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Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 4:00:05 PM   
littleone35


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I was just wondering if other subs/slaves have the same experience that i do.  Now i love my Master with all my heart and i usually love everything he does to my body.  There is one thing he does however that i hate (no specifices) and i think he does it now cause he knows i hate it.

My questions do any other subs/slaves Masters do something to your body that you hate but you submit to it because they are your Master?

i am not talking about painful things (some people on the boards like pain) just things you find uncomfortable.

I sure hope this makes sense.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 4:23:06 PM   
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I think life forces us to do things we hate doing- the difference with subs is that they offer themselves to do something they hate voluntarily at the whim of another...solely for their own fulfillment of self in return.



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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 4:40:33 PM   
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Master tickles my feet even though it makes me soooo mad, I can't stand it.  I don't know why he does it, but he does. 

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 4:46:46 PM   
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I hate it when he does anything to my ass other then paddle it or caress it. I submit to whatever he wants to do however, even if it is using icky toys in there.

He is also terribly fond of blowing raspberries in my belly button. Why? I don't know, but I submit to that as well.

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 4:53:43 PM   
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There most certainly are things my girl definatly doesn't like but she submits to anyway.
She is a good girl


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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 4:56:09 PM   
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I can think of a few things...I hate nipple play; way too sensative there! Also clothespins on my lips...guess which pair...i don't have a Dom right now, but have past experience, LOL!

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 5:11:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

My questions do any other subs/slaves Masters do something to your body that you hate but you submit to it because they are your Master?



My submissive and puppy would tell you, "Yes!" lol Of course, that's what makes it fun.

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 5:19:38 PM   
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Some things Loki does I do dislike intensely, but I do them anyway.
His cupping set is straight from hell I say, but he gets immense pleasure from using it and it hasn't eaten any appendages yet.

The appreciation from him when I've done something he knows I dislike is (generally) worth any of my discomfort.

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 5:23:00 PM   
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Yes, there are things I hate...but not going to mention them here <grin>.

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 6:43:30 PM   
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Typically I learn to like the things which I previously did not like.  I love the amusement and satisfaction he gets out of doing them, so it can't be all bad.  Yes, there are things that are emotionally uncomfortable, and there are things that are downright physically painful, but what is my choice but to do them without protest?  I am lucky and happy to be owned by him, and always thrilled when he wants to make use of me, so I welcome anything he does, even if I don't like it. 

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 7:03:03 PM   
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Often, the fact that a bottom or submissive hates an action is the exciting part. It's a type of sadism.

Littleone, you've identified two of the reasons a person endures a hated activity--because the person enjoys the feeling of not being in control, and because the person has agreed to engage in activities at the will of another.

One of the other motivations, closely related, involves roleplay--interrogation and rape scenes often are enhanced by the addition of a genuinely loathed activity.

Some bottoms do things they hate without getting off on the notion of lacking control. They tend to approach it as something to endure as a point of pride, for a sense of accomplishment or perception of strength once finished. Others do things they hate but their partners want in exchange for their partners doing something their partners hate but they want.

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 7:34:44 PM   
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The only thing so far that I've found that my sub hates is cold. he doesn't like ice or cold water on him at all. Its not a hard limit so I've used it as punishment and he has yet to repeat the offense.

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RE: Things You Hate - 7/31/2006 7:46:09 PM   
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quote:

My questions do any other subs/slaves Masters do something to your body that you hate but you submit to it because they are your Master?


The Kaptin does things to me that I dislike all the time.  He does it because He can, and I submit to it because I told Him six plus years ago that He can.  If all He ever did was things that I enjoy, I'd quickly become restless and bored, because I need Him to be cruel to me.  The beast within me feeds on His cruelty, and if He's being all kind and gentle all the time... well... I'm just not happy.
 
I do things to others that they dislike as well.  Why?  Because I can.  Why do they submit to it?  Because they knew in advance what I was going to do, and they wanted to play with me anyway.

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RE: Things You Hate - 8/1/2006 12:37:04 AM   
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Hi Littleone,

He does, on occasion, do things he knows I do not like - luckily I have a sensitive Dom who doesn't push too far when I wouldn't accept it well.  An easy answer ... nipple clamps.  They hurt me!!! But, he watches for signs of distress and acts accordingly...  



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RE: Things You Hate - 8/1/2006 2:31:55 AM   
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there are a number of things Master does that i don't like. some i even hate and really do dread and wish He wouldn't. but thy make Him happy, so i will just learn to live with them

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RE: Things You Hate - 8/1/2006 7:40:21 AM   
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If it's something I don't like.. I'll let it be known... if he continues.. then things stop. And no it's not topping from the bottom. It just simply...hey..I do not like that.. don't do it. 

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RE: Things You Hate - 8/2/2006 8:32:08 PM   
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LOL...ahhh True you are such a heretic...you crack me up.....Tempting

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RE: Things You Hate - 8/2/2006 8:50:31 PM   
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Yes my Master does something in perticular that I can't stand. He does it for HIS pleasure and sometimes I take it and sometimes I don't. We have now worked out a compromise that he doesn't take advantage of it BUT when he is trying to teach me something new he uses it as a remider tool so I tend not to forget.

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RE: Things You Hate - 8/3/2006 8:52:56 AM   
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cooking Master a meal and then being put outside while He eats. :P

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RE: Things You Hate - 8/3/2006 11:05:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I was just wondering if other subs/slaves have the same experience that i do.  Now i love my Master with all my heart and i usually love everything he does to my body.  There is one thing he does however that i hate (no specifices) and i think he does it now cause he knows i hate it.

My questions do any other subs/slaves Masters do something to your body that you hate but you submit to it because they are your Master?

i am not talking about painful things (some people on the boards like pain) just things you find uncomfortable.

I sure hope this makes sense.

Matt's littleone


Dur em......  YES! 

Dur.. i think i hate it all = )  SCREW the thorns.. give me roses.. la de daaaaaaaa.  Erm.  Yes?  And No!  Yes there are things i hate and NO i dun submit cos he's da Master.  i submit cos i'm tied up and if i dont it just hurts more.

LOLOLOL 

Dur not painful things?  Sure.. i HATE being watched going to the bathroom.  No! i dun submit cos he's da Master, i submit cos it just hurts more if i dont...

or i'm there like for hours.. waiting for him to get bored and he neva does.. so i suppose den i submit cos i'm bored of sitting on the toilet? 

LOLOL 

Durrrrr.. i NEVA submit cos he's da Master.. i submit cos i wants to for one reason or another = ) 


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