Vanilla in the Midst

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blackangel4180 -> Vanilla in the Midst (7/30/2006 8:53:37 PM)
How do I keep a vanilla relationship going without jepordizing (sp) my lifestyle relationship?

Kagesuta -> RE: Vanilla in the Midst (7/30/2006 9:34:07 PM)
So, do you have two separate relationships going on with different people at the same time...? Because in most instances, I think that the people you're seeing would be hurt/angry to find out about the other relationship (especially in the case of said vanilla person). It would be best to choose one over the other, before someone ends up with hurt feelings. Of course, I could be completely mistaken about the meaning of your post... My apologies, if that's the case.

Jasmyn -> RE: Vanilla in the Midst (7/30/2006 9:38:50 PM)
That would depend entirely on why you would want to

perverseangelic -> RE: Vanilla in the Midst (7/30/2006 10:52:15 PM)
You're honest to both of them?

Mavis -> RE: Vanilla in the Midst (7/31/2006 12:52:34 AM)
it's also possible you're meaning how to keep some nilla aspects of a relationship intact while adding lifestyle elements to the SAME relationship. Are you talking about one person /relationship, or two different people/ relationships entirely? Do you want full disclosure between all parties, or looking for tips on how to juggle schedules to accomodate multiple relationships? Post back, you'll get much better answers if we have wee bit more info.

mystiquenz -> RE: Vanilla in the Midst (7/31/2006 1:28:00 AM)
That's almost like saying, your married, and your playing, i would give you wide berth, no one deserves hurt and deceipt, online, or real time. I think you should get your priorities straight ... ~mystique~

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