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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:33:45 AM

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I think that some people should have to take a test and prove they are competent adults before are allowed to operate a computer. If this happened in my community I would tell her that she needed to grow up and get a life and not waste my time or anyone else's with such juvenile bullshit. I'd see it as an immature, drama filled attempt at attention....so that is the LAST thing she'd get from me.

I'm sorry but I just can not understand how people can get themselves in such a twist over words on a computer screen. That is idiocy. Walk away people...

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:38:41 AM

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Just reads, and then starts laughing his ass off.....

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:43:18 AM

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Why do I read things like this in the morning and give myself a headache before I even start the day?

She's a drama queen. And, given her initial insulting reply to a note, an obnoxious one at that.

He's stubborn. And given the use of someone else's name to send another note, he's one of those whose stubborn behavior seems to be born of immaturity.

The two of them must be trying for a new level of inanity.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:47:31 AM

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The two of them must be trying for a new level of inanity.

hehe. I think they are probably perfect for each other.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:49:20 AM

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But to say he scares her and she had to leave is Balogney.

Maybe, maybe not. What is this girl's background? For all we know a cyber stalker showed up at her house and then raped her. We don't get to dictate what frightens other people. She might be genuinely frightened.

What he did was reprehensible. We're told that "No, means no". Apparently not for him, which makes him untrustworthy in my eyes. Some might view that inability to accept "no" as making him a possibly dangerous person.

So in answer to "Did she go too far?" A definitive maybe.

But I will agree, they both eagerly participated in the drama.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:50:04 AM

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Both of them need to go home, sit in the Lotus position, and chant the wannabe B/D/S/M mantra:

LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME! OOOH YES...LOOK AT ME!

Don't you wish you could close a thread on account of mind-numbing stupidity? And yes, Benji is right. WHY are we discussing this?

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 6:53:11 AM

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Don't you wish you could close a thread on account of mind-numbing stupidity? And yes, Benji is right. WHY are we discussing this?

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:03:11 AM

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Oside, what "scares" someone is kind of irrelevant in a case like this.
If the other party can "show damages" which would be easy to do as she told witnesses, she could be in deep doo doo.
I hope she's not "afraid" of Courtrooms! Or lawyers.

P.S. You can't go around "accusing" people of being a stalker in public.
If she was "scared" or "afraid" that's what the Police are there for.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:05:22 AM

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WHY are we discussing this?

Well personally because I have nothing better to do with my time.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:08:14 AM

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Arpig, same here, I'm just finishing a cup of coffee before going to the gym for an appointment with the trainer. lol Slow day today I guess.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:18:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Oside, what "scares" someone is kind of irrelevant in a case like this.
If the other party can "show damages" which would be easy to do as she told witnesses, she could be in deep doo doo.
I hope she's not "afraid" of Courtrooms! Or lawyers.

P.S. You can't go around "accusing" people of being a stalker in public.
If she was "scared" or "afraid" that's what the Police are there for.

I don't agree with her labeling him as stalker. I was specifically addressing the fact that many here dismissed her fear as silly or nonexistant. It could be. But, since we don't know what she's been through in life, we can't say for sure whether she is genuinely afraid or just being a drama queen.

Repeated and determined contacts from someone that lives in my area, would concern me too. I wouldn't go around labeling him as a stalker or dangerous to everyone I met, but I sure as hell would tell my friends that his behaviour was questionable.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:19:01 AM

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I loved LA's response here ..... I was going to start with some simpler ...... can we all say BULLSHIT .... ferkin kiddie crap .. as someone who has dealt with internet stalkers in the past what he did does not constitute stalking he was responding to the initial insults of this girl was he wrong .. maybe . I think more his ego got in the way as happens alot. if she takes the time to send him an e-mail insulting his submissives taught way she should in fact have the balls to stand there and here the response outright. this sounds like her and her group are nothing more then a bunch a bittys wanting to be attention whores .... I personally would show up at the local function ... and make she saw me there. then when her and her attention whore group jumped up to say something turn it right on them with copies of everything ... if I went and nothing more was said then let sleeping dogs lie. but to sit there and tell a group your scared by a Dom after you slung an insult at him .. and insulted his girl too ... please ... grow the fuck up and get a real clue.

but this is just my opinion

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:19:32 AM

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I would question the OP why she/he is airing other peoples business in the forum although kind enough not to mention names, especially seeing that they frequent this board as was stated. Is this not extending the drama?

I like the way You think Tamerofwild1s :)

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:25:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

I loved LA's response here ..... I was going to start with some simpler ...... can we all say BULLSHIT .... ferkin kiddie crap .. as someone who has dealt with internet stalkers in the past what he did does not constitute stalking he was responding to the initial insults of this girl was he wrong .. maybe . I think more his ego got in the way as happens alot. if she takes the time to send him an e-mail insulting his submissives taught way she should in fact have the balls to stand there and here the response outright. this sounds like her and her group are nothing more then a bunch a bittys wanting to be attention whores .... I personally would show up at the local function ... and make she saw me there. then when her and her attention whore group jumped up to say something turn it right on them with copies of everything ... if I went and nothing more was said then let sleeping dogs lie. but to sit there and tell a group your scared by a Dom after you slung an insult at him .. and insulted his girl too ... please ... grow the fuck up and get a real clue.

but this is just my opinion

Again, we do not know the contents of his emails to her.

For all we know, the initial email could have been offensive to her. Maybe she was just a twat to someone initiating contact.

Maybe the four emails that came after being blocked said, "I'm going to beat you, kill you, chop you up" etc.

Maybe she was genuinely frightened. Maybe she's an attention slut looking for drama.

We have a fourth party view of this situation, only one sideof the story which has been given from a third party's view andno information from either of the original two participants. So, making a judgement about the situation should be deferred.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:31:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: aleshaDreams

I would question the OP why she/he is airing other peoples business in the forum although kind enough not to mention names, especially seeing that they frequent this board as was stated. Is this not extending the drama?

I like the way You think Tamerofwild1s :)

Yes,it is not helping the drama.

Petty attempts at public retribution over such a small matter do not make either the op or her dom look very good.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:38:44 AM

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Wow...i should think i am at home watching my teenagers get all in a miff over whose using slandering comments and gossip and smart assed remarks on each other's millions of myspace sites! Sheesh! Then it is a matter what time and place they are gonna throw down...i make the excuse that they are just teenagers doing what teens often do......nuff said.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:41:01 AM

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as someone who has dealt with these insults here on collarme in the past I want to point out one thing .. we as Doms and Masters Dommes and Mistress' have certain things we are supposed to do . one of those things I put high on my list is to protect my girl .... and to defend her honor. I have done this in the past as well . persons here on collarme had insulted my girl and her submission based on the fact she would not come play with them when she was collared to me . she tried to explain things to them they blocked her . she refered it to me . I defended her honor in a reply to them by which they appropriately insulted and threatened me then blocked me as well ... were they afraid . I don'tbelieve it for a minute. in this case . it would appear from the OP that the Dom was doing that . first off trying to defend the honor of his girl. secondly it would appear he was trying to defend his own honor. this girl who was crying I'm afraid can't be all too fearful if she can sit at her desk and throw insults at people. Now comes her greatest drama moment for which she will deserve an academy award she is going to publicly insult him and disparage his character by telling the local community he is a stalker ........ does anyone else see something totally wrong here or am I the only one. when you defame someones character it is a crime.
To sit there and say this girl is scared . I think personally thats a load of .. what did someone call thats tuff . oh yes Horse Pucky.

if you cast a stone a bear cub ..... when the mama bear reacts and comes at you defending her cub and you cast a stone at the mama .. your asking for what you get ... a response. if your that scared ... when the mama comes at you . run like hell and get help don't keep throwing the dam rocks

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:42:11 AM

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Yeah, it is far too early to take a wait and see attitude. Let's see what develops.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:44:23 AM

Homestead

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This would have been handled better by sending the emails from the offender to the sub group in question. It would have discredited her, and then the others would understand how childish and immature she is.

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RE: Is this going a bit too far? - 8/4/2006 7:49:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s
it would appear from the OP that the Dom was doing that .

Well, the OP wasn't involved. The OP wasn't even the third party. The OP is a friend of the third party who wasn't involved, either. So, we really have no idea what the Dom was doing. It's like a game of telephone, everything has the ability to be distorted down the line.

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To sit there and say this girl is scared . I think personally thats a load of .. what did someone call thats tuff . oh yes Horse Pucky.
Do you know her personally? Ever met her? So, how would you know? You don't, it's just your speculation.

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if you cast a stone a bear cub

Because neither of the two people involved in this are here.....we have no idea who cast that first stone.

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