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elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 3:37:10 PM

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Here's an article from "Great Sexpectations" that i found interesting. I've heard of the elbows and armpits being sensual before but have never personally found them erotic. I am wondering how others feel about it. Of course we all know the anus is erotic. This is from a pretty much vanilla newsletter.

Today's Topic: Love All of Your Partner's Parts

1. ELBOWS - Come on, now, you've never doubted me before,
right? Right? Give me a little leeway here, folks. Okay,
here's my angle: work with the effects of hot and cold. Stay
with me. Any time you very softly kiss or lick an area and
then pull back, the receiver has, in effect, felt warmth
from the kiss/licking, and then coolness as you pull away.
In fact, there might be pleasurable goosebumps as well. Use
this to your advantage when you, again, softly kiss the
elbows and other areas. I SWEAR it will get someone going.
Seriously, folks, who likes the elbows? Write in!

2. ARMPITS - Don't scoff until you try it! Follow my logic:
We all know some people are ticklish when it comes to their
underarms, right? Therefore, it is potentially a sensitive
spot. Okay, maybe you need to back up and wash off first. Um,
deodorant does not taste good, I assure you. Hey, I have to
research the topic first, right? :) Again, use the hot and
cold effects to your benefit. In my official research, I've
found that people lick under the arms and nuzzle the area. I
SWEAR some people enjoy this. If you're one, write in and
share. Try it!

3. ANUS - Yes, people, the anus. I know some of you are shy
and still have yet to experiment in this area. While I
certainly would never want you to anything you sincerely just
don't want to do, I know some of you out there are on the
fence. If you've considered anal play, you don't have to jump
into anal sex right away. Perhaps begin with stroking each
other's anus and then progress to rimming, or anilingus. This
is where you lick the outer rim of the anus. Did I mention
you could shower together first as PART of the foreplay? :)

4. THIS ONE'S FOR YOU, HONEY - I could map out "hot spots"
on the body, marking 12 different areas for your consideration,
but each of us is different. Truly, what turns on one might
repulse the other. So while one person is saying "yes, the
armpits!", maybe you need to experiment some more to find
some of YOUR undetermined hot spots. But, hey, half the fun
IS the experimentation, I promise you! Light some candles,
use some lotion, and just touch each other all over. The
lotion/oil will help you become more turned on and perhaps
help you feel more sensual. Again, the journey is half the
fun, so enjoy the show. Now go experiment!

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 4:03:46 PM

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Nice article ps .... my favorite womanly spots are ....

1. The ankles. I love ankles. And ankle bracelets make me swoon!
2. The back of the knees.
3. The inside of the thigh about an inch below where it meets the pelvis.
4. The base of the spine (that little hollow spot just above the tail bone).
Especially if she has butt dimples. But dimples are sooooo sexy!
5. The base of the neck (where it meets the back)
6. The shoulders (where they slope up to meet the neck)
7. The inside of the elbows and the wrist (at the base of the thumb).

Now if you'll all excuse me, I need to ... uhm ... go relieve myself.

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 4:06:37 PM

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I've always had good results with all areas mentioned. Try what is suggested here, you might be pleasently surprised. However, if your partner is highly ticklish, I would stay away from the armpits. Wouldn't want any one to end up with a broken nose.

And make sure all deoderant is washed off. It is quite nasty. Also, another good spot is the back of the knees. Licking the area and then blowing lightly.

Enjoy!

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 4:10:10 PM

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quote:

Try what is suggested here, you might be pleasently surprised.

Guess i should try it before i knock it, maybe Hubby will find those spots erotic.

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 4:29:31 PM

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Hard, gentle, yet sensitive
the softness of skin meeting the sharpness of His Beard
allowed to place ones lips there
as He speaks
to feel His words as well as hear
ah yes

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 5:26:21 PM

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quote:

Also, another good spot is the back of the knees. Licking the area and then blowing lightly

The last person to try that on me got kicked in the face, I guess I'm a bit too ticklish

Personally, my favorite unusual erotic spot is hands, not so much erotic for them, but for me.
I love "manly hands" The kind that are rough from working outside, with that stubbern smudge of grease from the last car or motorcyle repair, with a bit of hair growing up the outside edge.........gets me every time.

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/15/2004 7:51:39 PM

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In my official research, I've found that people lick under the arms and nuzzle the area. I SWEAR some people enjoy this.

Tis true.

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/16/2004 12:02:50 PM

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I love the palm of mans hands... I love to feel it, kiss it, lick it.. not sure if it turns him on as much as turns me on lol

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/16/2004 2:57:18 PM

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The backs of a woman's knees...
The inside of the elbow/ crook of the arm...
The "Taint"...
The small of a woman's back...

some of my favs..

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/16/2004 6:30:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: siamsa24

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Also, another good spot is the back of the knees. Licking the area and then blowing lightly

The last person to try that on me got kicked in the face, I guess I'm a bit too ticklish

Perhaps you should have been bound first.

LOL

How about starting at the top of the buttocks and running your tongue up the spine to the spot just beyond the shoulder blades? Ok, ok, I'm going to be good now, before I get myself in trouble.

Enjoy!

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/16/2004 6:41:15 PM

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LOL, maybe. I just don't think that giggling was the reaction that he was looking for

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/17/2004 8:59:40 PM

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I think this varies from person to person...Mike

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RE: elbows and armpits? - 12/22/2004 3:09:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alwayzron

Nice article ps .... my favorite womanly spots are ....

6. The shoulders (where they slope up to meet the neck)

Yes!

quote:

ORIGINAL: alwayzron
5. The base of the neck (where it meets the back)

YESSSSSS

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ORIGINAL: alwayzron
4. The base of the spine (that little hollow spot just above the tail bone).
Especially if she has butt dimples. But dimples are sooooo sexy!

YEEEEESSSSS

Yeah, my elbows (and not just the hollow) are pretty sensitive too. Armpits can be, but for me it goes hand-in-hand with the context. In other words, ya gotta do it RIGHT.

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