary processes which make up the two middle letters in our Type.

None of the types is any better or worse than the others, just different. But there are quite large variations in distribution among the population, with ESTJ (accountants, bank managers, bureaucrats, managers, businessmen) being clearly the most common type, and the INFJ/INFP types being quite rare. It is only when the values of one type are enforced over all others that problems occur.

To head off the inevitable boxophobics, not all ESTJ's go into the professions I listed, nor are all people in those professions ESTJs, but the correlations for the latter are around 75-85%, easily strong enough to make a generalisation from. But every person is individual - as a quick glance at the results in this thread show. Two ISTPs can be quite different people because their relative strengths/weaknesses in the 'scores' are different, although they will share many characteristics which differentiate them from an ESFJ, for instance.

Incidentally, anyone trying to gain statistical information from those who have listed their type here, beware. There are certain types whose very type makes them almost incapable of taking Typology seriously, and they won't bother doing the test as a rule, or being involved in the discusion except to ridicule it (and no, I still haven't had a chance to read the thread).

Didn't mean to lecture, but I am very fond of this model, and I can't help trying to make people understand it better.

Grandpa Lash

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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/26/2005 11:56:27 PM   
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Ok i couldnt help myself - had to do it - my results were:
Your Type is
ENFP
Extroverted 1%
Intuitive 12%
Feeling 38%
Perceiving 11%

It says it makes me a chamion - but I wouldnt mind understanding it better :-) Anyhow is always fun to do these.

smiles
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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/27/2005 12:15:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CTclay

I just took an online personality test -- I have no idea how accurate it might be, but it seemed to describe me pretty well. I found I am an "Introverted Intuitive Thinking Judging" type, one of 16 types in the Myers-Briggs scale. I'm moderately the first two (introverted, intuitive) and slightly the other two.

I'm a submissive. I wonder if others took the test whether we might see patterns -- subs tending toward some types, doms tending toward other types. Maybe we won't see any pattern, which would still be interesting. Maybe this will tell us something about ourselves and about BDSM.

So, if you want, take the test and post your results here. Will it tell us anything? Is it accurate? I dunno. I'll call it fun and maybe insightful.

Here's where you can take the test:

Online test based on Jung - Myers-Briggs typology



Wow! Have I ever changed over the past few years, I am now a iSfJ . The last time I took the test a few years ago I was an INFP, years before that I was an ENFP.
I learned in psychology that the introverted/extroverted means where we look for our locus of control. If we look for answers outside of ourselves we are an E, if we look inward for answers, we are an I.
Funny, the last time I took the test I was a sub oriented switch, I an now Domme. Interesting.


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RE: Doms/Subs different on personality tests?? - 2/27/2005 1:00:33 AM   
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quote:

Didn't mean to lecture, but I am very fond of this model, and I can't help trying to make people understand it better.


not at all Grandpa Lash
its good to understand these terms as they were meant.
i didnt think this test would say" you are geared to work in the service industry" or anything but it didnt point out some spooky things that are parts of my personality.
I can’t say I understand most this though so any clear definition of the terms is very helpful.
thanks again
mantis

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