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MissDeb -> RE: When is it time to stop trying? (8/6/2006 3:33:04 PM)
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My dear one ... I am so sorry to hear of your loss and of your need. Allow Me to say that with seven {some say nine levels} of submissives and an equal number of levels of dominants, finding the right person is all too often complicated and long. In addition, as has been noted in many threads, finding the One on-line only adds to the difficulty and complexity. I am pleased to hear that you are not totally giving up. I think that would be the worst thing that you could do, though, as also stated, sometimes when we stop searching - that is the time when we finally locate what needs to be found. Many years of experience also has taught Me that often what we seek is much, much closer than we expect, even to the point that we never look in such location. I have trained young women in the way of submission and domination for many, many years and as I read, I thought of the one with whom I spoke who told Me that in her medium size town there just was no one - so she looked only on the Internet. To make a long story short, I asked about her close neighbors and it seemed that one just down the street from her had grown close - coffee nearly every morning, problems with their spouses, frustrating sexual lives, and so forth. I suggested that she might find an interest in the lifestyle if we moved slowly and carefully to determine a level of trust and interest. In the end, I ended up training them both until they were ready to stand on their own. To My knowledge they are still together and enjoying each other .... If I can be of help, or if you'd just like to talk ... send Me a note in reply. May wisdom guide you ...xx
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