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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 1:51:00 PM   
zumala


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edited to speculate on whether or not learning a new sexual trick yesterday has provided some sort of testosterone boost? 

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 1:59:06 PM   
angielouwhos


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Status: offline 		I have always had a really sensitive gag reflex (i have trouble swallowing any pills etc.) and a rather small mouth. I basically had to learn to use my toungue and do the lollipop thing more and also of course to use the face and hands at the same time. I've done the head upside down while lying on the bed thing several times and getting it that way is very challenging. 

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 2:12:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: somethndif

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ORIGINAL: MistressMaamNH
The post reminds Me of a T-shirt I once saw.  And before everyone gets all up in arms..RELAX..it wasn't My t-shirt, nor do I necessarily prescribe to it's sentiments, however, it seems apropos: "Male Doms are just in it for the BJs"
Obviously a scandalous overstatement..


There is another reason to be in this?  Gee, I never knew!!  Would you please explain.  *wink*

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 2:25:19 PM   
wickedredhead4u


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Status: offline 		raiken i also have trouble deep throating. i have a small mouth and along with narrow nasal passges which makes it hard for me to breathe thru my nose . and having sinus problems sure makes for an interesting time :) i guess i need to learn to hold my breath for long periods of time lol.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 2:27:22 PM   
raiken


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Status: offline 		Holding my breath...don't i know about learning this one! Thanks for sharing!

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 2:35:16 PM   
mia1145


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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 2:36:25 PM   
wickedredhead4u


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Status: offline 		your very welcome :) its either learn to hold your breath or try and breath some other way.lol and i wont even think about my gag reflex its not a pretty picture lol 

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 2:53:11 PM   
aleshaDreams


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Status: offline 		omg my favorite thang, nothing like the pleasure being heard from the receiver during this act.  And i do use my teeth just alittle, just for adding sensation.  Just don't ask how long this girl can prolong this act for though, cause she just aint telling lol, skips out of the thread.  ttfn

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 3:13:15 PM   
raiken


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Status: offline 		Now i am curious...and i will probably hate you too! LOL!
 
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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 6:05:36 PM   
stockingluvr54


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Status: offline 		Ladies...ladies...ladies!!!!!!!  Don't sweat it.....  Like the old saying goes "The worst head I ever had was somewhere between magnifcent and outstanding!"

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 6:08:44 PM   
stockingluvr54


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Status: offline 		and on another note.....someone mentioned they were cut loose for not giving head? Just out of curiosity.....any of you ladies cut a guy for not going down on the ol muffin.....??????

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 6:24:28 PM   
Rayne58


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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

quote:

"where to put their teeth".


I ask potentials if removal of natural teeth is a hard limit.

I have never had a problem with using my teeth. I simply do not use them while giving head. I had a very good teacher and I learned at an early age that using teeth is a huge no no, unless of course it is for MY own entertainment <s>

I think that practice makes perfect. The more you do, the better you will be at it.

Edited for typos. More coffee Henry!!


I've only been giving head for about 4 years. I have a small mouth and my jaw did ache at the beginning but with time and practice that has pretty much gone away.

Master is trying to teach me to breathe through my ears but I am having trouble mastering that particular skill I still gag but have found the more aroused I am the less it happens. Master will "encourage" me with the crop and if I have trouble breathing I tap Him firmly 3 times on His leg or butt and He will pull back to let me catch my breath. Sometimes I have to stop to cough or swallow, that's no problem because it just means I have to keep going longer in order for Him to cum

Master has said that I definitely need lots and lots of practice.....

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 6:50:48 PM   
raiken


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ORIGINAL: angielouwhos

I have always had a really sensitive gag reflex (i have trouble swallowing any pills etc.) and a rather small mouth. I basically had to learn to use my toungue and do the lollipop thing more and also of course to use the face and hands at the same time. I've done the head upside down while lying on the bed thing several times and getting it that way is very challenging. 

 
Slurp!  Lollypop helps me too! blush, i also have trouble swallowing pills, and the gag reflex is frustrating to no end!

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 7:16:02 PM   
pup75


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Status: offline 		Zumala pointed this thread out to me, raiken, and I hope I can offer some perspectives that will answer the questions you posed.

From a male's perspective, I can vouch for zumala's ability to give wonderful blow jobs without need for deep throating. You mentioned use of your hands, and I agree -- marvelous substitute. Zumala has all kinds of wonderful tricks. (She says try getting his frenulum between your lips and giving it a light tug and a little tongue.) Makes my heart pound just thinking about it!

From a submissive's perspective, who would want such a shallow Dominant as one that would dismiss you because your jaw medically won't let you give a certain type of blow job? Sure, Doms have the right to be dominant, but before they reach that point, we subs have the right to choose someone with actual substance. :-)

pup75

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 8:00:09 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: wickedredhead4u

your very welcome :) its either learn to hold your breath or try and breath some other way.lol and i wont even think about my gag reflex its not a pretty picture lol 


One sure fire way is to grab the balls of the subject.. Should he go too fast or too deep..I guarantee you,  you  will have an unspoken understanding.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 8:13:47 PM   
catize


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Status: offline 		True story...........my (now ex) husband and I were playing cards with his parents.  "Dad" says, "Marge and I are really in to oral sex now."  Hubby and I dropped our cards and stared, slack jawed at him.  He added, "Yeah, all we do is TALK about it."

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 8:48:47 PM   
obis


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ORIGINAL: MistressMaamNH
"Male Doms are just in it for the BJs"


Bah. I can find a girl to give me a BJ for $20. Finding a good housekeeper to mop the kitchen floor and do the laundy costs a fortune!

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 8:51:42 PM   
Pimpernell


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Status: offline 		Being rejected for not deep throating?
Well, that blows.

Now from my perspective, I've only had 2 girls who could deepthroat me, so I'm used to it.
I know one had her tonsils removed when she was younger, so maybe that's worth a try?
I get enough complaints of saw jaws and hands without worry about them gagging, so I just consider BJs to be the topping on the desert, not the main course.

Yes, us guys do get saw necks and saw jaws from going down on ladies.  One of my ex-girlfriends used to want me to do it all the time, it got to the point where I started to get bad at it because I knew I was going to get a sore neck and jaw so couldn't concentrate properly.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 9:01:58 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Raiken, if you were in an accident and injured your jaw it really ISN'T your fault.
I like a good BJ just like any other guy but deepthroating is a "bonus" if you get it in my opinion.
I've only been with 2 women who could do it anyway.
B.J.s are nice as foreplay but I like penetration more.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/4/2006 11:00:08 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: Pimpernell
Now from my perspective, I've only had 2 girls who could deepthroat me, so I'm used to it.
I know one had her tonsils removed when she was younger, so maybe that's worth a try?

I've never heard anyone suggest that before.  I know I had my tonsils and adenoids removed at age 5 and it doesn't seem to have any effect either way.

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