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Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 8:24:39 AM

appletonmale

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Hello everyone my wife and I have been experimenting in the lifestyle and have come here seeking some advice. Through physical actions she is becoming a very good domme, however she feels that she lacks the language and verbal aspects she needs to really take our scenes to the next level.

Does anyone know a way for us to learn a more colorful vocabulary so that as she orders me her words and tone send shivers through my spine.

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RE: Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 8:29:30 AM

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Is it as much the vocabulary as it is the tone of her instructions/demands? I would suggest the diviants dictionary which can be found on the net.

Check that spelling <W>

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RE: Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 12:39:59 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_27520/mpage_1/key_dictionary/tm.htm#27520
Lifestyle glossary and various online abbreviations

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RE: Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 12:55:54 PM

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You're right in suspecting that certain phrases may turn your crank. Honestly, though, you'll probably come upon these by accident, not by reading a BDSM glossary. Think about the ideas that appeal to you, and then brainstorm words and phrases that relate to those ideas. A thesaurus might help here. Excessive talk and description while playing may cause you to hit upon the right words more readily. For example, if the notion of being helpless excites you, then, while binding you, your wife might narrate the process of securely locking you in place in such a way that you can't defend yourself at all and you won't be released until she likes. Should "to lock securely" and "to be unable to defend" turn out to be exciting, then make a mental note of it.

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RE: Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 2:18:07 PM

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thanks for the help so far everyone, and I agree with mp072004 we're not really looking for a listing of terms. We know most of the words we like. The area she is having problems with is more the delivery of them, how to put them together.

Does anyone know a good website that may have free access to bdsm stories or even scene scripts we could review to start to see how the structureing of words should go?

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RE: Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 2:34:00 PM

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thanks for the help so far everyone, and I agree with mp072004 we're not really looking for a listing of terms. We know most of the words we like. The area she is having problems with is more the delivery of them, how to put them together.

Does anyone know a good website that may have free access to bdsm stories or even scene scripts we could review to start to see how the structureing of words should go?

If you are looking for some stories, there are some on literotica.com

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RE: Learning the Lingo - 7/30/2006 3:07:13 PM

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The words should go in a way that turns you and your wife on. Literotica.com and BDSMlibrary.com may be fun to read, and even inspiring, but I imagine you will have more fun if you use them as inspiration, not as scripts.

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