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Twiztd2us -> submission and jealousy (6/26/2024 6:58:10 PM)

How do those of you with experience being “one of many” submissives belonging to a single Dominant deal with jealousy? I am subZero. He is my life partner. I know what I should be thinking and feeling when discussion of taking on others happens but I am definitely not there. Jealousy and all of the nasty things that come with it take over. Does anybody have any tips or tricks that help them through?

Please don’t answer telling me that I need to find joy in giving him what makes him happy.

I am looking for real world advice derived from real emotional experiences

Thanks in advance!



OsideGirl -> RE: submission and jealousy (6/27/2024 6:44:27 AM)

Not everyone is wired for Poly, you are or you aren't. This doesn't make you good or bad. We do WIITWD because it makes us happy. You have to decide for yourself whether you can live like this. If it's not making you happy, walk. Everyone deserves happiness in their life.



JVoV -> RE: submission and jealousy (7/2/2024 3:13:49 PM)

I think the most important thing you need to ask him is why?

Personally, I don't believe that all of our needs can be met by just one person. But there should be a better reason than that to open up the relationship to another.

So what is it that he lacks that you aren't fulfilling? Are you a lousy cook? Terrible homemaker? Not bringing enough income into the home? If there's a particular need he has that you can't fulfill, a monohomous relationship will always be lacking.

But really, most dudes just want two bitches sucking their dick at the same time. Then maybe they get into some lesionic shit like in the pornos.



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