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ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 12:14:24 PM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		I am new to CM and I have just posted my profile and pix, I am interested to know if there is anything more I should do to help find my little subbie and to help my little one to find me. And I am, of course, interested in a certain type of woman as my sub., as in a body type, how would I go about letting this be know to potential subs.?
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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 12:21:55 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		Just put on there exactly what you are looking for. Saves confusion later. Hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 12:22:54 PM   
ModeratorEleven


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Status: offline 		That's what your profile is for.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 1:57:30 PM   
popeye1250


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From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Alongrider, plenty of BBW's here if you like 'em big.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 2:01:16 PM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: alongrider

I am new to CM and I have just posted my profile and pix, I am interested to know if there is anything more I should do to help find my little subbie and to help my little one to find me. And I am, of course, interested in a certain type of woman as my sub., as in a body type, how would I go about letting this be know to potential subs.?


... you may want to stop calling them "little subbies".  As far as body type, just say what you want. 



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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 2:06:20 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Well i must say you profile is pretty clear about what you are looking for good luck finding her.

Matt's littleone

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 3:07:37 PM   
Littlepita


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

... you may want to stop calling them "little subbies".  As far as body type, just say what you want. 




Yeah that is a turn off for me as well. Although I call myself a subbie. Go figure!

Good luck in your search alongrider

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/9/2006 4:38:10 PM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		Thanks, I think I will come right out and say it. I am looking for a certain petite type, so I might as well put that in my profile,right? Thanks LotusSong, I am assuming that you do not care for the term,"little subbie",lol.I guess I will try something else, that is just what I think of when I think and my submissive that I am looking for. But you are right, others that are looking at my profile can not read my mind and it is best to come right out and say what I am looking for.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 1:16:47 AM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: alongrider

Thanks, I think I will come right out and say it. I am looking for a certain petite type, so I might as well put that in my profile,right? Thanks LotusSong, I am assuming that you do not care for the term,"little subbie",lol.I guess I will try something else, that is just what I think of when I think and my submissive that I am looking for. But you are right, others that are looking at my profile can not read my mind and it is best to come right out and say what I am looking for.


I usually agree with Lotus Song, but in this I disagree. If "little subbie" is the way you think and feel about her, then leave it in. You want to attract a woman who likes what you like, and thinks the way you do.

Just be yourself. Good luck in your search.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 10:27:04 AM   
Misstoyou


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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

If "little subbie" is the way you think and feel about her, then leave it in. You want to attract a woman who likes what you like, and thinks the way you do.



Yes, and as he's stated, he means it literally as well.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 10:53:54 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		I'd try rewriting Your profile if it was Me---it sounds more like wanking material than a serious search for a quality submissive---IMHO

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 11:53:17 AM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		Mistrees Hathor,I am curious as to what you mean by materal? I am thinking that you are saying that my profile is too dry.




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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 12:08:50 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		IMHO some of the things in Your profile may be better left for more indepth discussions when you are engaging a submissive--but that is just My opinion.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 8:06:07 PM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		I see your point yet I am just trying to let her know what exactly I am lookin' for.Are you sayin' I should try to reel them in with generalities and then get down to the nitty gritty afer they have conacted me?

Tanks,

The Mahinist

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 8:10:35 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
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Status: offline 		think cosmo...........

bullet points..
I want a cocksucker,
a profuounldy submissive woman
I want to have a nice life and you too.....

details are in the meeting, unless you want something that is so far out that you need an act of congress and sacrifice of 16 vestal virgins to do it.......but there was a song like that, so that is also doable, just cuts down on the numbers.

Ron


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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 8:27:14 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


Posts: 3054
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Status: offline 		Read your profile...it seems you have a lot of specific wants and needs..(shrug)..well although I have to commend you for your total honesty, I hope you realize that with such numerous specific needs this will cut down on your....shall we say choices or responses considerably...IMO..I can also say as MHOO said when I read it ...it felt to me to be a wee bit on the wanking side as well, a kind of fantasy play in your own mind...but what ever floats your boat or kink...be well and good luck..Tempting

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/10/2006 9:50:20 PM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		LOL, so you know Procal Harem do you? I saw them in concert yrs ago.I get mixed messages here. Some say to list allof your preferances up front so that the one that you are looking for will know what to expect. And then there are your type that say to hold back.I mean, hell, this is a very obviously sexual sex site, why not let them know right from the get go what your likes and dislikes are.Otherwise I can send me tyme in the vanilla world dating and hoping that I will find that slut that will meet my needs.

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/11/2006 12:58:33 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Collarme.com is NOT a sex site, it's a bdsm personals and forrum.

There is a diffrence.


quote:

ORIGINAL: alongrider

this is a very obviously sexual sex site,


< Message edited by FelinePersuasion -- 8/11/2006 1:02:36 AM >

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/11/2006 1:31:58 AM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		good point

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RE: ANY ADVISE........... - 8/11/2006 5:35:25 AM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Collarme.com is NOT a sex site, it's a bdsm personals and forrum.

There is a diffrence.


quote:

ORIGINAL: alongrider

this is a very obviously sexual sex site,




BRAVO Feline!

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