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tvsarahjo -> RE: Online relationships for novices (8/6/2006 3:58:11 PM)
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Ladies (I am not sure of the proper way to address a group of true female dominants). Thank you all for taking the time to read and then reply to my post. When the replies were slow to come I was afraid I had made a fool of myself.
Your replies have given me much to think about and have helped me to focus on what I need from a relationship and why.
Certainly I am only interested in being trained by a female dominant and this was what I wrote in my profile. It is wrong of me to have deceived this Dom, and I course I be would upset if anyone were to do the same to me, therefore I must tell him the truth.
As to the type of relationship, I have lived alone all my adult life (now 51) and, being shy and in awe of women, have never had a successful vanilla relationship with a woman. I really do need a real life relationship where I can be trained to love, please and obey a dominant woman who will allow me to express my feminine side. If I ever find such a woman I am sure my only true desire would be to please her. I am not transsexual but a crossdressing straight male who adores wearing regular attractive female clothing and longs to be in a subservient role. I am not that keen on a long distance relationship, but I would be willing to eventually relocate within the UK for the right woman. I found a local munch yesterday and will go to their next meeting. This will be a first step into real life.
As indicated in my original post I am dubious about the benefits of online relationships because I feel real human contact is essential for a relationship to have meaning. But in the absence of a real life relationship it is a start which may to something special.
Perhaps this post has focussed to much on my needs, but I have tried to explain my confusion to you. Thank you for your patience and tolerance. I have taken up enough of your time.
sarah jo
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