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razorbladekiss -> I need advice (8/8/2006 11:10:51 PM)
Hello I am a new Slave from Oregon and my Master just so hapens to be new also. I was hoping to get advise on how to be a good slave how to act anything I can get really. My Master is looking for a mentor but he told me to get as much advice as I could in the meantime. Any advice will be apreciated thank you.

tangldupinblue -> RE: I need advice (8/8/2006 11:18:07 PM)
i think asking a broad question like that will get you lots of fun replies....but i'll throw my two cents in.....read..read ....read everything you can get you hands, not just the standards like "screw the roses send me the thorns" or "different lovng" but read novels. Elora's cave publishes a good series, i found it at a waldens books. being a good slave means so many different things to so many diferent people that you kinda have to find your own grove.......and never "act" ....always be real....good luck in your journey. blue

razorbladekiss -> RE: I need advice (8/8/2006 11:39:13 PM)
Thank you tangldupinblue I apreciate the advice I have been reading so far my favorite seiries is the claiming of sleeping beauty, but the story of O was great too.

heartfeltsub -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 2:12:59 AM)
i think tangle meant read non-fiction BDSM the how to's like "Different Loving", "SM-101", "Loving Dominant", "Topping Book" or "Bottoming Book"

razorbladekiss -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 3:48:48 AM)
i have some of those too SM 101 is a very informitave book and i am looking for others.

MissTlTTYMilk -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 4:45:29 AM)
use keyword: Castlerealm on the internet to find a comprehensive resource center

ArdRi -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 4:46:53 AM)
quote: read..read ....read everything you can get you hands, not just the standards like "screw the roses send me the thorns" or "different lovng" but read novels. Its all about imagination razorbladekiss. That is your only true limitation, so tangledupinblue is correct. You must expand and exercise your mind before your imagination can truly be tested. This goes for your master too. READ! Ard Ri.

sub4hire -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 7:44:38 AM)
Make him happy and in turn be happy yourself while making him happy. There is no one true way of living the lifestyle. About the only common ground any of us have is we all like some form of kink. Being a slave is not being chained in the basement all day and night. That is mere play. It is a mindset of serving... Few venture beyond play and into the mental aspects.

KnightofMists -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 8:05:53 AM)
Read everything you can... but take everything as a grain of sand.

mnottertail -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 8:16:30 AM)
Look up posts by JohnWarren and go to his website link in his sig line. It is a starting point to the world. Ron

sweetnsoftinpa -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 9:54:12 AM)
i have found the site a submissives journey to be helpful to me it gives both sides of the life.

JessieMe -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 12:57:34 PM)
Go to www.rcdc.org and locate something close to your local area as far as munches and group activities. This organization is based in Portland and is a wonderful resource to those in the area. They have monthly meetings as well as listing the munches in the areas. I used to live in Vancouver WA and my Master and I were very active in this community. One of the things they were wonderful about is helping those who are new to learn the skills and create social contacts within the BDSM community. Good luck to you and if you have any questions feel free to email me off post.

Arpig -> RE: I need advice (8/9/2006 3:50:37 PM)
ask your master what he wants...and then give him just that. There is no universal right or wrong, there is only what the two (or more) of you decide you want.

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