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proudsub -> RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? (12/22/2004 3:57:19 PM)
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Here's a game that sounds fun and could be adapted for a D/s relationship. It's from a recent issue of "Great Sexpectations".
Today's Topic: A Holiday Scavenger Hunt
The mere fact that you went out of your way to concoct a
fun game just for the two of you will be extremely endearing,
especially this time of year. Instead of attending another
boring office party, obligatory gathering, or even shopping
(you can do it tomorrow night!), tell your beloved that you
have a surprise planned for him/her that night.
I occasionally mention the anticipation factor, so do it up
right by teasing throughout the day - put a note in her purse
previewing what you plan to do to her, leave a voice mail for
him at work, or even have flowers delivered with a naughty
note. Alter the game however you want, making it as expensive
(or cheap) as you need it to be. Again, you really don't have
to spend any money on this unless you want to.
Here's the idea: when your honey comes home, you will be
waiting in the bedroom with the door shut, wearing whatever
you want in whatever atmosphere you want to create. Wear
lingerie, go naked, light candles, leave one light on, what-
ever you want to do. The beauty of this "game" is that you
can tailor it to your personality. Before he/she finds you,
though, they will encounter several steps to follow. Here's
where your preparation comes into play. Write out five to
ten clues, naughty promises of sexual favors to come, or
compliments, again, whatever you want. Each note will clue
them in on how to "advance" to the next station or step.
Start by leaving the first note on the door when they walk
in. The note can say something like (I am not clever AT ALL,
so this is merely a crude guideline to get you started),
"Advance to where we had sex last night." This could be
the couch, bathroom, anywhere that works that obviously
doesn't lead them to the bedroom where you are ultimately
waiting. Or completely make up your own; I'm just giving
ideas. Consider having rose petals on the floor as they
walk through the house, music playing, etc.
At the next station, leave another clue and/or possibly a
gift. The gifts could progressively become more expensive
like a piece of chocolate leading up to a necklace or cost
nothing, like a series of homemade coupons promising sexual
favors. Who wouldn't like that? Really try to be clever and
put thought into your clues. If you have a loving memory (and
it doesn't have to be sexual) in the bathroom, send your
beloved there. You could lead her to the pantry where you
store the tea you made when she had a cold. Or send her to
the baby's room to reminisce about your most special creation
together. This whole "game" could actually turn out to be the
best gift of the season, and he/she will remember the effort
for years to come. All the notes lead up to finding you in
the bedroom, of course.
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