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Should there be professional male submissives to cater for lonely female dominants?


Yeah, gimme some!
  5% (1)
I'm intrigued, but it would never take off
  16% (3)
Isn't that illegal?
  5% (1)
Hmmm...what do you mean by 'good quality'?!!
  5% (1)
No never
  0% (0)
I can play for free, when ever I want!
  27% (5)
I'm a 'relationship only' kind of Gal
  16% (3)
Thats ridiculous!
  22% (4)


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Should there be professional male submissives to cater ... - 8/9/2006 4:30:21 AM   
CuteIrishM4F


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Should there be professional male submissives offering genuine no strings-attatched, sex-free, good quality, BDSM experiances for women who cannot find such good quality for free?

Any thoughts?
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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 5:39:37 AM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		i believe there are pro subs as well as pro-Dommes.. i could see where a new Domme wanting to practice skills might appreciate an experienced bottom, but if you're going to go into business, maybe consider consulting a pro-Domme on how the biz works, safety issues, and basic legal boundries, etc.  If it's just a mattrer of getting paid to get your kink on, well, there is always the jiggalo route.. that often comes with travel perks. lol.

As for just fulfilling the need to serve, (sans the BDMS side)  i can think of a ton of things! 

Volunteering at a womens shelter might satisfy you a lot, and give some women who really need to feel esteemed a boost.  They often need help with child supervision in centers, while the moms are out doing job hunt rounds.  Most centers need handy-man skills, all need assistance with drivers and food service.  Because your service would be in a public setting, ie, you'd be working with a staff of helpers, you'd get to spread your serving joy around, and not develop inappropriate attachments to the recipients, if that makes sense to you.  Service isn't gender-based, those same services can be offered to a Salvation Army shelter, but believe it or not, the Salvation Army is a church even before it is a service organization, although they do not insist volunteers share the same beliefs as the organization.
good luck!

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 7:01:57 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F
Should there be professional male submissives offering genuine no strings-attatched, sex-free, good quality, BDSM experiances for women who cannot find such good quality for free?

Any thoughts?
If you offer something that someone is willing to pay for, by all means do it if it is something you enjoy doing...  As for should, if all the parties are adults and consenting, the should is yes (in my opinion).     M

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 7:03:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose that their could be if that is what she would enjoy, of course there would need to be professional female submissives to take care of the male Dom's as well.

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 7:14:05 AM   
cheshireboy


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Status: offline 		this is an idea i been thinkin on a bit...and even thought about starting up a union here with guidelines etc etc so that it can be easier to pick out who is in it just for the kink, and who is it for the full lifestyle........had questionaire all thought up and even a lil test they have to go through to prove their submissiveness <20 days of chastity>  but never thought if it would work or not.....
 
but prosub....thinking that it could be a great idea. dial 1-800  swat-boy
 
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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 8:24:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I suppose that their could be if that is what she would enjoy, of course there would need to be professional female submissives to take care of the male Dom's as well.

~Lashra

 
Lets not forget the females that are only interested in the females!!!



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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 9:42:21 AM   
CuteIrishM4F


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quote:

this is an idea i been thinkin on a bit...and even thought about starting up a union here with guidelines etc


Perhaps we could discuss an Irish/English alliance for this union? We could have a real business in no time!

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  Lets not forget the females that are only interested in the females!!!

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  of course there would need to be professional female submissives to take care of the male Dom's as well.


We could also have male Doms too. It could start out as a male-submissives for Dommes gig and expand to cater for everyone if it is succesful! Nice one!

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 5:19:15 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F
Should there be professional male submissives offering genuine no strings-attatched, sex-free, good quality, BDSM experiances for women who cannot find such good quality for free?

Any thoughts?


I have nothing against the idea, I just doubt there would be much of a clientele.  If a sub male is serious about doing this, he might test the idea on a part-time basis, while keeping a regular job for a steady income.  If he finds there is really a demand for this, he could go full-time.
 
Personally, I would never spend money on something I can easily get for free.  I happen to know a few attractive, experienced male subs who are great fun to play with, but who are not looking for a relationship (otherwise they would have been snapped up).  However, they are up for play almost anytime.
 
It is possible there are Women out there willing to pay a male pro-sub, but I suspect they would be very small in number.  I think a male pro-sub would probably get more interest from Dominant gay males than from Dominant Females.
 
Lady Topaz

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 10:12:40 PM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		i mentioned in my first post that there are already many working Pro-submissives out there, i just don't know how much market there is for Pro-MALE subs.

but you could check at the Pro-submissives message board..
http://www.professionalsubmissives.com/message/1.html 

Googling Pro-submissives gets good fairly good listing of what's out there. 

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/9/2006 10:38:00 PM   
blondBBWsub


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Status: offline 		I had no idea there were pro subs! Where do I sign up? As far as male pro subs go, I don't personally think it would work. Most women not only have a different way of thinking about things, but tend to budget their money in a different way. Most also don't make the same amount as males doing the same jobs. Also IMO men tend to compartmentalize things in their thinking more than women do. They can keep things such as sex and love separate. To me, they go together. I would not pay for a sub (or Dom) myself. I am looking for a lover/Master. Not for someone to have isolated incidents with.

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/10/2006 5:40:22 AM   
MysticFireTopaz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mavis

i mentioned in my first post that there are already many working Pro-submissives out there, i just don't know how much market there is for Pro-MALE subs.

but you could check at the Pro-submissives message board..
http://www.professionalsubmissives.com/message/1.html 

Googling Pro-submissives gets good fairly good listing of what's out there. 


Interesting...I did see a few male pro-subs listed.  Don't know how well they are doing, though.
 
I do know a couple of female pro-subs.  From what I can tell, they do get some bookings, but don't earn enough to do it full-time.  I would think a male pro-sub would not even do as well as they do.
 
I think blondBBWsub make some good points about additional reasons Women would not be inclined to go to a male pro-sub.
 
Lady Topaz

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RE: Should there be professional male submissives to ca... - 8/10/2006 12:23:05 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I was under the impression that most dominas on here were pretty much inundated with offers, so where did you get the idea there was a large enough number of "lonely" dominas to make such a career viable?

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