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sugarplumfairy -> finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 8:05:16 AM)
hello, anybody know about finishing schools to train a brat into a lady? i'd really appreciate the info if they do as have looked quite a while. (If they come with straps and canes- even more interest heheee) sugarplumfairy

SusanofO -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 8:47:57 AM)
If you are serious about someone learning basics of etiquette and not necessarily having it be bdsm life-style related, there is a wonderful set of CDs that teach things like: Poise, posture, table manners, basic etiquette, speech, style, etc. available at the website udefineu.com It is a set of CD's that cost a little over $100, if I remember correctly. I bought these for my niece, when she turned 16, because she wanted them. They offer some valauble instruction, and are geared toward females. udefiine.com You can also find the website if you google the words finishing school - it's near the top of the page, usually. - Susan

MIslostsoul -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 9:52:00 AM)
You may want to do some research into a Life Coach and see if you can find one who is willing to work on what you are looking for. I know of several Dom and Master in California who take on girls for this very reason.

SusanofO -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 11:27:29 AM)
Update: The set contains DVD's not CD's (I mis-spoke- guess I may need a refresher course, hehe)! It is $100, and well worth it. It is called "Finishing school ina box" - 4 DVD's and very good instruction. at: undefineu.com - Susan

DoctorDubious -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 12:18:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugarplumfairy hello, anybody know about *finishing schools to train a brat into a lady? i'd really appreciate the info if they do as have looked quite a while. (If they come with straps and canes-* even more interest heheee) sugarplumfairy Hi there sugar.... and all .... In a house in San Francisco in the Sunset District there is indeed just such a finishing school. The headmaster there is a *powerful* Dom. He trains brats, sluts, submissives and slaves in the arts of becoming beautiful, dignified old-school ladies... ... ladies schooled in the arts of sexual pleasure ..... ladies who learn "graceful submission" ........ ladies with all the style and class of a princess >>*If they come with straps and canes* Yes, The Headmaster has many "instruments of correction" with straps and canes, and other toys. He tells me he likes the feel of a traditional Scottish tawse, and how it turns brats into ladies in just a few sessions in his training school. But mostly, he will turn his ladies-in-training over his knee and give them an old-time Headmaster Spanking.... ...... and he's one of the most stylish and experienced spankers in the world. The Headmaster is sophisticated, classy, single, ~50, and a very intense disciplinarian. He's also extremely successful in vanilla-world. I have tried to convince him to write a few words on this forum, because he has ideas and training techniques to turn brats, sluts and submissives into ladies-of-pleasure that are totally unique. This is stylish stuff .... ..... none of this cheeezy "on your knees, bitch" kinda stuff... So far, no luck, in getting him to write. But I'm a persistant old goat.... Would anyone like to learn more about The Headmaster? I'm still twisting his arm.... (so to speak) DD

Yang4yin -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 12:33:07 PM)
Yes, and see if he needs any new assistants. [;)]

MmakeMme -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 12:34:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious Would anyone like to learn more about The Headmaster? I'm still twisting his arm.... (so to speak) ~ eyes slightly wider than usual, still maintaining ladylike decorum ~ It sounds quite interesting, Doctor. Perhaps you would be kind enough to give some more info. My Dom might prefer that I have a little more training.

NurseKitty -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 3:43:53 PM)
i'm humble enough to recognize i lack almost all manner of ladylike mannerisms. I'm about as graceful as the proverbial bull in a china shop. It's one thing that i've suggested to my own Dom that we use as a sort of formal 'training' although as He's a Dom and not a Domme i don't know how much He would know about training a 'lady'. Very interesting subject.....i think i'll do some looking of my own for something closer to home (new york).

LotusSong -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 4:36:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious quote: ORIGINAL: sugarplumfairy hello, anybody know about *finishing schools to train a brat into a lady? i'd really appreciate the info if they do as have looked quite a while. (If they come with straps and canes-* even more interest heheee) sugarplumfairy Hi there sugar.... and all .... In a house in San Francisco in the Sunset District there is indeed just such a finishing school. The headmaster there is a *powerful* Dom. He trains brats, sluts, submissives and slaves in the arts of becoming beautiful, dignified old-school ladies... ... ladies schooled in the arts of sexual pleasure ..... ladies who learn "graceful submission" ........ ladies with all the style and class of a princess >>*If they come with straps and canes* Yes, The Headmaster has many "instruments of correction" with straps and canes, and other toys. He tells me he likes the feel of a traditional Scottish tawse, and how it turns brats into ladies in just a few sessions in his training school. But mostly, he will turn his ladies-in-training over his knee and give them an old-time Headmaster Spanking.... ...... and he's one of the most stylish and experienced spankers in the world. The Headmaster is sophisticated, classy, single, ~50, and a very intense disciplinarian. He's also extremely successful in vanilla-world. I have tried to convince him to write a few words on this forum, because he has ideas and training techniques to turn brats, sluts and submissives into ladies-of-pleasure that are totally unique. This is stylish stuff .... ..... none of this cheeezy "on your knees, bitch" kinda stuff... So far, no luck, in getting him to write. But I'm a persistant old goat.... Would anyone like to learn more about The Headmaster? I'm still twisting his arm.... (so to speak) DD This training would be quite useless in everyday society. I guess I need the OP to clarify if it is just manners and decorum in general or if she is looking for a "house" as you have just indicated here.

DoctorDubious -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 5:49:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong This training would be *quite useless* in everyday society. I guess I need the OP to clarify if it is just manners and decorum in general or if she is looking for a "house" as you have just indicated here. Dear LotusSong ... and all gentle readers.... Yes, you are correct... I suspect it's totally useless in everyday society! Training women to be graceful, elegant, stylish, well-mannered in their submission ... sexual and service-oriented, is just totally outside of anything our American culture would consider tolerable. So, if you want to be lady-like in the vanilla world sense, the Headmaster would be totally, 100% wrong. DD PS, I only know The Headsmaster in his non-kinky life as a very well-known writer, and trainer of writers. I have only seen a few pictures of "the school-room" where he pursues his "finishing school" for submissives who want to serve and service with style and grace in addition to their sluttier skills.

popeye1250 -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 6:10:53 PM)
Dr. Dubious, "Ladys of pleasure?" You mean like, "SPORTIN' LADIES?"

enigmabrat -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 6:46:05 PM)
LOL do such places exist... I didnt think beeing a brat could be changed isnt it part of who you are???

amayos -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 7:00:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong This training would be quite useless in everyday society. Au Contraire. I believe the lack of this training is a common affliction in the contemporary West.

angelic -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 7:20:15 PM)
i would go for that training... provided the Men went to a Gentlemen's Finishing School [;)]

catize -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 7:52:19 PM)
..........and what is the tuition, exactly? <she asks suspiciously>

irishbynature -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 7:59:50 PM)
If I were ever sent to this finishing school....I have a feeling I'd end up in Suspension Hall...[:D] or some kind of after school punishment, writing on the chalk board..."I promise to behave" like 1,000 times![:D]

popeye1250 -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 8:03:34 PM)
Irish, of course you would! You're a very naughty girl.

amayos -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 8:08:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelic i would go for that training... provided the Men went to a Gentlemen's Finishing School [;)] A fair point. The male sex would do well to be shown what it is to be noble and self actualized again. There will of course always be time enough for the banality of slick girlie magazines, endless sports statistics and one-dollar Heineken hour at the local watering hole.

DoctorDubious -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 8:17:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: catize ..........and what is the tuition, exactly? <she asks suspiciously> The elective surrender of your will for the period of your training. A very high price indeed. DD

DoctorDubious -> RE: finishing schools for ladies (7/31/2006 8:31:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: enigmabrat LOL do such places exist... *I didnt think beeing a brat could be changed isnt it part of who you are???* Hey Dear enigmabrat.... and all gentle readers... I gotta tell ya, "training" just ain't my kink.... I just want one smart, funny, subby woman to surrender herself to my will....when we are at home together.... and even more challengingly, laugh at my jokes... but the way I understand what The Headmaster does is put a veneer of manners, grace, and elegance to "her" slutty, bratty, subby ways ....... it's HIS kink to spend a few hours, days, or weeks thru discipline, training, ardous tasks of service, and a helluva lotta spankings.... to give his girlie-subby-students a choice... is she serving her Master tonight like Princess Grace or is she a bratty-girl... or just a cum-dump to be used at will.... ........ so it's the same "you" with more choices as to style of service... DD PS....ps, I think he's got a kink for spanking and submission.... that's what he gets outta it. PSS... I also think he's kinda "choosey"...

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