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RE: Confussed? - 8/9/2006 10:54:53 PM   
enigmabrat


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RE: Confussed? - 8/9/2006 10:56:04 PM   
cutelinygurl84


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Status: offline 		Why would I need to ask my mom premission to chat on an adult site I am 21.

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 3:48:55 AM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: cutelinygurl84

Why would I need to ask my mom premission to chat on an adult site I am 21.

Cutelinygurl84

If you're 21 then get a job, get a car and stop complaining.  Take responsibility for yourself.

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 6:42:30 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
If you're 21 then get a job, get a car and stop complaining.  Take responsibility for yourself.

Agreed.

Now, as far as the man and his house goes- IF he had said to her from the beginning "In my house, if you will be watching my girl play, then you must be naked and join in" then I could completely understand there being a reasonable choice.

For him to suddenly turn the rules around now is completely ridiculous however.  I don't have my friends over for dinner and movies and then the next time tell them they have to get naked if they want to hang out with me.  A good host knows better.

However, little Liny here seems far more interested in running to the boards with her latest "I'm helpless and don't have a life and yet have a daughter I CLAIM to actually care for and be responsible for and yet I'm doing nothing to further myself as a mature adult and am in fact constantly getting into ridiculous situations involving sex and kink"

And Enigma, trusts me, you do nothing to try and defend her honor.

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 6:44:34 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Is this the a new age 21 - god help us all


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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 7:30:41 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 11:12:47 AM   
kitkat


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with the rest. The Dom has a full right to make the rules. I also do NOT think he's trying to get another piece of tail. Pun intended He is telling you what time it is.

You sound more like you're trying to get a REASON for staying and not to leave. Go home, or go somewhere else. Let them have their privacy.

Just my two cents and a bag o chips!

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 11:21:00 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		and this is an issue for us to discuss why?

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 11:26:04 AM   
Owned1


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

and this is an issue for us to discuss why?


Excellent point!!

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 12:01:14 PM   
zumala


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Status: offline 		A 15 minute drive from their house to hers...  I estimate that the distance is probably roughly 3 miles and can be walked in 45 minutes or so.  Exercise is good for you!  Personally, I'd just walk unless the neighborhood is dangerous.
 
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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 12:09:23 PM   
SexyRed


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Status: offline 		Sometimes I worry about the youth of America when I read things like this....

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 1:48:54 PM   
babysburnin


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Status: offline 		I have a bit of a different take.  Yes, Cutelinygurl, take responsibility for yourself.  But, doesn't anyone else find it rude that the friend and her Dom would scene in front of her?  Let's put this in a vanilla context ... Let's say you go over to a friend's house and they say, we are going to boink right now, get naked or go outside.  Oh Please ... talk about inhospitality!  Can't they leave their scenes for when she's not there?

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 2:21:23 PM   
irishdominny


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Status: offline 		you have not gotten the message leave them alone get out I know you have never shown respect to your friends dom and he has allowed you to be there out of respect to his sub( your friend) but has had enought it is not unreasonabel to tell you join in or get out at least he could put you in a closet or some thing if you join in mabe he could get rid of you that way but if you insist on sitting in on there play paying no respect to him or his sub then I can see why he wants you out he has told you he does not want you sexualy ( asking you to be nude was a ploy to get you to go ) as for me I want you out so just go walk home
I know this dom and his wish is for you to go home or any place you like but not in his sessions

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 2:48:06 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: irishdominny
I know this dom and his wish is for you to go home or any place you like but not in his sessions


Mmm drama scented goodness.  I love when offline crap starts stirring in with online crap.

He's not a good enough host or person to simply tell her that she can't come over and hang out anymore? 

What the heck kind of thing is it to say "Get naked or get out" to someone you've had over?  If he doesn't want her around anymore, why on earth give pressure to get her naked and hang around MORE?

Not surprisingly, everyone in this situation is pretty messed up and only feeding off their own drama.

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 2:50:57 PM   
Evanesce


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as for me I want you out so just go walk home
I know this dom and his wish is for you to go home or any place you like but not in his sessions


Hmmm... could it be you're the alleged dom in question?  Or did you just come in here to add to the drama?  If so, then shame on you.  At your age, you should know better.

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 3:09:28 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: cutelinygurl84

Why would I need to ask my mom premission to chat on an adult site I am 21.

Cutelinygurl84


OK hon, here is My opinion which I have refrained from expressing--your profile says you have a Dom--so where the hell is He in all this---you also have a boyfriend--and where is he in all this?  My take---you've had quite a field day on here with your various dramas---how childish can one get?
 
21? you're acting more like 2---

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 3:34:34 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: irishdominny

you have not gotten the message leave them alone get out I know you have never shown respect to your friends dom and he has allowed you to be there out of respect to his sub( your friend) but has had enought it is not unreasonabel to tell you join in or get out at least he could put you in a closet or some thing if you join in mabe he could get rid of you that way but if you insist on sitting in on there play paying no respect to him or his sub then I can see why he wants you out he has told you he does not want you sexualy ( asking you to be nude was a ploy to get you to go ) as for me I want you out so just go walk home
I know this dom and his wish is for you to go home or any place you like but not in his sessions


You are in college now, so stop acting like you are in junior high school. In the adult world you are supposed to tell other adults where you stand and how you feel. You are not supposed to play grad school games to get across your point. If you are the dom in question then you should be able to articulate your message without some unreasonable demand to get someone to do what you would like. If you are just another friend to both of these people, surely your dom friend has more cooth and class than to do as you suggested.

It is a bunch of drama worthy of Jerry Springer. I would wonder if my Dom couldn't keep from scening with me for a couple of hours a week because a friend needed a place to hang out for a couple of hours, or he couldn't communicate the desire that this friend may want to find somewhere else to hang because he had special plans for me. I know that each dominant decides what is what with their submissive, but I would hope any dominant I would choose would value hospitality and kindness more than an hour or two of scening time. That is maturity after all. Perhaps I expect too much from the young ones, seeing that W/we both have teenagers and lives outside of floggings and spankings.

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RE: Confussed? - 8/10/2006 4:07:40 PM   
babysburnin


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: irishdominny
I know this dom and his wish is for you to go home or any place you like but not in his sessions


Mmm drama scented goodness.  I love when offline crap starts stirring in with online crap.

He's not a good enough host or person to simply tell her that she can't come over and hang out anymore? 

What the heck kind of thing is it to say "Get naked or get out" to someone you've had over?  If he doesn't want her around anymore, why on earth give pressure to get her naked and hang around MORE?

Not surprisingly, everyone in this situation is pretty messed up and only feeding off their own drama.


Omen.  Why are we wasting our thoughts, advice and time? 

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RE: Confused? - 8/10/2006 4:14:52 PM   
wantitnow569


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Status: offline 		*shaking head violently* Dom or no Dom, sub or  no sub...in my opinion, this is all just a matter of common freaking sense... i mean come on...You are 21 and You don't have a job?? And  yet You are going to come on a site like this one and whine that Your mommy won't give You bus fair? GET A JOB!!! GET A LIFE!!! Just so You know, i'm not completely uncompassionate to the life out there and how hard it is...i put myself through college, worked full time, and paid my own way in this world long before i hit 18....
*sigh*
tell me i'm not getting old!!! grrrr

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RE: Confused? - 8/10/2006 4:23:41 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Listen, people,

Whoever is giving these newbies crack, stop, okay?  It was funny for a while, but now it's kinda stupid. 

Yours,


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