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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 10:16:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

you do realize that now he is going to send you an email and tell you his cock is 5 inches..... since he was actually lying the first time.



Amen!  i have noticed Dik size is flexible... the closer a girl gets to actually seeing the real thing, the smaller he claims it to be...

"I'm actually pretty average...
well, maybe less than average..
well, I'm not sure, I only see other mens diks in the mens room, and we don't look... 
uhm..."

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 10:19:06 AM   
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This reminds me of a joke I heard:

Why is it that women are bad at math?

Because (some) men keep telling them that this ...[holding two hands 4 inches away from each other] ... is 10 inches.

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 10:42:16 AM   
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~fast reply~ is that why, on other adult dating sites most men have pics of their cocks?  LOL

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 11:26:03 AM   
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Why do some men assume that most women want a huge cock? I just received email from a submissive who informed me that he has 10 inches of cock, guarenteed to satisfy me. Yeah? Well guess what? I can't stand large cocks, so that didn't impress me at all. Now, you can impress me by telling me you can lick pussy for hours, THAT would be impressive <s> 
Not a rant,  just curious as to what sexual attribute  <if any> impresses you most about a potential?


That wouldn't impress Me, either.  I actually had a vanilla lover at one time with a huge cock and it was very inconvenient and uncomfortable.  It really restricted the positions we could engage in.  We found that my being on top worked best, but I still had to be very careful or I would end up in agony.  I have had numerous lovers lament the fact that they weren't a little larger, and I told them I was very, very happy with them just the way they were
 
Personally, I don't like getting e-mail from submissive males, or reading profiles, saying how "oral" they are, either.  I have gotten some from braggarts saying that they can do it for hours, that they'd be the best I ever had, etc., etc., ad nauseum.  Honestly, that's not a primary thing I look for in a sub, so that doesn't impress Me, either.
 
I don't think there is any particular sexual attribute that impresses Me, though I do like people who are sensual, responsive, and open to exploring new things.
 
Lady Topaz 

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 11:38:29 AM   
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Ask him if that is in cyber inches.  <========>  = 10 inches.

However, I do believe the ones who say they have 9 inches.. 4.5" going in.....4.5" going out


Is this the "new math" everyone trying to get a hold on ?




LOL  good one DelRey....I was thinking the same thing....LOL

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 11:59:27 AM   
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First if anyone sent me such an email, I'd simply respond with my "have a nice day" line...they usually get the message that their remarks were not appreciated and move on.

In my experiences, the guys with "big ones" are not all that hot in bed, they seem to rely on just being big and don't bother to actually learn anything that pleases.  While the smaller guys I've dated seem to think they can't please in that way, and some are even ashamed of their size, so they do back flips to please in other ways.  First, thing I teach these types is to be proud of what you have, and what you can do, if she the one for you, your "size" shouldn't matter anyway.  Not talking about all men, just the ones I've been around. 

Second, speaking only for me, I do like to watch a man move,as I read in a previous post, and also how a man kisses.  Brains, cliche or not, are a definite turn on.  My big fan crush right now is David Krumholtz, the mathmetician on the tv show "Numbers".  First looking at him, geeky, no particular great body to some, but they way he talks and moves...makes him totally hot to me.  And I love watching him kiss...just makes me melt.  These are the types I like, and the ones I've had the most successful relationships with.

just my 2 cents

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 2:55:00 PM   
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Well at least you know a dogs not gonna give you an STD hehehe.
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Hehehe...This "tongue" statement reminded me about an article i once read, about why women enjoy a dogs tongue so much...lol...ah...nuff said. *grinz


Oh....double Ewwwwwwww

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 3:20:28 PM   
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I have 48 DD's just  a fact of life lol. I don't care who likes it or not, as long as my dom is happy with them.


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Hi Ga,
 
> Why do some men assume that most women want a huge cock?
 
You are making a mistake.  No man assumes most women are looking
for a guy with a huge cock.   But the truth is many females do seek out
guys with big cocks. So if a guy writes, he has 10 inches then he is hoping
that that is what you are looking for, that you like and crave what he has. 
 
I suppose most guys with 10 inch cocks would taut that feature.  
Just because you have little interest in it, does not mean no female
desires it.  It would be just a like a female who wrote she had double Ds. 
Now, I like breasts on the smaller side.  But if some female wrote me
she had double Ds, I wouldn't assume she thought I liked double Ds. I
would think she is tauting what a lot of men find attractive.
 
> Now, you can impress me by telling me you can lick pussy for hours,
> THAT would be impressive <s>
 
I'm not submissive, but I enjoy forcing females to orgasm till it hurts.
I lick pussy all night and day and night till all strength is drained from
their body, and their neither regions are so sore and sensitive, that
any further contact would literially drive them insane.
 
My first two loves, Eva and Stephanie, had been strictly
gay till they met me.  I had never dated a female before
in my life, let alone have a physical encounter with one. 
I had never sexually touched a female in my life. Eva 
and Stephanie lived in a room in a hotel I managed.
Eva was an exotic dancer.  It turns out a lot of exotic
dancers are gay.  She liked looking at the other dancers,
and hated the guys. Eva looked and acted very fem, but
sometimes acted a little tomboyish herself.   She also
had this thing about acting like an innocent little girl. 
When she danced, she danced like she was embarrassed. 
Naturally, she didn't like intercourse.  How we got
together is a long story, but the three of us lived together,
and she taught me how to satisfy her.  Soon, Stephanie
wanted me to do her, too. They eventually each preferred
me doing them, than them doing each other.  Though as
I did each of them, they would kiss and play with each
other.  As things progressed, they both fell in love with
me. Then they started fighting with each other--not over
me--but over everything else.  Gay female lovers always
seem to fight with each other.  Eva kicked Stephanie out.
At this point I had very little say in things.  After Eva
kicked Stephanie out, Eva and I lived together for many
years, till she got heavily into cocaine, and became totally
psychotic. When she started to throw coke bottles at
me for no reason, I had to end things even though I
loved her.  At the time, I didn't realize that the coke
was the cause of her crazy behavior.  She was 
also somewhat bipolar, but it was really the coke
that made her psychotic.  Even in her manic phase
she was never totally psychotic.  At the time, I knew
nothing about how drugs effect people, or anything
about mental illness.  Just prior to managing the
hotel I had been studying religion several years in
something akin to a monestary when I became an
atheist.
 
I never used drugs. Eva was strong-willed but sexually
very submissive, and liked me to hold her hands
over head.  I had never read or seen anything about
bdsm in my life, but did the whole bdsm thing with her.
I would rip or cut her clothes off, tie her up and flog her,
and she loved it.  But I knew nothing about D/s.  Bdsm
just came out of me naturally.  There was one time she
wanted to tie me up and whip me, and I let her, and
she went wild.   We both did a lot of things that a lot
people in the bdsm community do, without either of us
ever having been taught or exposed to it.
 
Gay females say no one knows who to pleasure a female
like another female, so I found it a boost to my ego, that
Eva and Stephanie each preferred me to go down on them
than each of them.
 
Best regards,
Michael
 
 

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 3:30:48 PM   
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Interesting topic.  Personally, I'm only 5'4" and small framed.  I wouldn't want a guy who was hugely endowed.  I would say from what I've read that my pup is average in length and probably average or a little bigger in width.  Personally, I've no fault to find with his performance!  Rawr.  He's also quite good at licking pussy and getting more talented at it the more he works at it.  Now THERE is an impressive attribute in my  book!
 
I find it's more of a mental and emotional connection that's needed than any particular physical attribute as far as sexual attraction goes.  I suppose physically I might say I liked guys who are about six foot and in shape without being the body-builder type.  Pup is neither of those things.  Who he is more than makes up for that.  He does have nice green eyes.
 
As for me... I've never liked my face or my small breasts.  But apparently there is someone for everybody, because it honestly seems like Pup loves both.  I'm only a 32A in breast size.  My waist is naturally on the slender side and I'm short-waisted to boot.  This makes my legs slightly longer than average.  Perhaps he's a leg and butt kind of guy. 
 
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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 3:38:46 PM   
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Hi Zuma,
 
Small breasts don't sag, look natural, and athletic.  I prefer breasts on the medium
to small side for this reason, but the physical attribute that attracts me the most is
a winning smile.   When happiness is on the face of people around me, especially
someone I really care about, I am happy.  Some people read the eyes of another
to see their feelings, I read feelings by looking at their mouth.
 
Michael

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 5:36:09 PM   
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Not a rant,  just curious as to what sexual attribute  <if any> impresses you most about a potential?


The kissing is far-n-way my favorite. A warm, kinky, romantic lady can't be beat. This isn't a sexual attribute....but I rarely stay home.... So I like a very active girl. Life is way too short to be cooped up in a house { No matter how nice the house}


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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 8:01:28 PM   
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Ok the sexual attributes  in a partner that I really go for are  is a large chunky torso; wide shouldars; heavy pecs, a solid tummy and fur...warm strong hands are nice too
And these ultra sexy bodies must also have a fun geeky streak and a huge throbbing turgid <whimper> brain....
Which is why my partner is an astro-physicist and my lovers are a mathematician and a Computer Sciencist respectivly.......(Dollbecky: supporting science one geek at a time)
.Just because I like the a certain type of body doesn't mean the brains and soul, dont matter to me, it sometimes feels as if you have to go for one or the other..











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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 8:22:52 PM   
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Hi FelinePersuasion,
 
> I have 48 DD's just  a fact of life lol. I don't care who likes it
> or not, as long as my dom is happy with them.
 
That is all that matters.  We all have different tastes.  There is
no point in fighting over smell or taste.  We all have different
wants, needs and cravings.
 
All the best,
Michael

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/5/2006 9:24:18 PM   
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I like small breasts on a woman.
I'm more of a "leg and ass man" myself.
Big breasts are just, well...too big.
And of course intelligence and a willingness to try new things.
And a woman who'll laugh at my jokes and likes humor and music.
There's just a certain "look" that first attracts me to a woman.
I can't explain it and that "look" could be on a woman who's very short to one who's very tall.
And of course nice eyes.

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/6/2006 2:15:59 AM   
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you know it's part attitude, part all over look, and part personality/brains.
Like a Zombie I Must Have Braaaaains.
Otherwise I get annoyed and bored with the person.

I will say thier is a combo that makes me melt, and that's the very pale, rosey skinned dark brunette/black haired person, with amazeingly blue eyes.  I always melt at that combo, vividly green eyes with that combo are also great, but not so great as a sky blue.
of course i also have mucho blond and red head love, dont' get me wrong, a lovely woman is a lovely woman, and occasionaly a lovely man is a lovely woman haha ;D

Anyways on the cock note, I have to say I think most guys realise the lenght of the meat, isn't nearly as good as the width.  If it's skinny like a twizzler, you're not going to hit the spots I need to be hit, and if it's to big around, well...only so much can fit in the cave of wonders. :D

I will say though thier is life beyond a teeeny weeenie, if you aren't blessed with great girth or lengh, get in thier and give maximum effort with what god did give you!

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/6/2006 3:46:07 AM   
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Fast reply;

I find that size does matter, as long as they know how to use it, which in most cases they don't..  that ten inch can feel like a plow or tongue, if he strokes me in the right way at the right times,  which usually requires my direction. From my previous experiences as well, most guys lack the ability of how to use their size as well as their mouths, and the ones who brag about it, usually are the most clueless. 

I always measured a man by the size of his balls, myself.

Nina

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/6/2006 7:51:38 AM   
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I always measured a man by the size of his balls, myself.


I love this. It should be a signature line.

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/6/2006 8:21:07 AM   
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This reminds me of an old joke.  How do you measure a cock?  The same way you measure a cat's tail, from the asshole up.  That would answer a lot of questions about how 4 inch cocks end up being 8 inches.

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/6/2006 8:23:47 AM   
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Its all cyber inches, nothing more.

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RE: Physical Attributes? - 8/6/2006 12:15:17 PM   
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Wolf, do you mean "Sacral" dimples? The dimples above a woman's ass?
As for that "black hair blue eyes" combination, go to Ireland! I noticed a LOT of that up there!
My grandparents and father who were from Ireland (Donegal) had that, jet black hair and ice blue eyes. It's very common in the Northern half of Ireland for some reason.
I like Redheads myself.
They must have eighty different shades of red hair in Ireland as well with the very blue eyes and a lot with emerald green eyes.
The women are absolutely stunning!
And they're in very good shape because they all walk a lot over there.

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