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Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 11:30:57 AM   
rweqrew


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Status: offline 		How do you feel about your physical charachteristics?

Are you proud, indifferent, embarassed?

Do you care about the physical charachteristics of a potential Dom?
Would you like to know his height and weight?  Whether or not he has a beard?  The size of his cock?

What physical charachteristics would you put on your profile, and why?

Which ones would you leave off, and why?

What physical charachteristics do you think a male Dom would be interested in knowing?

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 11:51:48 AM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		I'm fine with how i look - i am what i am.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 11:59:48 AM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		Hell Yeah size matters!!!  She says in a sarcastic tone.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 12:01:36 PM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		i would like to get smaler as i love belly pircings and would like t be thin enough to get one.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 12:15:38 PM   
SexyRed


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Status: offline 		How do you feel about your physical charachteristics? I feel fabulous about all of them.

Are you proud, indifferent, embarassed? Totally proud.

Do you care about the physical charachteristics of a potential Dom? Of course.
Would you like to know his height and weight?  Height mostly, weight is misleading since people distribute their weight differently.  Whether or not he has a beard?  Yes.The size of his cock? Yes, later on when we are dating, but not in the first photo or conversation.

What physical charachteristics would you put on your profile, and why? I don't have to write anything, I have photos, people have eyes. I display my brain and thoughts in my profile.

Which ones would you leave off, and why? See above answer about height and weight.

What physical charachteristics do you think a male Dom would be interested in knowing? I think everyone wants a general idea of the physical, which is why photos are so important. However, I believe that most people who are serious about meeting, are more interested in someone's intelligence and heart and desires; the physical is just the starter point.  If someone is simply interested in just the physical, they can peruse profiles that have exact statistics and measurements.


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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 12:33:30 PM   
KarbonCopy


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lol.


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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 12:45:17 PM   
hizgeorgiapeach


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How do you feel about your physical charachteristics?  Are you proud, indifferent, embarassed?


This particular portion of your questions has been asked so many times in the past that it's almost unreal.  Come to think of it - all of this particular post has been asked a multitude of times  (Where is LA to drag out the list of links to prior threads when we need her?)
 
Why would it really Matter how someone views their own physical characteristics, unless you're getting involved with them, or attempting to get to know them on the basis of wanting to get involved with them?  Im none of those particular answers that you mentioned.  I haven't been Embarassed by my body for several years.  Nor am I Indifferent to it.  However, it is a human machine, and therefore has it's flaws - just like every other human machine - which precludes being inordinately proud of it.  No matter how fabulous we consider ourselves - there will always be someone out there who is smarter, faster, funnier, prettier, etc - to keep our egos in check.  I accept who I am and what I look like. If I wanted to change it, I would.

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Do you care about the physical charachteristics of a potential Dom? Would you like to know his height and weight?  Whether or not he has a beard?  The size of his cock?
 
Since all I look for is friends - no, I honestly could give a flyin rat's arse what my male aquaintances look like who are online.  Unless I'm considering dating a guy, I don't need to know and don't ask.  And for the love of little green apples, the LAST thing I wanna know about some schmuck online is what size his dick is.  If I'm intersted in him sufficently to be curious about that - then we've already met at least a few times face to face, and I'll find out without him having to TELL me.

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What physical charachteristics would you put on your profile, and why? Which ones would you leave off, and why?
 
None of them. Because I don't want someone in my life who's primary interest lies in whether or not they consider me arm candy to show off to their buddies. Or someone who is looking for a convenient fucktoy that they happen to consider easy on the eyes.  I have a photo posted on my profile - if they want to know more than what they can see in that photo, they'd do well to get to know me as a friend and peer, so that I'm actually interested in meeting them for coffee.

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What physical charachteristics do you think a male Dom would be interested in knowing?
 

 I honestly don't Care what physical characteristics any particular male - or female for that matter - is interested in knowing.  Frankly, if they are asking me questions of that nature, especially if we haven't gotten to a point of setting up a face to face meet for coffee - they aren't someone I care to continue associating with, even via email.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 1:16:25 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Yes, looks matter to me.  Like most people, I don't immediately give someone a yes or no based on physical looks.  However, if someone has specific needs in terms of looks, I'd prefer they be open and out with them right off the bat.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 1:21:12 PM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		I need looks for attraction.

I probably won't be willing to get close enough to see what's inside, if they look like Frankenstein and make me head for the hills.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 1:25:14 PM   
litleone8620


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rweqrew

How do you feel about your physical charachteristics?

Are you proud, indifferent, embarassed?

I am proud of the way i look, but like most people there are things i would like to change about myself; and those are private.

Do you care about the physical charachteristics of a potential Dom?
Would you like to know his height and weight?  Whether or not he has a beard?  The size of his cock?

Just like everyone else, i have preferences when it comes to looks. But nothing is ever set in stone.

What physical charachteristics would you put on your profile, and why?

I have a picture on my profile. Why would i need to put physical charactersitcs?

What physical charachteristics do you think a male Dom would be interested in knowing?

Again, i don't feel like i'm leaving anything out of my physical description when i have pictures. If a dominant wants to know more, he can message me.




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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/30/2006 2:33:41 PM   
ArdRi


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Status: offline 		Being confident in yourself will give others confidence in you. Comfort in oneself gives to others comfort in being with you. Self-esteem is everything, esp in BDSM.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/31/2006 2:14:25 AM   
Mavis


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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

What good is a big cock, without the ability to do anything with it.


um...  how big?   hey...  you just lay back, i'm thinking the girl will know what to do with it.
<giggles> 

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/31/2006 2:26:51 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Mavis so it is us whitout the tools that need to learn how to use them ;)

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/31/2006 2:56:18 AM   
srllile7


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I can honestly say after a drastic weight gain from a redirection of my life im a little uneasy about my weight. But with the help of some wonderful men who love me skinny or fat; make me feel like a little sex kitten. Im grown to just fine with myself at 105 or at 159.
I do put my weight and chubbiness as I like to call it on my profile. For one I get lot of emails on I like petite girls because of my height and people are really bad about putting short and skinny together. Secondly the post of weight on here really opened my eyes to how many people do put importance on weight. So why waste time trying to change this persons mind to im just as loveable when im fat when I can put it in my profile and skip the time I would loose messaging back sorry but im a chubby little subbie, not what your looking for. Its time consuming enough wadding through ‘fakes’ as it would be wadding through fakes and real ones who don’t like fat girls.
And yes I do want my Dom to be taller then me as well. Lol im sure it’s a bit of my natural instinct screaming if you want possible off spring to survive you better get with some one tallerlol. Plus as the other thread says taller helps towards the submissive feel for me. Id love for my Dom to have a large cock but its not going to be something I screen for hehehe. And what a Dom would be looking for I don’t know but crap I put a whole lot in my profile lol.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/31/2006 6:21:05 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Well i am not happy with my weight but i am doing something about that.  My Master on the other thinks i am perfect for Him.  As fo the op's question i think cock sixe is not necessary no more so than cup size is for a woman.  If you get  to the point and are going to be intimate then you can share that info.  I pesonally do not think it belongs in a profile.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 7/31/2006 9:59:16 AM   
BenignPlague


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Status: offline 		In the word of my man Sammy J in Pulp Fiction, "Personality goes a long way".  I'm never a fan of the cold, hard bitch, however physically attractive she may be, however if you aren't in the center of Playboy or on a Wheaties box, but you're a nice, honest person, you'll certainly turn some heads.  Media and movies try to give everyone such a linear mentality on looks, a sliding scale that only leads in two directions (hot.....not.).

I'm not the washboard abs, raging bicep guy, but I try to keep myself lean enough that my weight wouldn't interfere with any sort of kink activities (and I fit easily into most overhead compartments).  While there's always someone looking for every physical description of women, there doesn't seem to be a market for BBM (big beautiful men) with 3 inch artillery.

Way I see it, a person has to like you Before they know too much about your physical appearance; that way it has something to base the relationship on besides lust.



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RE: Does Size Matter? - 8/1/2006 1:30:20 AM   
babysburnin


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Status: offline 		I think "Men", in general, want either big boobs, nice ass, long legs, or pretty face.  I grew up with many guys - I heard it all.  "Put a bag over her head and she is "do-able".  (And I grew up with relatively "nice guys".) 

My body was in all reality perfect when I was young - and I was considered "pretty" too. 

Guess what?  Can I improve myself physically now?  Yes.  I'm no longer perfect.

On a profile ... I would put more emphasis on my personality than my physical attributes.  Be honest ... but don't sell yourself "down" if you don't consider yourself perfect physically ... I'll bet the house HE is not the perfect male specimen either...   

(I'm "better than ok" in the looks department.)  I've always been insulted by being appreciated for genetics - I am much more pleased and complimented by those who see me for my other strengths.  I'm pretty ... So what??? 

< Message edited by babysburnin -- 8/1/2006 2:06:17 AM >

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 8/1/2006 12:22:53 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Overall physical charachteristics mean very little to me.  My only requirement was he be taller than I was.  He is a good foot taller.

As far as putting them on my profile I'd leave everything off.  Gives you more to talk about when you meet.  You get to know a person more before hormones rush into the arena.
I think a male dom would want to know about you, who you are inside.  Of course if just a male top..he wants to know all about your sizes and such.  Then again he won't be in it for a relationship either.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 8/2/2006 2:56:24 PM   
chgosubmale


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Status: offline 		We all know that the politically correct answer is to say that looks don't matter. But of course they do. There has to be chemistry in a relationship to make it work, and physical chemistry is part of that. I don't suggest everyone has to be Venus or Adonis. And how you perceive someone's looks isn't just a matter of their physical characteristics but also the personality, confidence level, and situation you are in. In my life I've found myself to be one of the more open people in terms of looks. There are a lot of larger women I think are smoking hot, for example. Actually, it makes me think a lot of other guys actually like them too, but are just too embarrassed to say anything. But regardless of the aspects that make someone attractive, it's certainly one of the elements, though not the only or even most important one, that goes into how interested we are someone.

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RE: Does Size Matter? - 8/7/2006 4:31:58 PM   
shahar


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Status: offline 		I have to admit I am rather self-aware of my size.  I'm over six feet tall and well...rather sturdy.  It's hard to submit to someone you can accidentally step on, and it's also kinda hard to submit if you know that they are intimidated by you.  It's a common problem I run across.  Luckily, I hang out with a bunch of sadistic Martial Artists who love it when I volunteer for grappling practice.  My extra curves keep me from getting too hurt from flying elbows, and I relish the bondage.  :D  

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