Dauric -> RE: Police, Threats, Stalking... (8/1/2006 10:22:40 PM)
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ORIGINAL: amayos Define Safe Sane and Consensual. A peppy mantra—or a signed agreement, for that matter—is no replacement for sound judgement, good instinct, shrewd contingencies and a broader understanding of human nature. I'll say that SSC represents a wonderful ideal to live by, even if it's functionally flawed: being unsafe, insane, and nonconsenting is certanly a bad idea. That said, contracts... They're in the 'nilla world too, called "pre-nuptual agreements" and they usually are one of the bigger warning signs that a relationship will end badly. Best way to avoid the problem is to not get in to it in the first place. Get to know the person, ask questions and get answers. Psychos are candy sprinkles on both sides of the Chocolate-Vanilla swirl.
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