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In and Out - 8/2/2006 11:56:34 PM

babysburnin

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No... this is not about physical penetration. It's about emotional penetration. After a "close/special" time together, do you feel withdrawal afterwards when life goes back to biz as usual?

Also, what draws you in, and what pulls you out?

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RE: In and Out - 8/3/2006 7:46:22 AM

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Even us Masters feel this way...and it doesn't necessarily have to do with Ds or Ms or SM. I fly for a day or so after I've spent time with my vanilla lover. He does, too. I drop after that. He does as well. What draws me in is the energy exchange; he's very aware of energy and can use that knowledge with great skill! Sex with him is usually very cathartic for me and, since we share with each other openly, it feeds us. What pulls me out is just the fading of the feeding and feelings. I can prolong it if I work to keep myself fed and grounded from the earth, but usually I get so busy in the day-to-day that I don't find the time.

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RE: In and Out - 8/3/2006 9:02:51 AM

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when Master goes on his trips, somtimes 2 months at a time, boy knows that he misses Him very very badly. he is allowed to live a "normal" life when He is away, and it does not seem "normal" to him at all.

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RE: In and Out - 8/3/2006 9:25:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: babysburnin

No... this is not about physical penetration. It's about emotional penetration. After a "close/special" time together, do you feel withdrawal afterwards when life goes back to biz as usual?

Yup. That's why I don't do certain scenes during the week and why I always take a day off work after returning from a multi-day convention.

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Also, what draws you in, and what pulls you out?

Intense connection and vulnerability.

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RE: In and Out - 8/3/2006 10:45:22 AM

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Yes and I like it.
It shows caring. And I like it if the sub feels that way too!

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RE: In and Out - 8/3/2006 11:00:08 AM

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No... this is not about physical penetration. It's about emotional penetration. After a "close/special" time together, do you feel withdrawal afterwards when life goes back to biz as usual?

Also, what draws you in, and what pulls you out?

YES! Not that life is biz for me. No's i respectfully decline that option!

Write how you feel down...

drink a pepsi

smile and say

YAY! Life is good. Very good. How lucky am i? Gee, arent i blessed?

then kick back, smoke a cigeratte and drink a pepsi = )

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