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LaTigresse -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:14:44 PM)

As many others have said, alot of it is a matter of perception. I had a girl that would act out when she was afraid. Understanding what brought out that behaviour helped curb it. I also think that what one would percieve as bratty another would see as playful fun.  I know some dominants want a much stricter household than others. It is personal preference. I also turned away a girl that continued to act out to get attention, something she still cannot get enough of. I understand why she does what she does but I still don't want it in my house, its just too much. Another might enjoy it but I just don't want to constantly keep replaying the same lessons. 



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:15:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne
LA feels we are all just hopeless fools ruled by our dicks and will let anything go for a steady fuck.  It is a repeating theme in her answers.

K

Now that's just far too over-generalizing.



marieToo -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:16:28 PM)

Reply to OP:

Could be any number of possible reasons.  Doesnt care enough to change it.  Doesnt really want to change it. Doesnt know how to change it.  Loves the person in spite of it, etc.   I would ask the person directly. 



Homestead -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:22:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Pussy.


LA,

While I understand the answer, and for myself prefer the whole 'going another buncha years without', I didn't feel you were succinct enough in your reply.

Jeff


LA feels we are all just hopeless fools ruled by our dicks and will let anything go for a steady fuck.  It is a repeating theme in her answers.

K


Most men are though. Watch the reactions from a good looking woman, if you turn her down for sex. The immediate and arrogant reaction is to label one gay, for having some control and taste.

But not everyone is a masochist to play hide the salami.[:D]



PlayfulOne -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:39:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne
LA feels we are all just hopeless fools ruled by our dicks and will let anything go for a steady fuck.  It is a repeating theme in her answers.

K

Now that's just far too over-generalizing.


Is it?  The answer you gave here or the more common, "kinky sex", is not an often used response for why we do things?  That does give the impression you think we can't see past our dicks.

K



mstrjx -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:47:16 PM)

Cheers all,

Let me give an answer more becoming the OP, and respond to some of the hijack.

I don't know that I've ever come across someone who was obviously bratty.  I believe usually that behavior comes about trying to get attention from a dom/Master, and that by definition would not happen as such to me.  I tend to be quite giving in that department.  If someone were going out of their way to be bratty with me, I would probably not wish to be with that person.

Having said that, in a reflection of some of the other responses, it is difficult to stay in a serious 'tone' that some would find appropriate, especially in a 24/7 environment.  So, yes, just as any two people in a relationship, sometimes the tone is more playful.  This does not have to be interpreted as bratty.  I would think the more experience the dominant partner has, the easier it would be to recognize the nature of the behavior.

As far as the implications of men and their proclivities in a greedy manner, I've never been one for that and find it repugnant.  I do what I can to distance myself from that sort of behavior.  So, yes, if that means going months or years between partners that I would like to be with 'for the duration', so be it.  My email isn't bursting at the seams like I suppose it is for the fairer sex, but I'm not afraid to decline.  Just my way.

Jeff



yourMissTress -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 1:52:52 PM)

I think that LA's answer is spot on.  Not because she's calling all men sex crazed fools who can't think past their dicks, but because there are a lot of men for whom it's true.

My girl is decidedly a smart ass. And I like her that way.  I like the spirit and the irreverentness and the fun that we have.  She is also very aware of the time and place for this behaviour and is never disrespectful, but fun loving and spunky.  I don't qualify her as a brat and I do call her a SAM but only because she is a Smart Ass and she's a Masochist, but she doesn't act out in order to receive punishment.     



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 2:28:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne
Is it?  The answer you gave here or the more common, "kinky sex", is not an often used response for why we do things?  That does give the impression you think we can't see past our dicks.

K

The question I was answering was "Why do men, who supposedly have the authority and ability to train behavior that they want in their submissive, put up with behavior that they consider ridiculous?"

My answer:  Pussy.

For a more complete answer: Mostly for pussy.

This doesn't suggest anything about ALL men, and I don't think there is any evidence in my 8000+ postings (LA and EmeraldSlave included) that I consider all men nothing but horn dogs who can't think beyond their dicks.

After all I LIVE with two males, that's certainly not their constant primary motivation.



happypervert -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 4:48:27 PM)

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After all I LIVE with two males, that's certainly not their constant primary motivation.

Right -- guys are also motivated by blowjobs.



Homestead -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 5:01:54 PM)

And football, never forget football.

Very important.



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 6:21:40 PM)

I have to agree with LA,who admitted there are a certain few who dont fit the catagory of just thinking with the little head.

But on the other hand I have to mention the certain few males that think if You are a Lesbian...You just havent found the right dick yet.[:'(]

I have said already somewhere....That I can tolerate a submissive being bratty to some extent.
Like LaTigresse when it comes to them just wanting any kind of attention and its constant I also have no choice but to break the tie that binds.

*IMO...that type of brat is similiar to age play where you are constantly scolding a baby.Again just My own warped view.*



Homestead -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/3/2006 6:34:58 PM)

With all of the battling over sexes going on, I wonder if I should just not pick up a castrated house boy some place. At least he would have the advantage of not demanding sex-or going though wild hormonal moods swings on a monthly basis.

And really, sex is just not that important to me these days-not if so much drama has to be connected to it.  Can't we just get along?



Mavis -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/4/2006 2:48:38 AM)

So i get the impression that one of the girls in a poly household is being allowed to get away with things the other girls aren't..  and since Master appearantly isn't seeing it, the real question is "why is He letting her get away with stuff i'd be in trouble for?"

Maybe Master is paying more attn to the subtle shift as the rest of the girls struggle with Him not taking actions they deem appropriate.  It could be more amusing to Him than the antics of said brat.

just assuming of course.. and i do that wrong a LOT.   :)

[edited to fix typo!]



prdslave -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 12:30:12 PM)

ok..what does SAM mean? its daylight, and my brain doesnt turn on for another 4 hours



michaelGA2 -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 12:39:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

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After all I LIVE with two males, that's certainly not their constant primary motivation.

Right -- guys are also motivated by blowjobs.



not all guys are motivated by them, i can take em or leave em. i actually prefer giving oral to a woman.



MissTlTTYMilk -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 12:56:09 PM)

i agree with the above posts:
i have never equated acting bratty as being a playful, high-spirited submissive.  





raiken -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 2:32:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: prdslave

ok..what does SAM mean? its daylight, and my brain doesnt turn on for another 4 hours

 
Smart Ass(ed) Masochist ;-)



raiken -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 2:37:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissTlTTYMilk

i agree with the above posts:
i have never equated acting bratty as being a playful, high-spirited submissive.  


 
But you would be surprised at how many who do.  And how many take themselves waaaay to seriously and forget it is okay to laugh and play (appropriate timing of course) even when bound up tight and getting a nice booty warming! *grinz i have met those who think that just because we are in this lifestyle we have to walk around with straight expression, and become monks.



Homestead -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 4:16:37 PM)

Define "bratty", and the answer will be clear.



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Bratty Behavior (8/7/2006 4:37:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

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After all I LIVE with two males, that's certainly not their constant primary motivation.

Right -- guys are also motivated by blowjobs.



::sputters coffee all over my monitor::

Wow, really? Dang it, I wondered about that, but I thought I was just imagining things!



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