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Red Flag, Green Flag - 3/10/2025 9:08:44 PM

LumusAgain

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Repurposing an old game.

Every submissive who has entered a relationship, or even discussed one, should know one red flag that they would never trust, and one green flag they consider positive and helpful. Please share one red flag and one green flag you have encountered. No explicit details required, this isn't a fishing expedition; if anything, the purpose is to let y'all vent and share.

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RE: Red Flag, Green Flag - 3/22/2025 8:43:24 AM

peppermint

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A red flag for me would be to expect complete obedience from the beginning. Just because someone says they are an experienced Dominant does not mean they are one. They have to show through their actions that they are trustworthy. Takes time to build full trust.

A green flag would be someone who included you in their whole life. This means meeting friends and family and being social with them. There is more to life than BDSM. I wouldn't want to be a hidden secret not worthy of being included in my Dominant's everyday life.

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