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WyrdRich -> Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 12:24:24 PM)

        How do subs and masochists feel about driving an hour or so after a scene?  I'm not talking about anything extreme but would a solid spanking have enough impact on your mental state that you would feel unsafe at the wheel?  The discomfort of sitting is part of my plan, but drunk on endorphins isn't.



twicehappy -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 12:32:24 PM)

No way in hell, nor would my owners. Not until the next day, i stay pretty well "loaded"for the rest of the night.



smilezz -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 12:44:15 PM)

I could, have and would again, with exceptions.   Then again, my rush does not come from a scene either.  I do not go into "subspace"  unless that's Thorns intention.  I am one of those people that stay in the here and now, feel every strike, trickle of blood and beg for more when He stops.
I suppose that the exception would be "supspace".  After about an hour, i am usually ok, but who knows.  This is one of those questions that is most likely up to each individual.

Happy Friday!

~smilezz~



Homestead -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 12:57:35 PM)

From the top side I let a girl drive like this less than an hour later. My bad for not knowing her limit, hers for shorting us on aftercare time. She almost got in a wreck.

I set time limits for recovery now, or I don't play.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 1:02:34 PM)

I don't drive anyway So I am just stating my opnion for the hell of it, but no. I would not be in the correct mind to drive.  I tend to regress and stay regressed or get very sleepy..

I used to have nightmares about driving as a kid, We;d be in the car bopping along and then oh shit, none of us know how to drive so we crash in a ditch or try to make it home with out cops pulling us over hehehe.



raiken -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 1:12:57 PM)

i have always driven well when loaded, turn on the tunes and enjoy the basking all the way home and into the next day...i never leave a heavy scene abruptly though, always spend some down time, at least an hour getting some comfort and nurture, but i bounce back pretty quick and then off i go ...on the road again...that is just me.
 
Others may take an entire day, evening or weekend, depending on what they can handle both emotionally and physically.  i am a medium to hard maso, so what may seem intense to one, may be mild for myself, and even during an intense scene, i have no problem driving home less than an hour later.  Like i said it varies for each person. 
 
i feel that it is my responsibility to get to know myself enough to make a safe determination in this area.  Then convey as much info as possible to the Master to aid him concerning the intensity of the scene, the methods he wishes to use, and how much after care i really may need, depending on the time factors involved and the intensity of the scene. 



gardenbluebird -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 1:17:01 PM)

After a decent amount of aftercare i am good to drive - usually.  i try to use good judgement and make sure my head is screwed on straight before i get behind the wheel.

There was one time a number of years ago.  i was driving home late at night and needed to stop and buy some gas.  i felt like an idiot because i couldn't remember my atm pin number.  i finally went inside and paid cash.  i guess i was a little loopy then  :)



WyrdRich -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 2:39:39 PM)

    Thanks to all for your input.   Guess the oak paddle stays in the toybox tonight.



OsideGirl -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 2:52:53 PM)

If I'm in subspace, there's no way I could drive. If I haven't reached subspace, I'm fine to drive.



mistoferin -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 2:59:59 PM)

Well, I don't know that play has ever stopped at just a good solid spanking....but no....I would not be comfortable to drive an hour after play. Heck, sometimes it takes me longer than that just to speak.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 3:08:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WyrdRich
How do subs and masochists feel about driving an hour or so after a scene?  I'm not talking about anything extreme but would a solid spanking have enough impact on your mental state that you would feel unsafe at the wheel?  The discomfort of sitting is part of my plan, but drunk on endorphins isn't.

It depends on the scene and what else was going on.

Most times, I'd be fine an hour after a scene.  Sometimes I'm not fine even the next day.

If FORCED to be, anyone can shrug themselves out of headspace and do what needs to be done- it's not a fun experience, but it's possible. 



leakylee -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/4/2006 8:17:55 PM)

I am good. Even if I have had a heavy knife scene and been all floaty for a good while, it doesnt take me long to pull it together. Actually the drive home is almost an extention for me. Open the windows, the sunroof and just cruise and enjoy the night. 



ownedgirlie -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/6/2006 3:09:43 AM)

I have often driven an hour or so after some intense experiences.  It is a 2 hour drive home.  Starbucks helps.



Steelriven -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/6/2006 8:46:39 AM)

I can fly into subspace easily, and can stay there for awhile depending on the scene that just took place. Once after a scene with my ex-dom I stayed in subspace for quite some time, and then when I was comming down he called from work, said a couple of sentances and I flew right back into it.

I can't drive after a scene, unless I really have to. Then I have to shake myself out of subspace, and that's not fun at all.



pissdoll -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/6/2006 5:30:49 PM)

Heh, if he wanted me to leave an hour later, then i didn't do my job well enough.......



Fawne -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/6/2006 7:10:32 PM)

After heavy play, I stay in space for a while. An hour would be absolute minimum. Its like being drunk.

But, then he usually serves another round.. [;)]  so maybe over night.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Can you drive safely after? (8/6/2006 7:13:31 PM)

We had no problem playing then going out for lunch *laugh* Granted it wasnt overly intense, in my opinion, but he is a beginner for the most part.  I suppose it all has to do with how someone reacts to their subspace.



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