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Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ?


It's Always Mutual and concenting, Both Active.
  100% (2)
It's Mostly Mutual And Concenting. A minority is NOT active
  0% (0)
It's not always Mutual but Concenting
  0% (0)
It's Hardly ever concenting But One Side using and abusing Weaknesses
  0% (0)
Not Concentual and done by One side Abusing the Weaknesses of the Othe
  0% (0)


Total Votes : 2
(last vote on : 2/7/2025 4:20:32 PM)
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Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ? - 10/6/2024 12:13:07 AM   
israelislave


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Status: offline 		When it comes to "Polyamory" how many of You think that
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RE: Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ? - 10/9/2024 1:34:16 AM   
JVoV


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Status: online 		Nah. Cheating is abuse. The difference is being honest and open with your partner about your sexual needs and then giving you their informed consent beforehand. Kinda like how some people want to be slaves, but that doesn't mean I can just club somebody over the head and drag them back to my place. That's called kidnapping and highly illegal.

It's the difference between living out a porno and living out an episode of 20/20.

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RE: Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ? - 10/9/2024 5:36:57 PM   
israelislave


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Status: offline 		Maybe I did not make the question clear enough

I'm thinking that among the Polyamory couple there are many, even most, where one of the partners claim consent but actually would prefer the partner would not see the other doing what they do but afraid to lose the partner if they decline stating consent due to personal Issus, Low self esteeme, fear of loosing the partner, deeply being in love with the partner and wishing to be with others, Economical Issue just to list A few.

So the "Give consent" but hate it.

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RE: Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ? - 2/7/2025 4:25:05 PM   
bimom1980


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Status: offline 		[font=hi, you are in a bad place so did you ever think of going with him and be part of what he does?"Arial"]

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RE: Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ? - 2/8/2025 10:33:48 PM   
JVoV


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Status: online 		I don't think polyamory is abuse. I think manipulation is abuse and that sounds more like what is being described.

Some people choose to manipulate others into giving consent for things, knowing their true opinion of them.


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RE: Poliamory. Is it Love Or Abuse ? - 2/13/2025 9:54:03 PM   
LumusAgain


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Status: offline 		I remember when Goreans became a thing. They were valid, not for everyone.

Then it was findoms. Same.

Polyamory is valid, but that doesn't make it good for everyone, like bacon. (What? I got cholesterol. Shaddup.)

It is what it is to the individual. I've seen this very poll countless times, so I'll fasttrack to the gritty.

If you like it, enjoy it. Just be kind.

If you don't like it, don't do it. Just be kind.

If you're unsure, educate yoself. Just be kind.

Is the subtext too subtle?

Cheers. Be well.

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