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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 9:12:26 AM   
Tamerofwild1s


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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 11:36:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: shivvy

it may be a "validation thing", but i can truely understand why enigma asked. and i think if i woz her, i would *need* to ask too, coz i know where she's coming from. 
 

sorry, but i just wanted to say please don't have a go at enigma for asking for validation. i don't mean this funny, but i wouldn't expect Doms to understand some people need to be accepted, and for that reassurance. i know i do, and i know some people can find it really frustrating and annoying, and really, it's not ment like that.
 



Shivvy, Brat is a dear friend of mine....I have worked with her extensivly off site. My only intent on the validation point we she pointed out that VH made her put that in there,  I do abosluty validate her completly She knows this.... My only point was the reponse from her where SHE had to put that....I also now see VH's view but he had not addressed it yet.  Brat is trying very very hard and learning much about her self....I see this progress every day via private Ims.   I personally am a Proud mommy type right now, in how adult she is in dealing with it....it would be a very sad day to see her leave her for me....but she already knows this.

Just to clear up....I was multitasking with several ppl last night and I have a hard time sometimes trying to get a point across here in the forums, because my mind cannot process many things going on at a time....it has been a quiet morning so am thinking more clear.

And I would also like to interject this...having had a recent conversation with someone.....alot of people have been working with Brat...I now think Tamer tried to council you are a friend and should be given some credit too.

She is trying hard to give credit to those that have given her the time and patience outside of the forums and its hard to address everyone.  People really do try and sometimes.....opinions can get washy.....via the forums and what goes on in private.

Everyone who knows me also know i try hard to help others in my way...and advocate keeping real personal stuff outside of a public forum.  I am a humble person and love people but it seems sometimes my gut instinct about a person after time is proven wrong.  This is this such a time now with my  in the initial impression of Tamer....I have apoligied to him privately.

If anyone ever has a question....please email me....my box is always open.

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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 1:17:56 PM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		Dearest Bratling,

I love you.  Believe it.

Truth be told, one of the Mods should have contacted you before this got to far.  That did not happen.  They let it go on and on until other posters were ready to have your head on a platter.  That is unfortunate.

You are a kind soul and I do know that you care for others.  I also realize that you did not understand why posters were getting annoyed and even pissed off with you.

Again, one would think that at least Mod 11 would have stepped up to bat and would have had a go at me before things got so fucked up.  But, this did not happen. 

For this, I am sorry.

No, I do not wish to see you go.  That was never my intention.  I think that you should take Benji's advice, as that is what advice I would have given, but he got here first, damn pup!

Go or stay, that is your choice.  But, and this is a big one, no one really wants to see you leave.  You have as much right to be here as anyone.  And if ANYONE thinks that this is a ploy for validation, well, then they are free to email me personally.  Yes, you probably feel that you need validation, but I understand that this thread was not for that intent.  And if I wanted you to leave, I would have said so.  Do you think that I would not have?  I pretty much voice my opinions and, dammit girl, I never said that!!!! 

I hope to see you on the boards.  I also hope to see you with a more mature attitude.  Because otherwise. . . . well, that just gives me fodder for mocking.

BTW it is spelled apology.

See, I just cannot resist.

I love you anyway. 

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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 1:25:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok im gunna apologise again for loseing track of this thread a bit but my sister was so kind and shared her stomach flue with me and Im getting sea sick scrolling to get to all the names of people that said things that I would like to thank them for... im gunna take a break for a bit and I will reply to all of you indavidualy when Im feeling a bit better right now I just say thank you in general.

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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 1:55:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		See, good ide, and a mature attitude. . . I see that my work here is going well. . .


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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 2:00:35 PM   
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quote:

good ide


I think thats *good idea*

and I couldn't resist

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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 2:40:30 PM   
SavageFaerie


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RE: apollogy - 8/4/2006 10:21:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		i hope you feel betta soon enigma, and i look forward to chatting with you again soon hun.
 
take care.
 
all my luv,
 
shiv
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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 3:08:26 AM   
LaMalinche


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WayWardSoul

quote:

good ide


I think thats *good idea*

and I couldn't resist


One FUCKING typo. . . do you really want me to start finding yours?

Okay, let's get this clear.  BACK THE FUCK OFF FROM HER

Yes I know what you all are saying with the validation thing.  But good gawd damn. .  give it a fucking rest.

Yes, she in fact does need validation.

I started the shit-storm, and now I am going to step in.

She was asked to get others opinions.  Yep, that is a self-validation tactic.  But because of what I started, and other people joined in on (misst, I am leaving you out of this) she felt that she should not be here anymore.  Yet, she really does need to hear things like Benji's advice. 

So, you all can back off, or you can personal message me.  I do not care which.  I can and will deal with either. 

But, and this is a big one, do NOT FUCK WITH SOMEONE'S INSECURITIES AN VULNERABILITIES.  It pisses me off.  And we all know what happens when I am pissed.

WWS, shut the fuck up.

RavenMuse, I adore you and know that you only want the best for her.

Slutterfly, you are a great friend.

IronBear, I do not know if you will ever understand the respect and admiration that I hold for you.  Thank you sir.

Sage, well, done.

Shivvy, you are one of those that otheres are priveledged to know.  God keep you and find you safe.

Chantrea, you are another.

VandalHeart, well, you already know my thoughts.

And to the rest of you, if you do not back off and let this girl find some source of feel good in a world that has turned its back on her, well, just wait until I GET A HOLD OF YOU.  Becasue I do not pull punches.


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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 3:48:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		OK, for those who follow the Complaints thead.... you might have spotted what I said about Daddysredhead and chincillas in regards to small sweet girls having a hissy fit....

LaMa, would this be a bad time to point out that you are very CUTE


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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 1:48:42 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

I'm starting this thread in order to apologize.
After having a few days to cool down from my highly emotional charged state I can  now look back and see what an idiot I have made of myself. I know that there are many that I have upset and/or pissed of with my behaviors on the boards and I would just like to say that I never meant to upset anyone.
   I wasn't trying to be dramatic when I said I was leaving the board because that is, in fact, my intent.  I dont want to upset anyone, and if my posts do that, then I don't need to be posting. However, I felt everyone deserved an apology, which is the right thing to do.
   I know that a lot of people have tried to help me and it seemed as if I didn't appreciate it. This is not the case.  I did appreciate all the help I have been given. I know it is no excuse but right now I am just hurt and scared and it has been pointed out to me that I have been very immature and I guess I agree with that.
   I now have someone watching out and taking care of me and He is going to be keeping me in line.  He even proofread and spell-checked this post for me.
   I want to thank all of you that have been there for me and once again I want to apologize to all the peopole I have upset or hurt.  If you would like me to leave, please let me know, and I will leave.  If you want me to stay, again, let me know.  If SavageFaerie or SleazyButterfly answer this question, I will take their opinion the most right now, because I think I have hurt them the most.  I'm sorry, Sage and Flutterby - if you want me to stop posting on these boards, I only ask that you forgive me before I go.

With humble respect and love,
your Bratling


I will be direct as always....  I don't care if you stay or go... and frankly... you should care if I care or don't care....

YOU should however, care about how you feel if you go or stay.  You should care if being here is helpful and postive for your happiness and growth.  So really.... dispite all that occurs on these boards.... do you enjoy being here... forget about what others feel or thing.... what do you feel and think?  For in the end.... really that is what matters right now.

My hat goes off to you for having the strength to apologize.  But, please keep that strength!  Don't allow others to decide if you should stay or not stay.  The question of staying is only one you should decide.

I don't care if you stay or go.... But,... I do care that you make the choice that will be the Best for you!  So what is Best for you?

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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 2:55:33 PM   
enigmabrat


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Status: offline 		Ok lets see here I dont want to forget anyone as I appreciate all of the feedback (almost all of it )
 
IronBear you are kind and I thank you for your words.
 
Joy... If VH doesnt mind Im just going to ignore what you said as I really dont need provocation even if you are only jokeing, please this thread wasnt made for jokeing (like im one to talk about something like that)
 
Shivv let me just say you are too sweet for words and someone i would never dream of intentionaly hurting so Im gunna take this time right now to personaly apologise to you for any way I may have hurt you.

twicehappy... you advise is great and deffinetly noted thank you

Arpig we are all grown up though i dont always act it which is what brings us here now but thank you i will be trying harder to act like the 22 year old I am and not the 5 year old I feel like.

Wayward thank you as it does seem as if you are trying to defend me here and while all that has happend has hurt me I do need to take some responsability for it.

LaMa I do love you and thank you for all your posts but asspecially for that last one sticking up for me!!!

and Lastly but not least (only cus you were the last to reply) KoMist.. thank you you bring level headedness to this without putting me down thank you

-bratling- 

< Message edited by enigmabrat -- 8/5/2006 3:01:07 PM >

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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 2:57:58 PM   
joyinslavery


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quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

Ok lets see here I dont want to forget anyone as I appreciate all of the feedback (almost all of it )
 
IronBear you are kind and I thank you for your words.
 
Joy... If VH doesnt mind Im just going to ignore what you said as I really dont need provocation even if you are only jokeing, please this thread wasnt made for jokeing (like im one to talk about something like that)
 
Shivv let me just say you are too sweet for words and someone i would never dream of intentionaly hurting so Im gunna take this time right now to personaly apologise to you for any way I may have hurt you.


Ok. I think that's best.  Most people do anyway. 

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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 3:02:10 PM   
enigmabrat


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Status: offline 		grr Joy got it befor I finished editing darn thing sent itself in LOL and I wasnt finished!!!!!!!!!!!! so GRR

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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 8:55:17 PM   
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Heya Bratling!!  I just wanted to tellyou I love you!!  and people just need to get over stupid shit.. it's no reason to leave... If people can't take a Fuck, Joke 'em..... you know? lol  ::muah::

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RE: apollogy - 8/5/2006 8:58:50 PM   
enigmabrat


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RE: apollogy - 8/6/2006 2:17:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm very proud of you, bratling.  You're blue post was wonderful.  Knight, you still rock.  Every time I see you post, I am reminded of that.

WWS...you know what, you don't even deserve a response after what you said yesterday afternoon.

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