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juliaoceania -> RE: Confused? (8/10/2006 4:34:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji Listen, people, Whoever is giving these newbies crack, stop, okay? It was funny for a while, but now it's kinda stupid. Yours, benji LOL Benji

enigmabrat -> RE: Confused? (8/10/2006 5:18:35 PM)
ok first bejni LOL very cute.. and secent does anyone els see that maybe this "Dom" Should use a little common sence cant he hulster his cock while the girl is around I mean really talk about not beeing able to controll yourself why in the world does he have to scene while she is there. Give me a break, She was promised by this sub her friend a ride to and from school on tuesdays and thursdays she isnt at their house so long that he cant wait till she issnt there to play. And if he HAS to scene why cant see sit in another room and watch TV... She says he wants to be able to walk around his entire house naked and if she isnt naked too he doesnt think its fair he walks around his house naked then.. man keep your cloths on when you have company. There is a lot more to this story then people on these boards know. She is young and very confused she has made some bad choices and in many ways is very imetture. We all had trouble as newbies here so please just a little bit of compation for this girl she is haveing a hard time of it now as we all have had in the past. She isnt totaly right I give that but please we need not make her feel worse.

gooddogbenji -> RE: Confused? (8/10/2006 5:25:57 PM)
mmmmkay.... If she doesn't want to tell the whole story then either she shouldn't post at all, or not get upset when we ask "What the fuck?" If someone comes over to my house, they are my guest, and live by my rules. They don't like'm, get out. It may not be the friendliest policy, but it's my house. If someone is nice enough to offer me rides to school, and her Dom decides that, no, she will not give me rides, that is (presumably) his right to do so. Why abuse the priveledge and show up early to watch them play? Why not show up 2 minutes before they leave? I really don't see how this is an issue! Yours, benji

MHOO314 -> RE: Confused? (8/10/2006 7:17:32 PM)
Well hon, here is the 411, I'd love to have compassion but her profile and her postings are diametrically opposed to what she tells us---so excuse some of us for suspicion---now if you ask Me, they are ALL screwed up----he for his idiot insistence of her playing too and the "scening" when someone is visiting--he has an exhibitionist complex---and the one who stays for their intimate time is a voyeur--IMHO everyone here is major messed up--and a 21 yr old newbie helping a 21 yr old newbie is a prescription for disaster---and since she put it out here and asked our advice, she got it-- Grow up and use your common sense.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Confussed? (8/10/2006 9:54:20 PM)
Ever stop to think she spelled it nacked on purpose, as self expression? quote: ORIGINAL: Submotive quote: he wants to be able to walk around nacked OMG - nacked? - gee - hope it didn't hurt. It's naked - not nacked. And sorry, but i really don't see why this is a problem. Just leave so you don't get nacked too. LOL i can't help it - poor spelling just cracks me up and brings out all my sarcasm and feistiness. [sm=flowers.gif]

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Confussed? (8/10/2006 10:02:56 PM)
You're 21 act like it. Once you get to the house walk home. Get a coat get gloves get a scarf bundle up and take the walk. Certaintly don't act helpless and all like oh I have to be prostituted and played with against will. I'd tell the dude where to step off and I'd just walk home. quote: ORIGINAL: cutelinygurl84 I got friends who drive ya but most are away at college in other states. How can I take a bus if my parents wont give me money for one. I got no means to suposrt myself and taking a cab or bus the money addes up every week. Money I need for bills buying myself clothes and saving so I can move out of my house eventually. But I guess I will have my friend drive me to school in the morning and just have to find another way home or walk somewhere after school till they are done. Cutelinygurl84

gandalf0297 -> RE: Confussed? (8/10/2006 10:35:53 PM)
you gotta be kidding me.............................................

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Confussed? (8/10/2006 10:53:01 PM)
Me personally, cause I am bored aint shit else to do and my tv remote is missing so I can't change tv channels. quote: Omen. Why are we wasting our thoughts, advice and time?

Arpig -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 8:07:22 AM)
You know, it seems to me there is a very simple solution to all this...get an after school job...keeps you busy til your mom can pick you up & gets you the money you need for those bills & clothes, etc. Oh and since you are in college, might I suggest you look into some remedial english programs

raiken -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 9:18:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling Is this the a new age 21 - god help us all NO! No way! My teenagers are more responsible than this girl! Sheesh! Please don't judge young ppl in this way, i hate those type of blanket thoughts...grrrrr....*wink

raiken -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 9:20:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SexyRed Sometimes I worry about the youth of America when I read things like this.... Don't. Many youth i know, are FAR from this type of mentality.

sleazybutterfly -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 10:57:04 AM)
Why don't you think about the bus money you could be saving if you bought the twenty dollar top, instead of the forty? I would much rather keep a cheap shirt on, than take an expensive one off. A bus costs, what? 75cents.. a dollar, maybe.. I am sure you probably spend that much in lip gloss a month.

nylidom -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 2:10:02 PM)
ok I am confused , this is just silly you say " I got to be at her house when they play "so the play is scheduled before school and you show up for the sessions uninvited. that makes you a intruder, so much for the rude dom responces LOL ok then the Dom invites you to join the session your chance to take part BUT NO you refuse and demand to be in there session as a vanilla person that will not follow the doms rules so he tell you that you can not be there it's not uncommon to tell intruders to get out your questions and conernes1 -1 I dont feel right getting nacked* ( naked) in front of them 1-1 the answer then do not do it , 2-1 I am not his sub so why shuld I have to get naked*and partake 2-1 answer you do not have to get naked or partake. however you also are not invited to be there you are a intruder and he has every right to trow you out . bottom line you are intruding and not wanted you shuld know better get out

femalewonderer -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 2:49:02 PM)
I just gotta comment on this. I'M 21. I've been living with my bf for 1,5 year now, and at the moment I'm workin part-time at the small place that he owns while having his 4 and 11 year old staying here 7 days at a time, since it's their daddy-time during the summer. All this because he had to go away for a litte while. So PLEASE do not tell people to stop treating you like a child, because you're actually acting just like one... And your nick suggests you're born a year before me, even... ________ Female Wonderer

juliaoceania -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 2:52:02 PM)
I almost completely agree with you in every single way.. he has the right (Im not sure that it was established that the home was his though, I thought it may belong to the submissive only, which doesn't matter if she is his property I suppose, and I thought she was invited by the submissive, although I may have misunderstood the post seeing it was "confussing" to me). The one area where we part company is that in my experience mature people do not give sexual ultimatums for laughs or effect. They state things in a mature way. It was crass and creepy to tell someone, "Get nacked or get out", I wouldn't behave this way, and I wouldn't respect that behavior in my Dominant if he did this (he wouldn't I assure you). Why not just explain in a reasonable manner, "Listen, you hang out here too much and you are cutting into the intimacy time I have with my submissive. Please find somewhere else to hang out when my sub is not giving you a ride to class because if you do not I will perhaps refuse her permission to give you rides anymore, and I wouldn't want to do that". It sure is a lot more classy, and a lot more mature. But from reading the responses from all parties to this drama, I do not think there is a one of them that has the necessary class or maturity to behave this way... Just me could be wrong

gooddogbenji -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 3:09:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania But from reading the responses from all parties to this drama, I do not think there is a one of them that has the necessary class or maturity to behave this way... Wait. Did I just get insulted, or was that aimed at the people involved in the drama? Cuz if I get insulted, I at least want a beating too. Otherwise, it's a half ass job. Yours, benji

juliaoceania -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 3:23:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania But from reading the responses from all parties to this drama, I do not think there is a one of them that has the necessary class or maturity to behave this way... Wait. Did I just get insulted, or was that aimed at the people involved in the drama? Cuz if I get insulted, I at least want a beating too. Otherwise, it's a half ass job. Yours, benji Benji, I would never insult you without beating you too! Geesh, what do you think I am, some half-assed domme? I was speaking of those directly involved with the Jerry Springer Show

justheather -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 7:37:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cutelinygurl84 But if I got no choice I guess I will do it b/c sitting in the cold is no options when its winter. Cutelinygurl84 Im sorry, did I miss the big ceremony where they moved Long Island to the Southern hemisphere? It's August. Are you meaning to say you do not believe you have the mental capacity to come up with a solution to where you will wait for your mom to pick you up so you dont have to get naked with your friend and her boyfriend by the time it snows again?

juliaoceania -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 7:48:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: justheather quote: ORIGINAL: cutelinygurl84 But if I got no choice I guess I will do it b/c sitting in the cold is no options when its winter. Cutelinygurl84 Im sorry, did I miss the big ceremony where they moved Long Island to the Southern hemisphere? It's August. Are you meaning to say you do not believe you have the mental capacity to come up with a solution to where you will wait for your mom to pick you up so you dont have to get naked with your friend and her boyfriend by the time it snows again? This crossed my mind too, but there was so much wrong with this post I didn't know where to start..smiles.

DanielsHeart -> RE: Confussed? (8/11/2006 8:14:57 PM)
I did not want to reply to this post yet here I am compelled all of a sudden to do just that. cutelinygurl.. Common sense should tell you that you are not welcome at their home. No matter who is at fault here, you should just not be there. You are feeling uncomfortable with what he is expecting of you, so you should just not be there. You do not need to 'agree' with what they do, nor do you need to compy with what he is asking you to do, but you need to understand that it is not your home and you do not make the rules there. For safety alone you should find a better situation. Find a bus, take the walk, get a job, take responsibility for yourself.........all of those things were good advice. At 21 you need to accept responsibilities for yourself and your safety. Good luck to you. Daniel's heart.

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