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Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:11:12 AM   
SweetlyMisguided


Posts: 44
Joined: 2/10/2004
Status: offline 		To believe one is simply here on this site looking for friends...

I guess my question comes from the mounds of emails I have gotten asking me why I both to remain on a "purely sexual site" when I am happy collared and not seeking a play partner/Master/fuck buddy...

Is it just me or am I like mounds of others complaining about this?

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:19:10 AM   
proudsub


Posts: 6142
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Washington
Status: offline 		Many of us here are not looking for anything more than friends and to learn what we can from the forums.

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:21:24 AM   
siamsa24


Posts: 2426
Joined: 2/2/2004
Status: offline 		Just ignore the e-mails, they will stop with time. Most of them have no idea what this whole lifestyle is about. Even if you are already taken you still need friends and places to go to learn, just as you do in any other relationship.

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:23:12 AM   
Wolfsbabygirlz


Posts: 37
Joined: 12/2/2004
Status: offline 		Greetings to you ..Oh i get tons of emails, like you..
And thats all i was/am looking to meet are new friends, period ...is it just me here, but it baffles my mind as they chase down me ...isnt that suppose to be our's ?? *laughing*
Wolfsbabygirlz =)

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:25:41 AM   
sweetpleaser


Posts: 689
Joined: 8/5/2004
From: Florida
Status: offline 		You are not alone. There are other sites that do accentuate the personals side but I believe collarme has room for others who just want to communicate for friendship and advice. Frankly I believe that people who send hate emails telling you that you shouldn't be on this site are jealous because you are young and unavailable and there is a small sub/slave pool out there. I see posts all the time regarding their frustration in not finding someone and they have to go through countless profiles to find sub/slaves who are available. Hey, it's a free site and anyone can be here, in my opinion.

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It's not the men in my life that count, it's the life in my men.--Mae West

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:30:50 AM   
srahfox


Posts: 261
Joined: 10/17/2004
Status: offline 		If they don't like it they are free to go somewhere else. Master and I aren't exactly looking for anyone, but have found a lot of comfort in this site. I have never felt I was wrong about being a member and not being avalable. You aren't avalable weither you are here or not. Not a hard concept.

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/14/2004 9:41:45 AM   
SweetlyMisguided


Posts: 44
Joined: 2/10/2004
Status: offline 		Muchious gracious for the comments of support... I guess I just get tired of the "wanna sleep/fuck/submit/play etc to/with me while you're Masters away" Type of emails... and then when I tell them no thanks and politely quote the bottom of my profile, they throw tantrums like little children!

Heheh glad to see I'm not alone... and hullo everyone

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/15/2004 4:11:08 PM   
sub4hire


Posts: 6775
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		In my profile I quickly stated I was here seeking friends. Actually I am here for the boards.
As the other's have already expressed you definately are not here alone.

What makes me laugh is when you re-iterate to them you are only here seeking friends. Then they ask you out on a date the next time they come to your state. Of course just as friends and play partners.

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/15/2004 7:30:22 PM   
FangsNfeet


Posts: 3758
Joined: 12/3/2004
Status: offline 		well I myself like reading the creative writtings more than anything else. Friends come and go but scares can stay forever.
At anyrate I've joined and associated myself with various organizations but only made for chit chat instead for friends. There's Amtgard, Camarilla, KOC, ADF, and the Republican Party. Love me or hate me I continue to do what I like. Everyone joins something for various reasons and it's not always out to get some ass. Sheesh, collarme.com is an alright site and offers more than Let's Hook up and FUCK!

So let's all have some fun. And as to the mindless morons with Dick for Brains, just wack off to the pics and leave us alone.

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/15/2004 10:16:56 PM   
perverseangelic


Posts: 2625
Joined: 2/2/2004
From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		Incedentally, it's totally possible to meet friends too.

I've made some nifty ones. Even met one in realtime, which is totally totally unlike me.

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RE: Is it really that difficult? - 12/15/2004 10:31:28 PM   
EStrict


Posts: 729
Joined: 1/11/2004
Status: offline 		I admit, I came here to chat. When I first joined, the forum didn't exist. Now, when I get emails from people who want to be friends and start to ask my views on this and that, I tend to send them to the forums to do a search for my name. ::Laughing:: after all, I've never claimed to be anything other than outspoken, honest, and consistent...



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