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Tamerofwild1s -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:35:21 PM)
I have to say another great question Susan .... and one thats very hard to answer I always feel protective of my property . it a natural part of who I am ... are there times where I feel more protective defiently . many times I get puffy chested around situations that affect her . it is part of my responsability to protect her at all costs

popeye1250 -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:39:27 PM)
Oside, it also sucks that the State of Calif makes it so hard to get a Concealed Weapons Permit. Lots of people here carry all the time plus you can carry a loaded firearm in your vehicle in the console or glove compartment without a permit. We don't have too much of that kind of stuff here because the bad guys know that if they try it there's a real good chance that they'll be going to pine boxville.

SusanofO -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:43:45 PM)
Thanks, Tamer. And thanks to all who have answered so far. I appreciate it. -Susan

DoctorDubious -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:49:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO Good point, Doctor D. I am sure some submissives occasionally *might feel their Dominant can "over-do it".* Any specific circumstances come to mind that make you feel she needs to be protected, more than others? - Susan Hey S... and all gentle readers.... >>might feel their Dominant can "over-do it".* Well, I've been told many times in may ways about this whole "over-do-it" shit.... And when you think about it, there's an element of "Dom" to the energy of gusto, exhuberance, striving, action, leading...... eh? >>*Any specific circumstances come to mind that make you feel she needs to be protected, more than others? Well, I have a real-world friend who is in a legal battle with a huge employer and her lawyer was procrastinating... doing shoddy work, and bullying her out of her legitimate concerns... ..... and I wanted to grab the phone and speak to him ..very politely...over-polite ... in low, slow, strong, menacing tones.... Another time there was a situation where she wanted to go to a party.... and thru contempt and neglect and plain fucking lack of consideration on another man's part.... she drove to that party alone and unhappy. Wouldn't anyone want to protect a dear friend from that kind of emotional carelessness and sloppiness... How about a situation where a woman had been in a D/s relationship with a man... ... now it's over..... really over and he uses his previous relationship/power totally innapropriately in the current context... Wouldn't most anybody like to back that sonsabitch into a corner, lean in close.... pierce him with your eyes, let him smell your breath up close.... really invade his space.... and have a quiet word or two..... while your hands are ready, knees flexed, energy up, alert ....... How about SusanofO's example of a boyfriend who wouldn't protect her if they were getting mugged? Pussies like that are beneath contempt, but I'd still to lean in a bit on him too....... DD, a pisssy old goat

popeye1250 -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:50:43 PM)
One saying that I like. "With priviledge comes responsibility."

OsideGirl -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:58:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO Good point, Doctor D. I am sure some submissives occasionally might feel their Dominant can "over-do it". Master can "over do it" sometimes. I tend to be very independent. Not to mention, I had managed on my own until I was 34. But, whenever I start to feel that way, I remind myself to take it as a compliment. Master and I were platonic friends for years before we ever dated, so I know how he was with his previous submissive. He's much more protective, caring and attentive to me than he was in that relationship. So, I take it as a compliment.

SusanofO -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:58:29 PM)
Thanks, Doctor.You have restored my faith (not in you, just in general). One reason I posted this, I guess is that I've been reading too many posts here lately about irresponsible and disappointing people who call themselves Master, from disappointed submissives. I just figured there are undoubtedly good ones out there, and it wouldn't hurt to hear from them, and about them, for a change... - Susan

SusanofO -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 4:59:39 PM)
Oside girl: Thanks for the reply. I think many probably learn from past "mistakes" (submissives included). - Susan

DoctorDubious -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 5:12:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO ....... people who call themselves Master. I just figured *there are undoubtedly good ones out there, and it wouldn't hurt to hear from them, and about them, for a change...* - Susan Maybe they are all off somewhere paying exquisite attention to the changing expressions on their bound and helpless sub's face as they do unspeakable things to them.... DD

SusanofO -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 5:15:18 PM)
Maybe. But some of them are answering this post, too (or at least reading it). I just knew it would work. [;)][:D] - Susan

Lashra -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 5:47:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo I think submissives, actually are very protective of their Dominants. Ive seen plenty of them take a bite out of someone like a mad dog for saying something negative about their Master. Mine is like that, he will not stand for someone to say something unkind to me. But then I'm the same way about him. I believe the protection thing actually works both ways in most relationships. It just seems natural to want to protect someone you love. ~Lashra

twicehappy -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 6:05:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth There are only two times when I believe it is necessary to act upon my responsibility as owner of beth and protect her; when she is awake and when she is sleeping. Awwwwww........... I think you are too cute.... and also right.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 6:11:06 PM)
I know the only time I have ever seena protective streak in my boy is when someone has questioned my judgement and spoken ill about my choices. Personally, I am fiercely protective of my boy, and have always been that way of my pets. I have had to step up and physically protect some. One time, in a club in NY, a male Dom decided to order around my boy at the time. When my boy didnt snap to attention and runand fetch the Dom's drink for him, the Dom backhanded my boy across the face hard enough to bring tears to his eyes. It didnt take long for me to tackle and beat the Dom to the floor, and have to be dragged off him, while he was begging me t stop. My boy was fine, the Dom had a broken nose. Emotionally, I shield them from what i can. Verbally, my boy can hold his own. DV

MistressKita -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 6:49:52 PM)
Protection is my ultimate nature for my submissives, I was bringing together my submissive with another and while basically interviewing the other to see the compatibility issues the new one began to become aggressive I suppose to impress me and try to become as close to me as possible being as my submissive is more timid and passive. The new submissive began to claim how this aggressive nature would be poured out onto my submissive and I went directly into protective mode and began to promptly tell this subordinate if it were ever close to my submissive and tried to damage them in any way I would stomp them within an inch of its life. Just the thought of someone one causing any pain other than myself to my submissive flipped me out. Mistresskita

popeye1250 -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 7:08:50 PM)
Kita, I'm the same way, no-one screws with MY submissive ever!

DoctorDubious -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 7:10:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO Thanks, Doctor.You have restored my faith (*not in you*, just in general). ... Susan, you are hilarious! Finally...... a joke emerges from Omaha. DD an earnest old goat (not)

SusanofO -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 7:20:50 PM)
Doctor: I do have faith in you. I always have. I think you're a genuis. HUGs![:)] I really have seen a lot of posts lately from disillusioned submissives, and also I wanted to start a new thread (I swear I've read every one on here, except forthe professional advertisements. I spend way too much time online, probably). But- I am so glas people are answering this one. - Susan

popeye1250 -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 7:22:57 PM)
Doctor, "finally?" Susan cracks me up!

SirKenin -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you feel protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 7:47:52 PM)
It is not so much the things they do for Me necessarily. It is the threat that others might pose to them. I will fight to the death if I feel that My own is being threatened in any way. In fact, I am embroiled in such a battle now against one that would threaten us. Bad idea.

KnightofMists -> RE: What kinds of circumstances make you protective of your submissive? (8/1/2006 7:54:47 PM)
Whenever I feel they are incapable of protecting themselves.... or if I percieve that they require my assistance.

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