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GoddessJules -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/15/2004 9:33:24 PM)
quote: Who Let the Dommes Out?? (I'd like to Thank them). ~Wink Peace Out...Sterlingsweet LOL!!!! Every time I read your signature, it puts a smile on my face (and sometimes I actually laugh out loud.) Thanks! Jules

MystressAna -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/16/2004 12:35:49 AM)
ORIGINAL: gentlesubmissive "... I see that most of the dommes, can't spell or form a logical sentence. ...." You claim to have two Masters degrees. I have two BA's cum laude and a doctorate. You clearly don't use spell or grammar checkers. Thats fine. Most don't when using email or message boards. That being said, I resent your allegation. I also am annoyed that you hold others to a higher standard than you hold yourself. Ana

gentlesubmissive -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/16/2004 6:40:04 AM)
I would like to thank everyone who responded to my question. It is clear though that several took it as a berating of dommes. That was not my intent. I, at times have trouble with spelling. I was never very proficient with our language. I can however get my toughts accross, and do it in a manner that will give the reader some sense of articulation. Just so everyone will know, my degrees are an MBA, and one in finance. I haven't taken an english course since my junior year in high school. There is also the problem of typos. I am horrible on the keyboard. This isn't a request to try to find a domme, although I truly want to find my match, but if anyone would like to chat privately, and discuss my obvious shortcoming, I would be happy to hear from you.

PrincessRainbow -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/16/2004 7:14:53 AM)
OK...this would be my first post on any of these boards...gentle...I would highly recommend that you watch how you pose yourself, as you leave yourself open for attacks. When you imply that We Domme's are not intelligent, and again as was posted previously, hold Us to a higher standard than yourself, you show a lack of intelligence on your part. Belittling one's age is also not a way to get yourself ahead in this lifestyle. Watch yourself, little one as you seem to be out to make enemies with posts like that. One's ability to type and spell on a pc holds no bearing on Her abilities as a true Domme. Granted you have to be able to understand her, but to attempt to raise controversy? Good luck on your search, gentle... I hope that you in time find the Domme of your dreams...until then I wish you peace and serenity in your journey.

sterlingsweet -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/17/2004 2:42:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessJules quote: Who Let the Dommes Out?? (I'd like to Thank them). ~Wink Peace Out...Sterlingsweet LOL!!!! Every time I read your signature, it puts a smile on my face (and sometimes I actually laugh out loud.) Thanks! Jules Hello Jules, I am pleased to be making you smile and laugh. I find that when i read that, it does conger up some pretty humorous visuals for me, hehehe. Then i find myself singing the damn thing for a while, visuals included! Giggles[:D] ~sterling [image]local://upfiles/43644/62F4261668D34825A693BC3248953075.gif[/image]

LuvSponge -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/17/2004 5:48:12 PM)
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gentlesubmissive -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/18/2004 11:59:59 AM)
I notice that the response from some submissives seem to know what I was saying, but the dommes believe we should take them as dominants from what they mean, not how it is presented. This only serves to concern me more. As my profile states, I am searching for the domme to control me for the rest of my life. I am not on this site to play the games that so many dommes say we men play. I want to be happy, and the only way I can do that is to be controlled by a forceful woman. The problem lies in the fact that the first impression of a domme is what is read in a reply. I guess it is human nature to try to analyze the sender without meeting. I am sure that there are many fabulous dominant women out there, but I think that I need one who can be my equal in the vanilla world, and my superior in the lifestyle. Alas, we get so few responses to our inquiries to begin with, I'd be a fool not to explore every opportunity.

darkinshadows -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/18/2004 1:07:37 PM)
Greetings gentle... Firstly... I am not a Dominant nor a switch. I may understand what You are saying, but It does not mean I agree. Forgive me, for I do not mean to sound harsh. But all Angel sees is complaining and whining. You have complained about how Dominias' cannot articulate.... You have complained that You cannot find a 'match'... Your original writings are thus: quote: Is it just me, or do any of the other submissive males out there have doubts about contacting a supposed dominant female that has absoloutely no command of the English language? I see that most of the dommes, can't spell or form a logical sentence. How can a sub respond, when they can't understand what is being asked of them? Then You continue a liitle later on.... in another posting... quote: I guess it is me, but I still can't trust a women that claims to be intelligent, and shows by her writinf that she definately isn't. You then proceed on: quote: That was not my intent. I, at times have trouble with spelling. I was never very proficient with our language. I can however get my toughts accross, and do it in a manner that will give the reader some sense of articulation. Just so everyone will know, my degrees are an MBA, and one in finance. I haven't taken an english course since my junior year in high school. There is also the problem of typos. I am horrible on the keyboard. Why would a person such as yourself require a Dominia of a certain standard, a standard that You cannot even try and reach? Why talk about the inability of Dominias to communicate articulately, if You cannot better yourself in such a way? Do You not think that a Dominia may read your writings, and your profile(which holds very little of interest to draw a Dominia in IMO).... and think that you also cannot write and hold good conversation?

MrCofNewport -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/18/2004 1:26:09 PM)
Good day to all. I am a dominant male. I find that I am turned off by subs who have trouble spelling spelling. (Not a typo) Why don't the dommes in this room, cut this poor guy some slack. I haven't seen one that has anything nice to say. I will guarantee with 100% certainty that if I sent the dommes here a message with all the words spelled wrong, and the sentences cut in half, it would be deleted in a heartbeat. The man makes a legitimate point. I don't believe that any of us would take a possible relationship to the next level if we knew we had nothing that could be discussed intelligently on the intenet, let alone in person. His form may not be the most docile, but his point is well taken.

MizSuz -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/22/2004 1:51:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuvSponge Arrrrggghhhhhh !!!! I CONCUR!!! If there's one thing that's like fingernails on a chalkboard for me it's bad spelling and/or grammar. I'm a sub, and I can say without question...if a Domme can't communicate well, if she doesn't know which of two, too or to to use..."NEXT"! (My profile kinda covers this issue LOL). Better get the condescension out EARLY in the communications, jerkyboy; your comma splices and misuses of the ". . ." convention inevitably leave you with a large amount of pie in your face - and it's not the kind of pie you like either.

gentlesubmissive -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 9:28:41 AM)
It seems as if we have a mixed reaction to my question. I'm glad that there are differing opinions. Hopefully, most of you took the question in the spirit it was intended, and not as someone trying to be superior to dominant females. With my desire for forced feminization and bondage, that could get me in a world of trouble.

sarbonn -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 9:39:55 AM)
To be honest, I don't really care how one communicates (grammar or spelling). I'm educated, but there's always someone more educated than I am, or someone with more wisdom than I have (which is kind of like EVERYONE), so never give that much thought. What does bother me is what I thought the author was originally talking about (although a re-read indicated I was wrong) is when a domme contacts me and communicates in a way that leaves me shaking my head because I can't figure out what she's trying to say. When I try to get a clarification, communication ends immediately, no matter how politely I try to interject. Just a few days ago, a woman was contacting me for possible servitude, and she then said, "you know how to contact me. I believe I gave you my contact info." She didn't actually. So, I politely wrote back and indicated that email was the only contact information I had for her. I never heard from her again.

gentlesubmissive -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 5:20:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sterlingsweet Hello, I happen to be a submissive and don't mean to just rudely jump in here...But as I was reading this thread, I began to think that ""gentle" submissive" has succeeded in what i think he set out to do, maybe because of his problems with getting any well written Domme to respond to him.....Well I believe I count 7 Dommes here, who reponded and even a few sub's. All were very good literati! Too bad you just blew any chance with any of them[:D]. [image]local://upfiles/43644/0F1E6EBF214E481C8A391C6A4596784D.gif[/image]

gentlesubmissive -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 5:23:58 PM)
I wasn't too sure how to add the quote that I blew it wih all the dommes here. I just wanted to let you know that I actually did find the dominant I have been looking for for a very long time. Maybe the question did do me some good after all. I am about to fly her to meet me, and I hope it will be as successful as I know it will. Thanks to everyone for your postings, and I'd like to especially thank all of you who hammered me. My Mistress seems to have taken some pity on me.

MystressAna -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 8:05:47 PM)
Wowie zowie, has anyone else gotten a very long hateful email from gentlesub regarding what they have posted here in his thread? Seems he does not like what at least I had to say and was motivated to send me a nastygram rather than respond to me here in the forum. Ana

GoddessJules -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 8:13:16 PM)
That is just pitiful on his part. shakes my head in disgust

MrCofNewport -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 8:58:47 PM)
Ladies, I'm not surprised that gentlesubmissive did retaliate in some manner. There wasn't one of you that didn't try to rip him a new asshole. I am surprised that he chose not to do it in this forum though. I don't care how dominant one thinks he or she is, we have no right to tell someone that we are offended when the person is trying to make a valid point. Maybe in the future a little constructive critisizm may be in order.

MrCofNewport -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 9:03:08 PM)
Ana, it seems that you may want to learn a little about being dominant before you search out a submissive or slave. Jules, it seems to me that you have an opinion on every subject. it also seems that all submissive men disgust you. Maybe you should look for another hobby. May I suggest body painting, or mask design?

GoddessJules -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 9:08:28 PM)
quote: Jules, it seems to me that you have an opinion on every subject. it also seems that all submissive men disgust you. Maybe you should look for another hobby. May I suggest body painting, or mask design? Look for another hobby when I can just do this to get men like you to hug on my nuts? Now that you are on my left one. . .lemme find another to jump on the right one. It is starting to get a bit jealous. And just for the record, I believe that MrC and gentlesubmissive are the same person. If you look that both profiles, they are done in the same font, they have the same age, weight and height, and they are both in the same area. I'm sure if we request the MODs of the boards to check it out, The posts would have come from the same IP address.

stef -> RE: Question for Dommes (12/27/2004 9:18:00 PM)
You've been here a grand total of 10 days and all three of your posts have been pissy little comments chastising anyone that didn't coddle gentlesubmissive. I think Jules might have hit the nail on the head regarding your 'secret identity'. Refs, can we get this play reviewed? ~stef

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