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Crazy Exs? - 8/1/2006 5:45:59 PM

DiurnalVampire

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OK, I know this is going to sound like a rant thread, but it isnt so much that as a "My goodness, OK so this IS a small world" type thing.
A former sub of mine, somehow, out of NO WHERE contacted my current boy. Now, my boy is not public about beng mine, partly for fear of jinxing it, and partly becasue we have noticed that owned boys get far more attention than they care for. She is the only female sub I had ever owned.
Now, heres the strange bit. She contacted him out of the blue, bcasue she said she had been watching his profile and noticed he had changed the content and had new pictures. (Shes a lesbian, so why she was watching his profile I am still not sure) And when she found out he was mine, she has gotten REALLY bitchy about things. He shares what she says with me, and jealousy is an ugly thing. But after 4 years... holding on for a hope of reconnecting after that long...

I have been just a touch freaked out about the whole scenario for a while. What are the chances she'd find him out of no where? She contacted me, and I have essentialy told her to leave me alone I wasnt interested. Whether they continure their verbal sparring match or not is up to them. I am not including either name, to protect the innocent and the insane...

Just needed to share... I am still a wee bit wierded out about it, so maybe posting will make it make more sense. Out of everyone on the site for her to decide to watch and talk to... why my boy?

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RE: Crazy Exs? - 8/1/2006 5:51:03 PM

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Your boy is the lever she lost when you cut her off.

Have him do the same.

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RE: Crazy Exs? - 8/1/2006 6:19:58 PM

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It took her 4 years to find a boy she didnt know I had... and wuld have taken her longer to find me. I cut her off already, I told him he could continue sparring with her if he so chose.

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RE: Crazy Exs? - 8/1/2006 7:25:38 PM

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I agree with Homestead. If the situation bothers you, and makes you feel at unease, have your boy cut her off, and have him do it in no uncertain terms. Life is too short to let poison into your life, especially when you could have stopped it.

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RE: Crazy Exs? - 8/1/2006 8:31:44 PM

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Hehehe I have a crazy ex story... except its not so much my crazy ex as my crazy ex's (to quote someone from CM) Majorly FIsking Psychotic mother...Its been a year since the breakuo and shes still calling me to scream and yell and threaten... And is tracing my numbers even though I have changed them several times.... *shakes head*

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RE: Crazy Exs? - 8/1/2006 9:12:59 PM

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I dont think I am bothered by his talking to her. If he wishes t defend me and what we have to her, let him have at it. What disturbs me is that she found him, and me... after 4 years of absolutely no contact. She can say what she likes, it wont bother either of us. It is actually making for quite the amusing read when she replies. Just the idea that someone has spent 4 years trying to locate me, and now is begging to get back into my life bcasue she loves me... that I find a bit strange.

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