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SirKenin -> RE: Subtle Suggestion (8/8/2006 4:24:36 PM)
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Well, the way I look at it is that I can not think of everything, and thus am very approachable. This hard nosed routine is for the birds. I guess some poor sap that is suffering severe emotional problems can put up with it, but I can not see the average human being not being able to approach his/her Dom/me and saying "Excuse me, but could we set aside some time to discuss something?" at which time the sub can humbly bring up their suggestion and it can be discussed.
This shitty "I am God" attitude is the reason why people might feel inclined to go behind their Master's/Mistresses's back to begin with. Ultimately they are people in the relationship too, equal in every aspect to you. If you are going to treat them like second class citizens, you can expect to have them eventually tire of it and either leave or go behind your back. That is just a fact of life. You people need to look past the BDSM aspect of it and realize there is a relationship dynamic of two people with their own sets of needs, each equal to the other.
What makes Me laugh and disgusted at the same time is listening to those people that make themselves unapproachable and then have the balls to punish their subs/slaves for doing something behind your back to project their needs or desires. It sounds like you are the ones that need to give your head a shake and evaluate what it is that you are doing wrong. Take some responsibility and ask yourself why your charge felt the need to do that to begin with. Nobody is perfect, remember that.
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